The Man Cave UK

The Man Cave UK A mental health support group for the lads of MK and surrounding areas. Check our pinned post to see all current weekly meetings.

The Man Cave UK is a Mental Health support group focused on providing a safe and supportive space for men to openly discuss their mental health, share experiences, and seek help when needed.

The Man Cave merch is back! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ’šYou can now grab your gear through our shop โ€“ it's listed under our charity name Safe2Be, ...
01/08/2025

The Man Cave merch is back! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ’š
You can now grab your gear through our shop โ€“ it's listed under our charity name Safe2Be, which supports both The Man Cave and our amazing sisters at The Lodge.

๐Ÿ‘‰ https://www.etsy.com/shop/Safe2Be

Every purchase helps us keep things running, covering events, socials, meetings and everything in between.

Big love to everyone repping The Man Cave. Weโ€™re grateful to be part of your journey. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’š

The leadership team behind The Man Cave UK, a growing grassroots movement committed to supporting men's mental health an...
25/07/2025

The leadership team behind The Man Cave UK, a growing grassroots movement committed to supporting men's mental health and emotional wellbeing.

These leaders donโ€™t just show up, they step up. Giving their time voluntarily, they gather quarterly to reflect, evaluate, and evolve the support they offer to their community. From analysing feedback to brainstorming ideas for growth, the focus remains the same: how can The Man Cave do better and reach further?

Over the past two years, their commitment has helped establish a trusted brotherhood across Milton Keynes, Bedford, Northampton, and Towcester. Their vision doesn't stop there, with expansion on the horizon, they are exploring how to reach even more men who feel unseen and unheard.

Each leader plays a crucial role in guiding their respective committees, ensuring that every man who walks through the doors of The Man Cave knows one thing: you are not alone.

In a world where vulnerability is often met with silence, these men are creating space for honesty, healing, and human connection. And they do it, not for recognition, but because they believe in a better way forward. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’š

Meet The Man Cave UK Leadership team (Left to right)
Ross - Milton Keynes
Jake - Northampton
Ant - Towcester
Nick - Milton Keynes
Tony - Milton Keynes
Lloyd - Director
John - Bedford
Irfan - Milton Keynes
Jono - Co-Lead
Rob - Bedford

We thank you Scott Poulter (Founder) for creating this space for us to carry the on with the mission. ๐Ÿ’š

Leadership. Resilience. Brotherhood. ๐Ÿ’šWe all witnessed all three in action as we climbed Snowdon together.A heartfelt th...
25/07/2025

Leadership. Resilience. Brotherhood. ๐Ÿ’š

We all witnessed all three in action as we climbed Snowdon together.

A heartfelt thank you to our community leader Ross Gould for the time, energy, and care he put into organising this incredible trip, your leadership set the tone for something truly special.

To everyone who showed up: thank you for trusting The Man Cave UK and committing to your personal growth. These experiences wouldnโ€™t be possible without the support of every individual who believes in the power of community.

It was inspiring to see how each person played their part, from food shopping and driving, to supporting each other at every step. These small acts of service may go unnoticed in other spaces, but here, theyโ€™re what define us. Theyโ€™re what make The Man Cave more than just a group, they make it a movement.

Climbing a mountain is never just about the summit, itโ€™s about who you become along the way.

Take pride in how far youโ€™ve come. Carry that same compassion and perseverance into your daily life, you never know who might need your kindness in a moment of struggle.

To everyone involved: Iโ€™m proud of what youโ€™ve achieved. Keep doing the inner work. Keep showing up.

We donโ€™t just climb mountains. We rise together. ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ”ฅ

The Man Cave Leadership Committee

21/07/2025

What a weekend. What a team. What a climb. ๐Ÿ”๏ธ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’š

A massive shoutout to our community leader Ross Gould! Thank you brother for pouring your energy and heart into organising such an incredible trip. Your efforts made this experience possible, and it wonโ€™t be forgotten.

To every single one of you who showed up, thank you for committing to yourselves, for trusting The Man Cave, and for showing us what this community is all about. These events only happen because of your continued support, and weโ€™re truly grateful.

Whether it was helping with the clean-up, grabbing supplies, offering lifts, or simply looking out for one another, every gesture mattered. Itโ€™s that quiet kindness and brotherhood that makes TMC the safe, powerful space it is. You are the magic.

