365 Days Of Brighter Thinking

16/01/2024

Where do you find resilience? Where does it live?

It's not something you can buy but rather something you find a seed of. It plants itself in the depths of you one day and grows.

For me, I'd rather that you didn't have to have a lot of it, but over the years it accrues to a sizeable amount. Some of us needing more of it than others, even just to carry on from day to day.

One thing is for sure, as a woman in your fifties in business, you will have earned a good dose of it and you need that to propel you forward.

To turn on your resilience means to not bother about what others say, to not bother how many 'likes' you have because it doesn't matter anyway, to feel uncomfortable daily as you stride out leaving the old you in your wake, to not falter as you stand up and find your voice, to not give a fig if everything isn't perfectly lined up for you right now!

We all have these issues and challenges. And every time you smash one over you will find yet another thin layer of resilience.

Come and find your business community - we provide you with a resilience as default!

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17/12/2023

When I created 365 Days of Messages to inspire people to hold up their mental well-being and support those going through cancer, I knew I wanted some illustrations to go with the messages.

I dearly wanted to keep it close to me and followed an instinctive nudge to ask a close friend of my daughters whom I had known since she was about 6 years old. When Sophie Williamson drew these illustrations she was only 17 and they are beautiful.

I'm reminded most days of her talent when I'm working with these messages or with the people who receive them. What do you think?

www.365daysofmessages.com

13/12/2023

In life, you will share your news, ideas, or wins with people and get a lacklustre or sometimes even a rude response. You shrink back like a deflated soufflé that started full of promise.

Your trust to involve said person has been crushed like a clove of garlic and even worse you are the one sitting doubting yourself! Not doubting them. Doubting you!

And wouldn't you know it had nothing to do with you all along?

You have to sit and watch their insecurities, fears, apathy and worries chipping away at your ideas. However, they don't come out like that - they come in attacking comments, derisory remarks or hurtful throwaway lines.

It can take you either 5 minutes or 5 years to recover.

But let's regroup here. As a woman in your 50s or older you are strong in your foundations now. There is nobody out there doing you, or offering what you have to give to the world - least of all that person spilling their fears all over your lap.

You don't need to shrink back or retreat. Your time is right now this red hot minute to have the life that you want, to expand your business or yes, start one! The number one reason why women don't start up over 50 is lack of confidence! Despite the boundaries that have been broken and the strides that have been taken. Lack of confidence.

And the message here?

Choose your confidantes wisely. Build your own personal community. Find your people who will be thrilled with your successes. I built the membership for this reason. When one rises, we all rise.

Click the link to find out more www.linktr.ee/deborahfielding and take stock of who you grow with. We have a new year looming - are you going to let it in? Or let others hold you back?

13/12/2023

365 Days of Journal Prompts - A new member of the 365 family.

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12/12/2023

I get sick of reading about making plans and goals for 2024, do you?

But. It is a delicious experience to sit down and map out some new changes your way, the ones that you want rather than have to adapt to.

For most business owners this isn't a once-a-year thing more like an everyday challenge! Taking the opportunity at this time of year feels like a great way to start your year.

Taking yourself off somewhere special to get a grip on who you are and what you want is a way of honouring the process. A nice hotel. A weekend away. Somewhere high up offering a birdseye view. Your favourite cafe.

I'm all about tapping into who you are in this moment and how you want to see that unfold for you rather than forcing change for the sake of it. That's where your mistakes come.

Put in a preliminary move to that and kick-start the whole thought process by working out your next step.

Where are you heading?
What feels good in the pit of your stomach?
Why you are doing it in the first place?
When does it feel right for some new changes to take place?
Take a moment and create some space for those answers to arrive.

You can make headway with that tomorrow at 4pm when I am hosting a Next Steps for women over 50 in business or starting a new business. It's a free 30-minute event and we will be diving into questions you need to ask yourself and handling any confusion you are carrying.

Drop an 😍 emoji if you will be there.

Book on here: www.linktr.ee/deborahfielding - Next Step? Free Event 4

07/12/2023

Your journey is unique—embrace, enjoy, and crush those goals! 🌈💖

Finding the route to your goals is very personal. There is always more than one route and only you are doing you.

But one thing is for sure, we are all moving in a similar direction, and your happiness on the way through all of your achievements is the overall goal here.

🌟December offer 🌟
I’m looking for just 5 online entrepreneurs who are planning to fly into 2024. Book a Goal Crusher Session
- £197
- Receive my The Deliberate Path Guide where we slow down for Strategic Goal Setting
- submit your goals and aspirations
- attend your 40-minute live call
- walk away with your Roadmap for 2024
- an Actionable Personalised Plan
AND
- Learn to banish the self-talk that will try and stop you!
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06/12/2023

I love finding wow moments in my day.

