15/01/2026
Content note: infant death
“Sharing Violet’s story is all we can do for her now. If it means just one other baby is protected, or one family knows more than we did, then that’s all we can dream for. That can be Violet’s legacy.”
Hayley and Dimitri’s first-born, Violet, died from the herpes virus.
Hayley is sharing her story in Violet’s honour, to raise awareness of how serious infections can be in newborn babies, and to help others feel confident in setting boundaries on behalf of their baby.
“I have a message to those who might be struggling to come to terms with a parent’s wishes for you not to kiss their baby or hold their baby without washing their hands. If you witnessed what happened to Violet, I truly believe you wouldn’t question kissing a newborn baby, not washing your hands or visiting whilst unwell.”
Read Hayley and Dimitri’s story in full 👉 https://bit.ly/3WUhq45