15/11/2022
Giving Autistic or other Neurodivergent children the words to explain their experiences is so important. Self-knowledge leads to self-empowerment and self-determination.
I got an email from a parent who's reading my book aloud to her 8-year-old son. Her story brought me to tears – I found it so relatable, and so redemptive.
Here's part of the email, shared with permission from both the parent and the child:
"On Monday the school called me to collect [child] early, he couldn’t stop crying and was telling his teacher he was having a mental breakdown. We read your [processing] chapter that night, and he happily went off to school the next day to let his teacher know that it wasn’t a mental breakdown, but cognitive overload. And that he needs more processing time to combat it. He was so proud to have the language and knowledge to be able to explain and teach."
My bursting heart! THIS is why I do what I do – so kids like me, and adults too, won't have to face what I faced.
There's immense power in finding the right words to explain an experience. "Autistic" is one such word, and it's an important one, but it can also open the door to so many more.
neurobeautiful.com/book
Image description: "What I Mean When I Say I'm Autistic" is open to page 30, with these words highlighted in pink and orange: "When I don't have enough time, my brain begins to feel so full that there's no room left for new thoughts or actions. Cognitive overload. So all-consuming. Distress is any little thing added on top – such as a question, a change in my environment, or a required action." Other sentences are in the alt text.