As you rest and recover, take a moment to reflect on what youโ€™ve achieved. You climbed a mountain, literally and metaphorically. That resilience, that never-give-up energy, is something special. Take it into the world with you. Be that same light for the next person you meet, you never know who might need it most.

We are proud of every single one of you. Keep walking your path. Keep showing up.

We rise by lifting each other.

Much love, always. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ”ฅ
The Man Cave Committee

Well done lads making it to the top of Snowdon! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ”ฅThank you and well done Ross Gould for organising! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ”ฅ
19/07/2025

Well done lads making it to the top of Snowdon! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ”ฅ

Thank you and well done Ross Gould for organising! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ”ฅ

๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ? ๐Ÿ’šMany men in our communities are silently battling financial hardship, unemployment, and the emotional tol...
17/07/2025

๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ? ๐Ÿ’š

Many men in our communities are silently battling financial hardship, unemployment, and the emotional toll that comes with it.

The weight of not being able to provide, contribute, or find meaningful work can deeply affect mental health, self-worth, and relationships.

Through recent collaborations with the ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ผ ๐—™๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป and upcoming links with ๐—”๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€, weโ€™re working hard to create safe, supportive spaces for men to talk, heal, and rebuild.

But now, we want to take things one step further:
๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜.

Weโ€™re looking to partner with:

โ€ข Local ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€
โ€ข ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜†๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€
โ€ข ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€
โ€ข And compassionate ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€

โ€ฆto help provide ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜-๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜†๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€ for the men we support.

This is not just about giving, itโ€™s about ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐˜†๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ where ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ and ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€ lift one another.

Whether itโ€™s offering a few flexible job roles, sponsoring a workshop, or delivering a presentation on site, every contribution makes a real difference.

If you or your business would like to collaborate, sponsor, or get involved.

Please reach out.

Letโ€™s create a support network where no man has to suffer in silence or walk the road alone.

๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’š

Get in touch: Support@TheManCaveUK.co.uk

๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ? ๐Ÿ’šMany men in our communities are silently battling financial hardship, unemployment, and the emotional tol...
17/07/2025

๐—–๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ? ๐Ÿ’š

Many men in our communities are silently battling financial hardship, unemployment, and the emotional toll that comes with it.

The weight of not being able to provide, contribute, or find meaningful work can deeply affect mental health, self-worth, and relationships.

Through recent collaborations with the ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—•๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ผ ๐—™๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป and upcoming links with ๐—”๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€, weโ€™re working hard to create safe, supportive spaces for men to talk, heal, and rebuild.

But now, we want to take things one step further:
๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜.

We're looking to partner with:

โ€ข Local ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€
โ€ข ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜†๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€
โ€ข ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€
โ€ข And compassionate ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€

โ€ฆto help provide ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜-๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜†๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€ for the men we support.

This is not just about giving, it's about ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐˜†๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ where ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ and ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€ lift one another.

Whether itโ€™s offering a few flexible job roles, sponsoring a workshop, or delivering a presentation on site, every contribution makes a real difference.

If you or your business would like to collaborate, sponsor, or get involved.

Please reach out.

Letโ€™s create a support network where no man has to suffer in silence or walk the road alone.

๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’š

Get in touch: Support@TheManCaveUK.co.uk

25/06/2025

๐ŸŒฟ Daily Habits That Support Mental Health:โฃ
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๐ŸงŠ Cold Showers or Cold Bathsโฃ
A quick way to reset the nervous system and build resilience first thing in the morning.โฃ
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๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™‚๏ธ 5-10 Minutes of Stretching & Breathworkโฃ
Helps setting the day in a calm, focused, and grounded body.โฃ
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๐Ÿฅ— Nourishing Foodโฃ
Prioritise cooked meals with protein, omega-3s, and whole foods to support your energy and mood.โฃ
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๐Ÿ’ง Plenty of Waterโฃ
Staying hydrated keeps the mind clear and body balanced.โฃ
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โš ๏ธ Limiting Junk Fuelโฃ
Reducing caffeine, crisps, and sugar helps you avoid energy crashes and mood dips.โฃ
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๐Ÿ’ฌ Summary:โฃ
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Some days feel harder than others, I get it.โฃ
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Whatโ€™s helped me most is building small daily habits that bring a sense of calm and care into my routine.โฃ
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Cold showers. Stretching. Breathwork. Proper food. Hydration.โฃ

Theyโ€™re simple, but powerful.โฃ
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Itโ€™s not about doing it all perfectly, itโ€™s about showing up for yourself, gently and consistently.โฃ
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Start small. Be kind to yourself.โฃ

Youโ€™re not alone in this.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’šโฃ
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22/06/2025

Thereโ€™s no such thing as perfection, only progress. ๐Ÿ’š

For a long time, I didnโ€™t believe that.

