01/01/2026
Happy New Year
A lot of people end that phrase with an exclamation mark!
An exclamation mark is used to convey strong emotion, excitement, shock, joy, anger.
It can also be used as a command or convey urgency.
How people perceive it can be so different:
Are you happy it is a new year, was last year a nightmare?
Are you excited, do you have plans for 2026?
Are you shocked, has last year passed so fast?
Do you feel it is telling you have to be happy because it is New Year? Do you feel as though everyone else but you is enjoying themselves?
Begin to realise that EACH DAY IS A NEW DAY, whatever the date. You can start new hobbies, make changes, create a goal, whatever the date is. The main thing to recognise, is that even if you don't stick to your new plans every day, you continue, you move forward.
We all have other things that have an impact on us and what we want to do - money, partners, work, children, pets etc. Be kind to yourself, make time for YOU!
So if you start a new fitness regime and miss a day/session, that's fine, continue.
If you have a long term goal, split it into smaller more achievable ones. Set a date to complete it, if you don't get it done by then, still continue.
Every time you continue is creating a stronger neural pathway in your brain. Yes, it is hard, it takes persistence, effort, time, but you CAN do it!
As a child you fell over learning to walk, but you carried on, you persevered. Every time you got your face covered in food trying to eat, you took that spoon and tried again. You have learned so much since the day you were born, remind yourself of what you have already achieved.
Don't be pressured by others, it is okay to do what you want in your own time, sometimes what we need is just space and time alone, to sit, to chill, to allow ourselves to breathe and just be.
Forget about the year, take each day and notice the little things that make you smile. Some people make a note and put it in a jar and then on New Year's Eve read all the lovely little things that have happened. 💜