06/12/2022
I thought it was about time I introduced myself, told you a little bit about me and some more about what I do.
My names John and I’m an online coach. I help men create a better life for themselves by improving their mindset, getting strong and fit, changing their diet and creating habits that will last a lifetime.
How did I end up wanting to do this?
Because I’ve been there myself.
I completely went off the rails in my twenties - I broke up with a partner, pretty much gave up on my career, went bankrupt, had to sell my house to pay off debts and started working in a bar.
I was an alcoholic, I abused drugs, I didn’t sleep for days at a time and my diet was terrible. I pretty much existed on bourbon, co***ne and kebabs. I filled my time in between this self-harming, being depressed and watching p**n.
From there I got myself involved in an abusive relationship with a narcissist. For the next 8 years I was physically, emotionally and mentally abused. I was even Isolated from all my friends and family. I was completely dependent on this person for any sort of connection and anyone who has been in a similar situation knows you never get.
So beaten up and broken down, I continued to be depressed, hurt myself and look for answers in a bottle. I never found a single one.
I worked 80 hours most weeks to try and be away from the house.
Eventually, we split and I managed to break the bond that kept me going back. This is when I decided to get my life on track.
I changed my diet, created good habits, quit, drinking, quit p**n, prioritised sleep, started working out and developed a healthier relationship with work.
The effects were drastic, I lost 8 stone, got strong, and most importantly, fixed my very broken mind.
It was hard and I fell down many times.
Now I want to help other men take back what they were supposed to be and do the same thing.
Change their bodies, their lifestyle and build a stronger mindset so they never end up in the dark places again.
Men don’t talk enough about the pain they are in or the abuse they suffer. This has to change.
If you feel I could help you, drop me a DM. 🦬