Simply Be Me Events & Therapies

19/12/2022

This is so true and the most frustrating part of all when you know you are capable of helping
Someone.

Some people unfortunately just don’t want to change and are prepared to put themselves and the ones closest to them through so much un necessary pain and suffering because either they are too stubborn to admit they need help / need to change or come to terms with their own inner trauma- often from childhood.

You can only help people who want to help themselves.

You can only help people who don’t want to live in their story

You can only help people who make the necessary changes in order to live a healthier & more peaceful and happier life.
People wonder why they repeat patterns again and again. It’s because they haven’t faced their own issues, or they have deflected it back into someone else as it’s always easier to blame someone else for what’s going wrong.
That way you never have to accept responsibility for anything.
That’s often easier than doing the inner work that’s required even though your life will continue to spiral downwards and your toxic patterns will spread like a raging fire causing carnage within your closest circles
These will be the people who love and want the best for you

If you're a natural healer, inevitably there'll be a point in your life, where you'll need to pull-back from over-HELPING your FAMILY and LOVED ONES. You'll know when this point comes, because you'll be getting a lot of push-back. Even though it can seem that your loved ones are in dire straits, no matter how often you repeat advice that you know will assist - it falls on deaf ears and nothing ever changes. And that's because...

Everyone grows of their own accord and the soul loves to learn for itself, when it's ready.

One of the greatest lessons that you'll ever learn as a 'healer', is that you can only assist those that want to be assisted. That's why we consistently do our work each day 'as healers' knowing that ONE day, will be 'the day' that someone is ready.

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24/08/2022

Choosing someone is not as simple as just saying that you love them, it's learning HOW to love them, it's learning how to be fluent in the language that makes them feel loved. How can we say to our partner that we choose them if we don't listen to understand them or threaten to leave when things get difficult? Are we putting our feelings aside and making them feel safe to express themselves, or are we choosing to make our feelings the priority and showing that they need to learn to speak OUR language? Are we only choosing them when they make us happy and give us what we want?
What we have to remember is that by the way we speak and act, we are either rewarding or punishing our partner for loving us, we are either choosing their love or rejecting it.
Do you know what makes your partner feel chosen, what makes them feel special, what makes them feel like the priority? Do you praise them, commend them, encourage and support them to follow their dreams, or do you try to get them to support yours? Do you focus on them and give them your undivided attention when they're around or are you constantly on your phone, interacting with others? No one wants to feel like an afterthought or a convenience, but rather, we want to feel desired, appreciated, important, we want to feel that we are a person's first choice, so that we have the freedom to love them without fear. Making our partner feel chosen is one of the most beautiful gifts that we can give them. It's saying that, out of everyone, there is no one else that we want more or would rather share the very best of ourselves and our love with, than THEM. -Joel Clemons • Love, Life & Relationship Coach .gentlemanwolf

23/08/2022

Brutal but TRUE …

This ain’t my “old lady” this is my queen.
This ain’t a “ball and chain” this women is freedom.
My wife doesn’t “hold me back” she pushes me to greatness.
FELLAS, STEP UP YOUR GAME WITH YOUR QUEEN.
A lot of y’all acting like little boys.
Treating your life and your wife with disrespect.
You expect her to blow you 24/7 but you look like a fat slob. You expect her to be a 10 while you look and earn like a 2.
Know why she treats you like a child my friend?
Cause you act like one.
And if you ain’t LEADING then she must!
Listen, I didn’t understand this for many years of my life. I acted like a little boy. I had to “run everything by her” cause I was a timid little creature who didn’t understand this game of LEADERSHIP.
I don’t give a damn what guru you listen to or what wu-wu book you read, A QUEEN WANTS A KING TO LEAD HER.
A powerful woman wants a fu***ng powerful man. She wants to be respected, and protected. She wants to be SAFE emotionally and financially. SHE WANTS YOU TO WIPE YOUR OWN ASS, NOT NEED HER TO DO IT FOR YOU.
It’s pathetic how little men invest in their relationship. They expect a huge return, but they invest very little. They expect to Be treated like a KING but they act like jokers and jesters.
MEN, STEP UP.
Not for the gram, FOR YOURSELF. Get your house in order. Learn the skills to put more steaks in the freezer. Associate with men of honor not the s**t bags down at the watering hole. Get your MIND & BODY right. Sharpen your tools and become a God damn SAVAGE. A savage she ADMIRES. Your woman wants to admire you, not resent you, but she resents you cause you’re a fu***ng LIAR.
“One day” “some day” ain’t cutting it. ACTIONS TODAY ARE WHAT SHE SEES, NOT BU****IT PROMISES OF THE FUTURE.
KEEP YOUR WORD.
You promised to PRODUCE PROTECT & PROVIDE when you took her hand, SO FU***NG STEP UP AND DO IT NOW.
Not later, NOW.
Want your woman to have your back, trust you, support you 100% and honor you?
THAN STAND AND LEAD!
BURY THAT SCARED LITTLE VICTIM AND STAND THE F**K UP, AND LEAD!
You are the tip of your own spear, and the sword over your kingdom.
Sharpen the f**k up.
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22/05/2022

