
18/09/2025
💫 Toxic Positivity vs. Healthy Support 💫
We’ve all heard phrases like:
✨ “Good vibes only.”
✨ “It could be worse.”
✨ “There’s plenty more fish in the sea.”
They sound encouraging, but here’s the truth 👉 these messages can feel dismissive when someone is struggling. This is what we call toxic positivity - the idea that we should always be happy, no matter what we’re going through.
💡 Why is this a problem?
Because real healing comes from honouring all emotions, not covering them up. When we tell ourselves (or others) to “just be positive,” we might:
🚫 Ignore pain instead of working through it.
🚫 Feel ashamed for having normal human emotions.
🚫 Struggle alone because it feels like no one wants to hear the hard stuff.
✨ Healthy support looks different. ✨
Instead of pushing positivity, we can lean into compassion.
❤️ “That sounds really tough - do you want to talk about it?”
❤️ “I’m here for you.”
❤️ “It makes sense you feel this way.”
🌱 Remember:
•It’s ok to feel sad, angry or overwhelmed. You don’t need to “fix” your emotions to be worthy of care
• It’s ok to feel sad , angry or overwhelmed.
• True resilience comes from allowing feelings, not denying them.