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22/10/2025

🌟 We asked: What’s the first thing that comes to mind when you think of Alex’s teaching or supervisory style?

Here’s what people shared… 💬👇

🗣️ “Helpful, direct – with compassion.”
💪 “Empowering.”
🧠 “Comprehensive.”
⚓ “Alex is like a calm port in a storm.”
🧭 “Support and knowledge.”
👂 “I always felt really comfortable.”
💬 “Engaging.”
📚 “Competency.”
✨ “Extremely knowledgeable and gives great practical tips.”
💡 “That I end the session feeling much clearer.”
🛠️ “Right amount of scaffolding to empower.”
💖 “Warm, compassionate, and invites curiosity.”
🧩 “Clear, direct, and organised – which is containing.”
🧵 “Conversational, knowledgeable, pragmatic.”
🔍 “Alex’s curiosity and intellectual generosity stand out.”
🔄 “Clarity and flexibility.”
📖 “Guided by strong formulation and actionable goals.”
🌟 “Direct (in a kind way) – no fear, just focus.”
🧑‍🏫 “Extremely knowledgeable and experienced.”
🧑‍🎓 “Knowledgeable and informative.”
💭 “Emphasis on safety, resources, and therapeutic rapport.”

💬 "Her ability to adapt supervision to your context… to help you reflect on adaptations you've already made and why. You learn when to stick to protocol, and when to flex."

22/10/2025

📣 We asked: How would you describe Alex’s training or supervision style in three words?

Here’s what people said… 👇

🧠 Comprehensive. Clear. Kind.
🌱 Supportive. Empowering. Educational.
💡 Flexible. Thoughtful. Knowledgeable.
🎯 Goal-Focused. Open. Didactic.
🛡️ Expert. Safe. Funny.
✨ Generous. Supportive. Flexible.
🤝 Friendly. Supportive. Thorough.
📚 Informative. Supportive. Engaging.
🧭 Focused. Knowledgeable. Reliable.
❤️ Caring. Compassionate. Clear.
🪞 Dynamic. Reflective. Safe.
🧘 Trauma-Informed. Skilled. Approachable.
📈 Encouraging. Insightful. Supportive.
🎓 Professional. Containing. Realistic.
🔍 Incisive. Illuminating. Supportive.

🙌 And so many more…

Our next EMDR Training starting in January is filling up fast and it will not be long before its full. If you are a ment...
21/10/2025

Our next EMDR Training starting in January is filling up fast and it will not be long before its full.

If you are a mental health professional and would like to start your in person EMDR training Journey with us, please follow the link for our dates. https://drbutton-emdrtraining.co.uk/emdr-training-dates/

Please can you also make sure you meet the eligibility criteria to avoid disappointment https://drbutton-emdrtraining.co.uk/eligibility-criteria/

It is essential that you have core training in mental health and adequate clinical skills before undertaking EMDR training.

16/10/2025

This is a good and easy one for us in the military community to remember

The "fog of war" is a term used to describe the uncertainty, confusion, and lack of clarity experienced by participants, especially commanders, during military operations.

Popularised by Carl von Clausewitz, a 19th-century Prussian military theorist.

He described war as being enveloped in a "fog" of uncertainty that commanders must learn to navigate

The fog of war is a key reason why wars don’t always follow expected plans.

It explains why intelligence, communication, and adaptability are as important as firepower.

There is another FOG which is “Fear, Obligation, and Guilt" psychological/emotional tools used in manipulation and control, often in toxic relationships or systems.

In therapy, the concept of FOG "Fear, Obligation, and Guilt" is incredibly important, especially when working with clients who:
• Struggle with people-pleasing, low self-worth, or boundaries
• Come from dysfunctional families or abusive relationships
• Are healing from narcissistic abuse, co-dependency, or trauma

1. Fear
Clients may fear:
• Rejection, abandonment, conflict, or disappointing others
• Setting boundaries or saying “no”
• Being seen as selfish, ungrateful, or difficult

2. Obligation
Clients may feel:
• Responsible for others’ emotions or outcomes
• That they have to care for, fix, or protect others
• Bound by roles (“the good daughter,” “the strong one,” “the peacemaker”)

3. Guilt
Clients often carry:
• Toxic guilt for prioritising their own needs
• Guilt-trips from family or partners
• Internalised beliefs like “I’m bad if I don’t help” or “It’s my fault they’re upset”

FOG keeps people emotionally trapped. Therapy helps clear the fog so they can see their own needs, values, and choices more clearly.
Clients learn to:
• Identify and name FOG-based reactions
• Set healthier boundaries without fear or guilt
• Reclaim autonomy and self-worth

Today is World Mental Health Day. For us everyday is around helping and sharing the psychological education that may of ...
10/10/2025

Today is World Mental Health Day. For us everyday is around helping and sharing the psychological education that may of either don't understand and/or may seem totally alien to us.

