Grave Expectations

25/10/2025

We had such a wonderful evening at Silverweb Holistic Centre in Clay Cross on Thursday, thank you so much to everyone who came along to talk so openly about death, dying and the funeral process.

It was honest, brave, emotional and — most of all — full of warmth and connection. We were reminded how powerful it is when people come together to have the conversations we often avoid, and to find comfort and understanding in one another’s stories.

We’re really happy to share that, after Christmas, we’ll be starting regular Death Cafés — informal, welcoming gatherings where anyone can come for a cuppa, some cake, and an open chat about life, death, and everything in between.

These will be held at both our Grave Expectations premises in Matlock and at the Silverweb Holistic Centre in Clay Cross.

More details coming soon, but for now, thank you again to everyone who made the evening so special 💛

23/10/2025

🌈✨ We’re so proud to be featured by Derbyshire LGBT+ this week as part of their Rainbow Accreditation Spotlight!

At Grave Expectations, inclusion, compassion, and respect are at the heart of everything we do. We believe that everyone deserves a farewell that truly reflects who they are — and we’re honoured to be recognised for our commitment to creating safe, inclusive spaces for all.

A huge thank you to Derbyshire LGBT+ for the incredible work they do and for celebrating businesses that value dignity, equality, and individuality. 💜

You can read more here: https://derbyshirelgbt.org.uk/accreditation and our blog on inclusive funerals here:
https://graveexpectations.co.uk/blog/queer-funerals

21/10/2025

Our next FREE event at our centre is Thursday night (23rd) with the wonderful Grave Expectations

They are coming along to talk death, dying and the funeral process, answering all those questions you have always wanted to ask.
We aren't always that good at having conversations around death and dying but here at the Web you will find love, support and a safe place in which to explore this subject.

All are welcome and there will be refreshments available on the night.
Will we see you there?

21/10/2025

Our next FREE event at our centre is this coming Thursday night with the wonderful Grave Expectations

They are coming along to talk death, dying and the funeral process, answering all those questions you have always wanted to ask and offering a glimpse into the official side of things.
We aren't always that good at having conversations around death and dying but here at the Web you will find love, support and a safe place in which to explore this subject.

All are welcome and there will be refreshments available on the night.
Will we see you there?

21/10/2025

This Thursday, join us at for an open discussion about death, dying, and the funeral process. We'll be answering questions and sharing insights in a safe and supportive environment. This is a free event with refreshments, and we hope to see you there! 🧡

21/10/2025

Really looking forward to this ….. do come along and see us. We’re there to answer any questions you may have in a supportive safe place.

Thursday 23rd October 7-9pm at Silver Web Holistic Centre in Clay Cross 🧡

Our next FREE event at our centre is this coming Thursday night with the wonderful Grave Expectations

They are coming along to talk death, dying and the funeral process, answering all those questions you have always wanted to ask and offering a glimpse into the official side of things.
We aren't always that good at having conversations around death and dying but here at the Web you will find love, support and a safe place in which to explore this subject.

All are welcome and there will be refreshments available on the night.
Will we see you there?

16/10/2025

✨ Doing what I love ✨

I’ve really enjoyed putting our display stand together this week — seeing it all take shape has been so rewarding. From those early plans around my kitchen table to creating a space that reflects who we are and what we care about, it feels wonderful to see it come to life.

Thanks , and

Everything’s coming together ahead of our official opening on Monday. 🌿

15/10/2025

💛 New on the Blog: Making Space for Every Goodbye 💛

At Grave Expectations, we believe everyone deserves a funeral that truly reflects who they were — every laugh, every story, every small and beautiful detail.

Our latest post, “Making Space for Every Goodbye,” explores what inclusive deathcare really means — and how small, thoughtful choices can make each farewell more personal, respectful, and kind.

It’s about recognising every person’s identity, listening without judgement, and creating space where everyone feels seen — in life, and in death.

Because every story matters.
Every goodbye deserves care. 🌿

🔗 Read the full blog here: https://graveexpectations.co.uk/blog

12/10/2025

When you have the best helper working along side you 🧡

11/10/2025

🌿 Busting the Myths Around Death, Dying & the Funeral Process 🌿

📅 Thursday 23rd October | 🕖 7–9pm | 📍 Silver Web Holistic Centre, Chesterfield
Free event – all welcome!

We’re delighted to be joining our friends at Silver Web Holistic Centre for an open and honest evening exploring some of the myths and mysteries surrounding death, dying, and the funeral process.

Many people are unsure what really happens when someone dies, or what options are truly available when arranging a funeral, burial, or cremation. This relaxed and friendly session is a chance to ask questions, share thoughts, and talk about a subject that’s often seen as taboo — but doesn’t need to be.

It’s completely free to attend, and everyone is welcome to come and join the conversation.

✨ Thursday 23rd October, 7–9pm at Silver Web Holistic Centre in Clay Cross

10/10/2025

Fun times at Grave Expectations HQ this week. Only one week to go and ours doors will be open 😁