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28/10/2025

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26/10/2025

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What Trauma Does to Your Body Over Time (Even If You Don’t Talk About It)

There are things we survive — but never speak about.
Things we push down with a smile, a laugh, a “I’m fine.”
But the body keeps a different kind of memory.

It doesn’t forget what the mind tries to bury.

🧠 Trauma is Not Just a Memory. It Becomes Biology.

Trauma isn’t just what happens to you —
It’s what happens inside you as a result.

Whether it’s childhood neglect, emotional abuse, betrayal, loss, or years of living in survival mode — trauma doesn’t just live in your mind.
It rewires your nervous system.
It reshapes your hormones.
It recodes your immune response.

Over time, trauma becomes physical.

🔬 Here’s What Trauma Does to Your Body (Over Months… and Years)

1. It dysregulates your nervous system.

The body gets stuck in fight, flight, freeze or fawn.
You might feel always on edge, or always exhausted.
Your vagus nerve — the one responsible for calming your body down — goes offline.
Suddenly, loud sounds feel threatening.
Touch feels overstimulating.
And rest? Impossible.

📉 Chronic trauma = chronic dysregulation = chronic stress.

2. It hijacks your hormones.

Your adrenal glands don’t know you’re safe.
They just know you’ve been running from lions for too long.

So they keep pumping:
• Cortisol (your stress hormone)
• Adrenaline (your panic hormone)

Eventually, this can lead to:
• Adrenal fatigue
• Burnout
• Thyroid issues
• Hormonal imbalances like estrogen dominance or low progesterone

🌀 The body starts to think that calm is dangerous — and chaos is normal.

3. It weakens your immune system.

When your body is always in crisis mode, it stops prioritizing healing.

Studies show that trauma and PTSD:
• Increase pro-inflammatory cytokines (which age you from the inside)
• Suppress immune function
• Make you more vulnerable to chronic infections and autoimmune conditions

🛡️ The immune system can’t protect you properly when it’s constantly in battle mode.

4. It affects your gut (deeply).

Did you know 80% of your immune system and 95% of your serotonin lives in your gut?

When trauma strikes, your gut gets hit too.

Trauma is linked to:
• IBS
• Leaky gut
• Food sensitivities
• Bloating, constipation, or diarrhea
• Gut-brain axis dysfunction

🍽️ This is why trauma survivors often struggle with digestion — it’s not “just anxiety.” It’s biology.

5. It gets trapped in your fascia, your lymph, your breath.

Trauma isn’t just in the brain — it lives in the body:
• Muscles hold memory.
• Fascia tightens with fear.
• The lymphatic system stagnates under inflammation.
• Breath becomes shallow.
• The diaphragm freezes.

That’s why trauma healing often requires more than just talk therapy.
You need to move it.
Breathe it.
Drain it.
Release it.

🕊️ You can’t think your way out of trauma — you have to feel your way through it.

💥 Silent Signs of Long-Held Trauma

Sometimes trauma doesn’t look like flashbacks.
It looks like:
• Chronic fatigue
• Autoimmune flares
• Hormonal chaos
• Constant people-pleasing
• Panic over small things
• Neck tension that never releases
• Being “too strong” for too long

The body whispers before it screams.

✨ The Good News: Healing is Possible.

But it’s not linear. And it’s not quick.

Healing trauma means:
• Safety first — the body needs to feel safe to let go.
• Nervous system repair — through lymphatic therapy, breathwork, cold therapy, somatic work, and nervous system regulation.
• Restoring trust in your body, slowly.
• Unfreezing the parts of you that went numb to survive.

It might take years.
But you’re not broken.
You’re healing.

🕊️ Final Words for the Silent Warrior

If you’ve carried pain no one saw,
If you’ve survived seasons that nearly broke you,
If your body is tired in ways you can’t explain —

Know this:

✨ You are not crazy.
✨ Your symptoms are valid.
✨ Your body is doing its best to protect you.
✨ And you are so worthy of healing — slow, gentle, whole healing.

You didn’t choose the trauma.
But you can choose to unlearn the fear,
Restore the safety,
And come home to your body — one breath at a time.

24/10/2025
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23/10/2025

🔥 Your Back is Burning!

Let’s Talk Inflamed Back Muscles, What’s Really Going On — and How to Fix It 💆‍♀️💧

That ache in your back? It’s not just stress or “bad posture” — it’s your body talking to you. Whether you’re lifting heavy, sitting all day, or waking up like a robot every morning… your paraspinal muscles, trapezius, rhomboids, and latissimus dorsi might be in full-blown inflammatory protest.

But here’s the good news — with the right touch and the right therapy, you can calm that internal fire and get your body flowing again 💪💧

🧠 What’s Really Happening — Myositis Explained

When your back muscles are overworked or chronically tense, the fibres go through microtrauma.
This causes:
🧵 Microtears in the muscle
🌡️ Local heat and swelling
🧪 Buildup of inflammatory cytokines and metabolic waste
❌ Reduced oxygen and nutrient delivery

The result? Pain, stiffness, fatigue — and that “burning” sensation that makes you want to crawl into a ball.

🤕 Signs Your Back Muscles Are Inflamed
• Persistent burning or aching pain
• Tenderness when touched
• Limited range of motion
• Morning stiffness or “locked” feeling after sitting
• Pain radiating into shoulders, ribs, or lower back

💧 Where the Lymphatic System Comes In

Inflammation = waste buildup.
Your lymphatic system’s job is to clear it.

It drains away:
🧫 Cellular debris
💧 Excess fluid
🦠 Inflammatory byproducts

But when your muscles are inflamed, your lymph flow slows down — and you end up with:
⚡ Swelling
😣 Longer recovery
🥵 More pain and fatigue

💆‍♀️ The Healing Duo: Lymphatic Drainage + Remedial Massage

💧 1. Manual Lymphatic Drainage (MLD)

MLD gently stimulates lymph vessel contractions, helping to:
✔️ Move fluid out of inflamed tissues
✔️ Decrease pressure and pain
✔️ Enhance immune modulation
✔️ Speed up recovery

It’s like taking out the trash so your cells can breathe again 🏡

💪 2. Remedial & Sports Massage

Once the swelling is down, it’s time to work deeper:
✔️ Releasing tight fascia and trigger points
✔️ Improving oxygen delivery
✔️ Restoring mobility through the back chain
✔️ Relieving chronic tension patterns

This is where “burning” turns into “breathing.”

🌿 Combine Them — and Watch the Magic Happen

When you pair lymphatic drainage with remedial massage, you create synergy:
🔥 Inflammation down
💧 Drainage up
🧠 Nervous system calm
🧬 Cellular repair on
💪 Freedom of movement restored

✅ Bianca’s Back-Care Tips

💧 Hydrate — lymph is 96% water
🧂 Add magnesium (spray or Epsom soak)
🧘 Gentle movement: cat-cow, spinal rotations, deep breathing
🪑 Don’t sit longer than 45 minutes
🔥 Warm compress before bed to soothe circulation

💙 Final Thoughts

Your back isn’t being dramatic — it’s inflamed, overworked, and begging for flow.
Support it. Listen to it. Move it.
With targeted lymphatic drainage and therapeutic bodywork, you’re not just easing pain — you’re rewiring your body’s healing rhythm. 🌿

Let’s get you flowing again. 💆‍♂️✨

Bianca Botha, CLT, RLD, MLDT & CDS

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