09/12/2022
⁉️What do you see when you look in the mirror? ⁉️
How we see ourselves has a huge effect on our mental health.
For a lot of years, I HATED what I looked like.
I’d avoid looking in mirrors at my reflection.
It was a rare occasion that you would get me in a photograph.
The effect this has on your life is massive. If you look in the mirror and feel down about how you look it gets taken into all aspects of your life.
You feel down, and self-conscious, you lack confidence.
I’m sure you can see it’s a vicious downward cycle.
Starting to do something about it though can feel very, very daunting.
The thing is though once you start you start to see changes very quickly, you lose a few pounds, you build a bit of muscle, your diet improves.
All this adds up to you feeling better, happier and more confident.
Tiny differences in how we see ourselves can have huge differences in our life.
I remember taking the second photo, I didn’t realise I was in it at the time (I was taking a picture of the dresser 🤣).
I was devastated at the time, I couldn’t quite believe I’d got to the point where I looked so bad.
I was already in a dark place and this compounded it massively. My self-confidence plummeted even more and I buried myself in getting wasted and eating terrible food.
I put more weight on, got more depressed and felt worse.
In the first picture, I was on the way out to a date with . I felt pretty good about myself, still unfinished but in a much better place. I was confident, happy and in a position to make the most out of my life.
All my past issues haven’t completely gone but they are a lot, lot better.
It’s the accumulation of a lot of little steps, that’s what your journey is and why it’s a journey, not a destination. All the steps along the way are going to make you feel better.
It’s easy to put it off when you think you have to be totally focused on looking like the Diet Coke advert. Don’t let that be the reason you don’t start.
I can help you build the mindset and make the steps to get you through this, DM me the word MINDSET and I’ll get in touch for a chat. 🦬