By what results you get.
By what kind people say.
By gifts dotted around like this little beauty. An easy wow on a dog walk! 🌈

Book a wow session for your goals:
£197
- receive my cheat sheet for a different approach
- submit your goals
- attend your 40-minute live call
- walk away with a personalised Roadmap for 2024
- a personalised Actionable Plan
- some wow insights on how to make it easy on yourself.

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05/12/2023

Celebrating all small victories in your business will lead your mind toward accepting much bigger wins.

When we give ourselves a hard time, berating ourselves, calling ourselves names that we wouldn't say out loud to someone else or we would be sacked, there is little to no chance of seeing a more successful picture.

Call yourself out!

Build your 2024 business goals - Book a Goal Crusher Session - £197 - submit your goals - book a 40-minute live call - walk away with a Roadmap for 2024 - an Actionable Plan - some obvious insights on why you are not there already! Easy for me to say...😘

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25/11/2023

07/11/2023

Collaboration. It's the name of the game.

When two aligned minds collide, great things can happen. Think Hewlett & Packard, Ben & Jerry, Tom & Jerry for that matter, Proctor & Gamble, Fielding & Eldridge...

Who and who now?

Melt Design just worked with me on my revamped website, and I love that collaboration!

I'm so giddy about it that I am gifting 5 free services. This is the home of 365 Days of 365 Days Of Brighter Thinking too. Here's how it works:

1. Take a look at 365 Days of Messages here ➡ www.365daysofmessages.com

2. Choose which service you would like for yourself or to gift

3. DM me with the name of your recipient (which may be you or someone else)

4. Check your inbox!

Thank you Matthew, for your no-fuss creativity.

365 Days of Messages - WHERE EVERY DAY IS A SOURCE OF INSPIRATION!

25/07/2023

The dictionary, when I asked what a coach is, tells you a straightforward answer - a comfortably equipped single-decker bus used for longer journeys. 😉 🚌

Chat GPT on the other hand gives you not one, but six different types of coach and non of them has anything to do with a single-decker bus. Though many of them mentioned will take you on a longer journey.

A single-decker bus is not much help in untangling and reconstructing your life, though it might be good at getting you physically on the track to your destination!

I also asked Chat GPT if it would be my coach. One thing about Chat is its honesty, it told me that it doesn't have the capability to form an ongoing coaching relationship.

Shame I thought!

Chat thought it would be a good idea if I asked one fundamental question to assess a potential coach, which was:
"What is your coaching approach and philosophy?"

Pretty decent starting point I agree. In with the main question followed by a 3 part chaser:

"What type of clients do you typically work with?"
"How do you tailor your coaching to meet individual client needs?"
"What results have your clients achieved through coaching with you?"

Very nice Chat. Good questions.

I think I've got it from here...

I have a space coming up for a new coaching client starting the week beginning 31st July. If you are a woman in your 50s in business or starting your own business and would like to ask me these questions to see if we are a good fit, I'd like to answer them for you.

https://deborahfielding.aweb.page/p/b8e95aff-5a14-42e4-a8cb-34c49601b3eb

17/06/2023

For those taking part in Father's Day...

Dashing around, no gift to be found
What to get someone who has it all?
A gift with a difference, or something to share
For a new conversation when I call

Life is about shared experiences
Connections made in so many ways
A gift that can do that for each other
For sure can be found at 365 Days

Cheer your Dad up with an uplifting message
It can land in his inbox each morning
Some make you laugh, some make you think
Each day will have a new dawning

Or show him the way to learn about food
What he puts in his body, his temple!
A tip a day is interesting enough
A tip a day is engaging and simple.

You can leave your own message for this Father of yours
It will arrive as quick as a blink
As unique as your Dad it has to be said
Take a look and go click the link

365 Days of Brighter Thinking and 365 Days of Nutrition

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16/06/2023

Advice
Who needs it? Nobody. Not really.

We sometimes ask for it and then don’t want to listen because the answer isn’t as we wanted.

Well-meaning friends and family like to dish it out a plenty without ever having been in your shoes.

All well-intentioned. Up to you to decide if it’s misplaced.

Sometimes you feel comfort, to take council from others.

Often you can, if you still yourself long enough to listen, work it out for yourself.

Choose wisely who you ask, and who you take it from; and when you do, be in a place to receive it, importantly.

This was a message taken from 365 Days of Brighter Thinking which you can find here: https://lnkd.in/e9Nns8-g

Some people want to give you advice, but it isn't based on your best interests but theirs. Be vigilant. Don't let them derail you. Don't allow them to rent space in that beautiful mind of yours. Don't let their advice convince you that your idea isn't any good...

12/06/2023

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Join our digital service community and surround yourself with a tribe of like-minded individuals who believe in the power of positivity. Together, we'll uplift each other, celebrate milestones, and spread joy in every corner of the digital world! 🤝💖

A message a day, brought to life with a beautiful illustration, for someone you care about or yourself. And a wonderful community to tap into.

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11/06/2023

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10/06/2023

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09/06/2023

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08/06/2023

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