I was always chasing something. Trying to get things just right, needing to be on point, hoping for approval from others, especially my parents. If something I did wasnโ€™t perfect, it felt like it wasnโ€™t good enough. Iโ€™d get discouraged, shut down, or abandon it completely.

Perfection became a barrier.
A reason not to start.
A reason not to finish.

And beneath all of that was the quiet truth:

I just wanted to feel seen. To feel enough.

Over the years, especially by opening up about my mental health and sharing my struggles, Iโ€™ve come to learn something thatโ€™s changed everything:

๐Ÿ‘‰ Progress over perfection.
๐Ÿ‘‰ Expression over validation.
๐Ÿ‘‰ Learning over โ€œgetting it right.โ€

Iโ€™m still a work in progress and thatโ€™s okay.

So are you.

And thereโ€™s strength in showing up as you are.

Youโ€™re not falling behind.

Youโ€™re growing โ€” and thatโ€™s more than enough. ๐Ÿ’š

P.S - Did you notice me repeating my point differently? It doesn't matter which word or perspective you have.

It's all about progress. ๐Ÿ”ฅ

Wellbeing Media TV

14/06/2025

Struggling in Silence? These 4 Habits Can Help

4 Gentle Reminders for Your Mental Wellbeing ๐Ÿ’š

Life gets heavy sometimes and when it does, here are a few things that can truly make a difference:

1. ๐Ÿซ‚ Asking for help isnโ€™t weakness itโ€™s strength.
Youโ€™re not โ€œless thanโ€ for needing support. Whether itโ€™s a mate, a therapist, or a support group โ€” talking helps. Donโ€™t carry it all alone.

2. ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™‚๏ธ Move your body regularly.
Exercise is more than just physical, itโ€™s therapy in motion. A walk, a dance, a workout. Aim for 30โ€“40 mins, 3โ€“5 times a week. Your mind will thank you.

3. ๐Ÿ˜ด Improving your sleep
7โ€“8 hours of quality rest helps regulate emotions and decision-making. Lack of sleep can quietly fuel anxiety, so make it a priority, not an afterthought.

4. ๐Ÿšซ Watch for numbing habits.
If youโ€™re escaping into gaming, booze, or distractions, ask yourself what you might be avoiding. Itโ€™s okay to need help and itโ€™s okay to ask for it.

Youโ€™re not alone. Be kind to yourself, youโ€™re doing better than you think. ๐Ÿ’š

Thank you to Wellbeing Media TV with the help on filming and editing. ๐Ÿ™โค๏ธ

10/06/2025

Hardest Lesson: Asking for Help. โœ‹โฃ
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Someone recently asked me, โ€œWhatโ€™s the hardest lesson youโ€™ve had to learn in life?โ€ ๐Ÿค”โฃ
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For me, it was this: asking for help. ๐Ÿ˜ฃโฃ
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As an only child, I got used to figuring things out on my own. I played the lone wolf, tried to stay strong, kept everything in โ€” even when life got heavy.โฃ
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I didnโ€™t know how to ask. I didnโ€™t think I could.โฃ
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But over time, that silence turned into burnout. Depression. Isolation. Suicidal thoughts. It took me to some of the darkest places Iโ€™ve ever known.โฃ
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It took everything in me to learn that reaching out isnโ€™t weakness โ€” itโ€™s strength.โฃ
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And if thatโ€™s something youโ€™re struggling with tooโ€ฆ please know:โฃ
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Youโ€™re not alone.โฃ
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Life might be a one-player game, but you donโ€™t have to play it by yourself.โฃ
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Asking for help could be the bravest thing you ever do. ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’šโฃ
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