
08/08/2025
We can’t know when or how our animal friend is to transition.
They may be one day, one week, one month, one year, ten years or twenty before their transition comes.
What we can know is how to create a ceremony just for them for when they transition and how to create cermemony for our grief.
A ceremony for both is required as their transition asks for us to enter sacred ground and space to honour the sacred of our animal friend as they transition and to be fully with the grief that we feel from this.
My first animal friend transitioned in my arms when he was one year old and I was eight.
I was heartbroken and traumatised. Little did I know this would be the start of my initiation with grief, with transition, with making death an ally and becoming great friends with it.
We are ceremonial beings by nature and are called to deep ceremony when deep happenings occur in our life.
They are initiations that blow us open and ask us to enter our soul work.
When our animal friend transitions it is an initiation, a call from spirit, to enter sacred ground and our soul work because, grief work is sacred work - grief work is soul work.
Yet, just like when my first animal friend transitioned, nobody wants to talk about it.
Nobody wants to bring death, grief and transition out from the cold and in to the warmth - we do not want it to sit at our table or share our food.
But we have to as the very transition of our animal friend is asking us to - and we’d do anything for them, right?
Their transition is alchemy.
Their transition invites us to begin an apprenticeship with it.
But we can only do so when we know how.
This is why I not only hold 1-1 offerings and three day grief ritual spaces but why I have created a nine session container called Creating Ceremony and Sacred Space with Your Animal Friend’s Transition.
Imagine being able to receive what your animal friend asks for when they transition and create a ceremony for this!
Imagine being able to hear how your animal friend feels about their transition, which is very different to how we might think.
I wasn’t able to give my first animal friend a ceremony when they transitioned or fully be with my grief from it. But that doesn’t matter because we can still hold a ceremony for them even years after they have transitioned and just how they want it. I can also begin my grief journey years after.
And so I did.
If you are afraid of your animal friend’s transition, would like to explore how to create ceremony for when they do or already have, would like to know how to make grief and death an ally and how to navigate through the very real and raw pain when a transition comes yet what it invites us to enter in to, then my nine session container has been created for you!
I’m no longer afraid of when my animal friend transitions, know how to welcome grief and move through it, create and enter a ceremony with my animal friend to honour the sacred and welcome the apprenticeship they call me on for my soul work their transition is offering me that could only come from their transition.
Their transition needs an honouring and ceremony. So does our grief. When we do so, both pull us in to the sacred ground we are to enter and make contact with our soul. Through doing so we continue contact with our animal friend’s consciousness even after they transitioned!
I know this journey can be rough, tough, confusing and scary but if you feel ready to meet it in a different way then we are here to show and support you.
Will you accept the apprenticeship your animal friend leaves for you through their transition.