I did not write this but WOW does it speak to my heart!!! Read it, digest it, time waits for no one. Put some color in your gray 💗
Worth the read.

"Barely the day started and
it's already six in the evening.
Barely arrived on Monday
and it's already Friday.. and the month is already over.. and the year is almost over.. and already 40, 50 or 60 years
of our lives have passed.. and we realize that we lost
our parents, friends.. and we realize it's too late
to go back.
So.. Let's try, despite
everything, to enjoy
the remaining time.
Let's keep looking for
activities that we like.
Let's put some color in
our grey.
Let's smile at the little
things in life that put
balm in our hearts.
And despite everything,
we must continue to enjoy
with serenity this time we
have left.
Let's try to eliminate the
afters..
I'm doing it after.
I'll say after.
I'll think about it after.
We leave everything for
later like ′′ after ′′ is ours.
Because what we don't
understand is that:
Afterwards, the coffee
gets cold.
afterwards, priorities change.
Afterwards, the charm is
broken.
Afterwards, health passes.
Afterwards, the kids grow up.
Afterwards parents get old.
Afterwards, promises are
forgotten.
Afterwards, the day becomes
the night.
Afterwards, life ends.
And then it's often too late.
So.. Let's leave nothing for
later.
Because still waiting to see
later, we can lose the
best moments, the best
experiences, best friends,
the best family.
The day is today. The
moment is now.
We are no longer at the
age where we can afford
to postpone what needs
to be done right away."

It Looks Like An Eternity,
But It's A Short Trip,
Enjoy Life And Always
Be Kind.

05/03/2022

Have you ever felt this type of deep gratitude?

I’ve woken this morning- reflecting back on my time in Dubai for my birthday feeling so deeply filled with gratitude 🙏🏻

I’m grateful for the quality time spent with my son ❤️

I’m grateful that he broke my heart a little bit that day he packed up and left Scotland to follow his own soul and what he knew he needed to do in order to grow, because if he hadn’t - I’m sure I wouldn’t have been sat admiring the man he’d grown into by feeling the fear but doing it anyway.

I’m grateful for truly giving myself permission to switch off and give my body what it needed 🥰

For staying fully present in each moment and appreciating every experience from the sights to the tastes to the sounds and the smells and allowing my senses to be thoroughly exhilarated 🕉

For the courage to be alone for some parts of the trip whilst my son worked away.

Allowing myself to order the nice lunch on the beach, take time in the Roman spa, drink the gifted bubbles and eat the gifted birthday cake, dress up and still pamper myself to take myself to dinner, proudly sat at the table with the one person worth spoiling - ME

For hearing some great house mixes played by the DJ while I ate and allowing myself to sit alone in the bar and listen without fear of what others would think

For feeling ENOUGH in those moments and not feeling the need to have another person sat beside me just because.

I’d rather sit alone in contentment and peace than sat with the wrong person who would dilute those moments of happiness & joy

Eternally grateful for having the courage to say YES to a business opportunity last year that was to change my life as I knew it and help bring these moments around in greater frequency because of the Travel Secret that has saved me literally thousands of £££

It is true we create our own destiny by the decisions we make and the people we surround ourselves by

Were you aware that WE are the average of the 5 people we spend most of our time with?

Please make sure you choose your 5 people wisely and ensure they are like minded, supportive, honest, caring, authentic and fun.

This then allows you to fully step into being your Best, Most Authentic self too.

