Julie Kuhn - Counselling for you

Julie Kuhn - Counselling for you Helping you to overcome your challenges, reduce conflict and step into being your true self. You don't have to Struggle Alone!

I offer a range of therapeutic counselling sessions to enable you to choose one that is suitable for your needs and fits in with your lifestyle. Ask me about my Telephone, Online, Outside Eco and Creative Arts Counselling.

In therapy, endings can sometimes feel tricky for clientsWhether it’s a change in a relationshipleaving therapya transit...
06/10/2025

In therapy, endings can sometimes feel tricky for clients

Whether it’s a change in a relationship
leaving therapy
a transition at work
or even the close of a life chapter that has shaped who we are.

When a client is preparing to end therapy after building confidence or letting go of old patterns, the ending can sometimes feel bittersweet.
There’s pride in how far they’ve come
but also a natural wobble in wondering
“Can I do this without the weekly sessions”

One of the creative tools I sometimes use to support this stage
is a set of reflective cards.

Each card offers a gentle question
or a prompt
an invitation to pause
To reflect and notice what’s happening
Both on the outside and inside.

These prompts aren’t about “giving the right answer.”
They’re about reflecting and creating choice
And through that choice,
clients can often discover…

A new perspective
Acknowledging their inner strength
A deeper self-awareness of who they are beyond their conditioning
Or even a glimpse of what new beginnings are emerging as therapy closes.

Endings in therapy can often be
celebrations of
new beginnings
And changes that have taken root.

👉Have you ever used reflective prompts
or journalling questions
to help you through an ending
or a new beginning in your own life?

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‘trying to breathe through a straw while everyone’s shouting instructions at me.’ Maybe you’ve felt that too?That’s how ...
24/09/2025

‘trying to breathe through a straw while everyone’s shouting instructions at me.’
Maybe you’ve felt that too?

That’s how Louise described her overwhelm at one of her therapy sessions.
Too many demands
too many thoughts
too much pressure

And when her nervous system slipped into “survival mode”
even simple tasks felt impossible.

Instead of pushing through
Louise tried something different…
she paused and self soothed

Check out how Louise grounded and soothed herself using her senses…⬇️

👣 Touch – soaking her feet in warm water after a long day
🕯 Sight – watching a candle flicker quietly in the evening
🌺 Smell – breathing in lavender to signal calm
👂 Sound – putting on a playlist of soft gentle music
🍫 Taste – slowly savouring a piece of chocolate

She realised something…

Overwhelm isn’t a sign of failure. It’s your body asking for care.

➡️What would your “Louise moment” look like?
➡️Which sense would you start with?













Are you tired of hearing yourself apologising for everything? This could mean that you’re likely stuck in old patterns. ...
18/09/2025

Are you tired of hearing yourself apologising for everything?

This could mean that you’re likely stuck in old patterns. Ones that are usually learned early and that your brain thinks are still helping you to survive but instead now they’re getting in the way.

What to try today…
Notice where “sorry” slips out.
Ask yourself “Do I actually need to apologise?”
Try replacing your regular sorry with something more neutral like “Thanks for waiting” / “I’ll do that next” or “That’s Noted.”

Change is small, steady, and doable. If this feels heavy, you don’t have to do it alone. I help my clients to step out of “automatic sorry”. For a free no obligation chat contact me via the Linktree in my bio

There might be things about you that feel like they’ll never change… and yetthey can.Maybe you find yourself saying sorr...
15/09/2025

There might be things about you that feel like they’ll never change…
and yet
they can.

Maybe you find yourself saying sorry for this
sorry for that
And even saying sorry if someone else bumps into you
Maybe it feels easier for you to apologise rather than to risk getting something wrong.
Easier to shrink yourself a little
than to face the possibility of confrontation.

Being you doesn’t have to be confrontational
Being you doesn’t mean pretending to be someone you’re not
You’re allowed to live your life without unnecessary apologies
You’re allowed to stop shrinking yourself for fear of conflict
You’re allowed to be you.

Change is possible
even when it feels out of reach.

If any of this sounds familiar
you’re not alone.
If you’d like support in exploring these patterns and finding more ease in being yourself
Contact me for your free introductory chat without obligation via the Linktree in my bio










Not everyone finds it easy to put feelings into words. Sometimes words aren’t enough… or they get stuck.That’s where cre...
08/09/2025

Not everyone finds it easy to put feelings into words.
Sometimes words aren’t enough…
or they get stuck.

That’s where creativity comes in. 🎨🌿
Doodling,
metaphors,
imagery,
or even a leaf picked up on a walk can help bypass the inner critic and get to the heart of what’s really going on.

Talking uses one part of the brain.
Creativity opens another
the part that helps untangle thoughts
spot patterns
and discover insights.

It’s not about being “artistic,”
it’s about exploring what lies beneath
In a way that is
Safe
curious
and often surprising

🦉 And don’t worry
creativity is never obligatory in sessions.
I offer it only if it feels right for you.

If you’re curious, you can book a free introductory chat via the link in my bio. 💬

You don’t have to struggle alone!









One simple technique that helps you say no without the drama…If someone keeps pushing you to do something you don’t want...
26/08/2025

One simple technique that helps you say no without the drama…

If someone keeps pushing you to do something you don’t want, try the Broken Record Technique.

It’s a simple but powerful way to…

✔️ Stay calm
✔️ Protect your boundaries
✔️ Avoid being pulled into debates or guilt trips

By calmly repeating your boundary you show self-respect and over time others learn to respect it too.

👉 Full details are in the carousel post

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👉 If you want to know more about counselling/ working with me you can book your free introductory chat here…. https://calendly.com/counsellingforyou/intro-call

We can have a chat about how I might help you. There is no pressure, there are no expectations and you can ask me any questions you might have.

𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙙𝙤𝙣’𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙡𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚!

What can you leave behind in 2024?
31/12/2024

What can you leave behind in 2024?








Do family get-togethers feel challenging? Here’s some tips that can help.Whether it’s your button-pushing relatives, emo...
16/12/2024

Do family get-togethers feel challenging? Here’s some tips that can help.

Whether it’s your button-pushing relatives, emotional triggers, or just the chaos of the season, you can stay calm and in control. 💡

Swipe through for 5 practical tips to help you manage stress, protect your boundaries, and keep your sanity during family time.

✨ You’ve got this!

👉 Which tip will you try first? Let me know in the comments!”

🚨Save this post to revisit when you need it most!

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Building self-worth doesn’t have to be a massive project. Start with one of these tips and slowly add one more when you ...
25/11/2024

Building self-worth doesn’t have to be a massive project.

Start with one of these tips and slowly add one more when you feel ready to.

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