Heather Garbutt Love & Relationship Coach

Heather Garbutt Love & Relationship Coach Heather Garbutt, Love and Relationship Coach, specialises in creating positive dynamics in relations

Laura de la Harpe and I did a lovely podcast on the menopause and how it affects our relationships
12/09/2025

Laura de la Harpe and I did a lovely podcast on the menopause and how it affects our relationships

It’s that time of year again. If you’re walking on the Lambourn Way behind Western, you will find our tree. It’s all a b...
30/08/2025

It’s that time of year again. If you’re walking on the Lambourn Way behind Western, you will find our tree. It’s all a bit wet, but most of the apples are good. Please help yourself - not long before we can pick them up the tree.

27/08/2025

Carole Cadwalladr is live on the film, “Can’t Look Away” HxXx

You learned how to survive love before you ever knew what it meant to thrive in it. Attachment styles aren’t fixed—they...
12/08/2025

You learned how to survive love before you ever knew what it meant to thrive in it.

Attachment styles aren’t fixed—they’re formed. And they can evolve.

This is your permission to stop blaming yourself.
And start getting curious instead:

🔁 What do you fear most in intimacy?
🔁 What have your patterns been trying to protect you from?

10/08/2025

A short video talking about what you can do to find love and an invitation to join our one-day, in-person retreat in West Berkshire UK.

 Networking dinner at The Boxford. Delicious food, lovely company! HxXx
23/07/2025

 Networking dinner at The Boxford. Delicious food, lovely company! HxXx

09/07/2025

So many of us walk through love wearing armour that was never ours to carry.

We become who we think we need to be: agreeable, pleasing, adaptable. All in the hope that someone will stay.

But love doesn’t thrive when we abandon ourselves to fit in—it blossoms when we show up in full truth.

🌀 Where have you silenced your voice in love?
🌀 What stories about your worth or desirability are you ready to release?

You are not too much. You are not too late. You are not unlovable.

✨ Your new love story begins the moment you decide to honour yourself above the illusion of ‘not enough.’

Comment one love belief you're ready to rewrite.

Do you keep attracting the wrong kind of partner... emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or unable to love you back?It...
25/06/2025

Do you keep attracting the wrong kind of partner... emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or unable to love you back?

It’s not your fault, but it is your responsibility to change the pattern.

The first step is tuning into your own emotional landscape.

Know your needs. Honour your feelings. Value yourself.

Only then can you begin to choose someone who sees, respects, and meets you where you are.

Healing begins within. Love begins with you.

✨ Ready to shift this pattern and call in the love you truly deserve? Let’s take the first step together, DM me to learn how.

13/06/2025

Just had the loveliest conversation with Chris Wong on the “Art and Science of Difficult Conversations” podcast 💬❤️
We spoke about something so real – how tricky it can be to talk about the hard stuff in relationships.

But here's the truth: the way we communicate with each other can either bring us closer… or quietly build walls between us.

In this episode, we share:
- Why honest, kind conversations are the glue that holds love together
- How to recognise and work with your triggers (not against them)
- The magic of being intentional – especially when things get tough
- A simple little date night ritual that helps couples reconnect and stay close

It’s full of insights to help you feel safer, clearer, and more deeply understood in your relationship. Full episode here: https://www.mindfittery.com/podcasts/the-art-and-science-of-difficult-conversations/episodes/2149042128

Want to start your relationship on solid ground?
Take a look at my “Couple Coaching for a Lifetime of Love” – it’s all about building a love that truly lasts.
👉 https://heathergarbutt.com/couples-relationship-coaching/

Questions Before Entering a Relationship: Before you give your heart away, pause and ask: Do they want the same life you...
11/06/2025

Questions Before Entering a Relationship: Before you give your heart away, pause and ask: Do they want the same life you do?

Can they love you the way you need to be loved? Falling in love is powerful—but falling with someone who can catch you is transformational.

Know what you want, and have the courage to ask if they’re capable of walking that path with you.

Love should feel safe, expansive, and clear. If you’re not emotionally aligned, no amount of chemistry will fix that.

My FREE dealmakers and dealbreakers guide will help you - https://heathergarbutt.com/dealmakers-dealbreakers/

This is a wonderful clip from my interview with Colette Bane, family Solicitor as we talked about what the most importan...
08/06/2025

This is a wonderful clip from my interview with Colette Bane, family Solicitor as we talked about what the most important things are in preparing for divorce.

04/06/2025

Divorce doesn’t have to be a battlefield.

In my latest Revolutionise Your Love Life podcast, I spoke with my friend and the wonderful family solicitor Colette Bane about how to navigate separation with grace, care, and a clear head.

We talked about:
💛 Finding the right people to support you
🌿 How to keep calm when emotions run high
🧭 Using SMART goals to bring clarity in the chaos

This one is a must-listen for anyone going through or considering separation. It's gentle, wise, and empowering.

✨ You can listen here: https://heathergarbutt.com/podcast/creating-calm-and-clarity-through-divorce

And do share it with someone who needs to hear this. With love, Heather x

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About me

I have been working in mental and emotional health for over 30 years, first as an Art Psychotherapist then as a Counsellor and Couples Therapist.

I am now also a qualified Calling in “The One” coach, having been trained and mentored by Katherine Woodward Thomas. In addition, I am a long-term accredited member of The British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Health and Care Professions Council registered and a member of The British Association of Arts Therapists.

I am enjoying the fresh eye and new, very powerful tools for change that Calling in “The One” has given me. It is integrating beautifully into my work life and my love life!