There’s so many more gratitude moments from this week of permission to ‘just be’ and it’s only when we stop to allow of ourselves to slow the pace that we realise how fast we were flying along often missing the little things that light us up and make us feel fully alive.

It’s important to Invest in your Well-being on a regular basis.

This of course can come in many forms.

I don’t ever claim to be Perfect or know all the answers but what I do know is that each day I never stop growing , never stop learning, never stop investing in my mind and my soul to become a better person than I was yesterday or this time last year

I have returned to Scotland feeling connected with myself so much more than before I left, with an even stronger mother/ son bond from amazing experiences together and my batteries recharged, my cup re filled and my body & soul rested

I knew this break was needed, just never knew how much …
And to think I almost didn’t go.

This weekend as you waken I invite you to build some downtime, some self cares and allow of yourself to ‘just be’ with something that brings you joy.

Start to surround yourself with the right people.

Energy is contagious whether that’s positive or negative Remember that.

Invest in your self in whichever form you are drawn to knowing that in doing so you are taking steps to self improvement, shedding those and that which serves no purpose in your life.

It may push you way out of your comfort zones and have you fearing “what if” ….

Well what if it turns out 10 times better than you could have hoped for ?

What if it turns out to be life changing ?

What if you shed the old habits that kept you stuck and learn new habits that actually resonate more deeply with your inner landscape?

Because … no one ever grew from staying in comfort zones or standing still

Share with me what you’re doing for yourself and any inspiration you have taken from my post

I’ll start.

Today I have sat in the warmth of my conservatory with the sun beating down through the glass and enjoying that feeling that Spring is on its way as I admire the many crocuses & daffodils sprouted in my garden

Spring always brings me great hope.

The prospect of warmth and growth after periods of darkness and decay

I placed no urgency on myself today to DO anything or to BE anywhere or BE anything to anyone

What are you doing for you today?
Tell me below ⬇️

(P.s. if you would like to know more about my Travel Secret please reach out to me & i’d be happy to share )

Love
Jacq 🌹

03/03/2022

Was drawn to this new oracle from Rebecca Campbell which is only being released this week.

Her last oracle deck has brought a lot of clarity in my Simply BE Me Women’s Circle over the last few years so of course this one will too.

I have worked very closely with the rose energy and Magdalene energy which links closely to the rose for many years now

The rose is very linked to the heart chakra and of course I work with Rose essential oils and rose water too which is very healing for the heart and also very soothing on the soul.

It is also very beneficial for the skin to make it part of your beauty regime.

I have in recent years been very drawn to the Middle East and of course going back to Roman Times they have been using the water distilled from rose petals to bless and cleanse their Royal and Holy spaces. It is held in very high regard there to this day.

In the past, medicinal preparations based on roses were used to bring down fever and relieve headaches and pain in the joints. Today, herbalists use roses mostly for two other purposes: to calm the heart and spirit, and to stimulate sexual desire.

When we are instantly drawn to something it is usually our soul talking to us, our inner voice, our intuition.

I am excited to work with this oracle deck and allow the Magdalene energy that already works through me to be my guide to assist and guide anyone who chooses to seek some clarity from this deck

I am currently offering (this week only) a 1 card reading for anyone who adds their name to the comments below for FREE

This is a gift from my heart to yours ❤️🌹

22/02/2022

For all of her life, she's waited for a love that wouldn't betray her, a love that's safe... a home that she wouldn't lose.

She's done with feeling traumatized by the men who said that they would protect her heart, only to be the ones that betray her the most. She's done with trusting words, she's done with eating lies and settling for scraps of love. She's done with fighting to save relationships and other people's battles with themselves. She's done with crying herself to sleep.

If she's going to make space for a man in her life, then he has to be the real thing. A protector, not a predator. A man of integrity and character. A man that she doesn't have to try to change or fix because he's already done the work to become a better man for himself and for others. She only wants to invest her love in a man who knows how to lead in love and always chooses to do what's right, no matter how difficult, because he's not afraid. A man who is her equal and treats her the same way. A man who enriches her life with more love, more happiness and more peace. A man she can give her everything to because he is everything to her.
-Joel Clemons • Love, Life & Relationship Coach .gentleman.wolf
(If this is the kind of man that you want to become, I can help you. Message me for details.)
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