19/05/2025
My youngest is 31 months they just slept through the night for the first time
This is normal.
Night time parenting for growing brains is developmentally physiologically and anthropologically expected.
Your little humans will need you intensely for the first 3 years. At that point their brain is 80% developed.
Managing expectations, gathering supports, adopting radical acceptance for this season of parenthood.
Have I personally been there for every night of these 31 months? No. She’s been for nights away with her dad and siblings. Breastfeeding is a relationship, theirs is different.
Sleep is developmental.
Yes things impact it- illness, allergies, weight issues, oral function etc. support can look to address any issues.
However the societal expectations on our littlest people are absolutely at odds from what we know they need.
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🍉 It's been nearly a year since I posted on my grid. And still
All the children are ours. Born under a different sky.🍉