"We know what we know and don't know what we don't know"

According to ancient Greek and Roman authors, there were three maxims prominently inscribed upon the Temple of Apollo at Delphi: one of those was the words "know thyself".

There has been many debates about what this actually means. For me, I believe that its easy to fall in the trap and over look what our own needs in life are. We are all searching for our own version of what contentment looks like, but until we really "know thyself" we will never find it.

They say a picture paints a thousand words and for many of you, you will already know this powerful message. ❤️

Great turnout along the bay today on the Baton of Hope walk. Well done!
30/09/2025

Great turnout along the bay today on the Baton of Hope walk.
Well done!

On part of the sharing knowledge of EMDR therapy  Mel and Alex discuss EMDR for complex trauma and how it has helped.
26/09/2025

On part of the sharing knowledge of EMDR therapy Mel and Alex discuss EMDR for complex trauma and how it has helped.

Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.

I've just connected with Kate on LinkedIn who runs the following podcasts. https://www.youtube.com/ If you, like me have...
25/09/2025

I've just connected with Kate on LinkedIn who runs the following podcasts. https://www.youtube.com/ If you, like me have the curious mind to listen and are open to learn through real peoples stories from all other the world. Give it a go! After all it's all about sharing the knowledge on what is available and what could potentially help someone. If one of these episodes helps or inspires someone to seek help. Our job is done, and we've done our little bit for humanity 😊

The Curious Collective, led by visionary founder Kate Chisholm, is your gateway to genuine transformation, featuring 96+ powerful episodes and groundbreaking content focused on veterans and first responders. This isn't just talk – it's a revolution in healing and personal growth + raw, unfiltered ...

23/09/2025

🧠 Common Misconceptions About EMDR – Let’s Set the Record Straight

Now, if you're seeing this post, then you’ve probably heard of EMDR, especially with how often it’s mentioned in podcasts, therapy spaces, or even by clients themselves.

But while awareness of EMDR is growing, so are common misconceptions.

Here are a few I hear regularly, from clients, from colleagues, and even from therapists who are considering training:

Myth 1: EMDR is a type of hypnosis.
❌ Not true. EMDR is a structured, evidence-based therapy that keeps clients fully awake and in control throughout. There’s no altered state, just focused attention, and support to reprocess distressing memories safely.

Myth 2: You don’t talk at all in EMDR.
❌ This one comes up a lot. While EMDR isn’t a “talking therapy” in the traditional sense, it absolutely involves therapeutic conversation, especially in the preparation phase and during debriefs. You’ll still be using your therapeutic presence, attunement, and clinical skills throughout.

Myth 3: EMDR only works for PTSD.
❌ EMDR is recommended by NICE for PTSD, however, its use is much broader than that. It’s highly effective for complex trauma, anxiety, phobias, pain, and more. Many clients present with difficulties that have a trauma-related underpinning, even if they don’t fit a PTSD diagnosis.

Myth 4: It’s all about eye movements.
👀 Eye movements are one way to provide bilateral stimulation, but they’re not the only method. Tapping, auditory tones, and tactile stimulation are also used. EMDR is about how the brain reprocesses stored distress, not about the movement itself.

Myth 5: You need years of trauma experience before you can train in EMDR.
✅ While some clinical experience is important, you don’t need to be a trauma specialist to start training. If you're a qualified mental health professional with an interest in trauma-informed work, EMDR training will give you the structure and support to grow in this area.

The truth is: EMDR is powerful, but it's also structured, teachable, and grounded in clinical evidence.

You don’t need to fully understand it before starting training, that’s what the training is for. In my EMDR Europe Accredited programme, you’ll learn not just the theory, but how to apply it safely and confidently with real clients. That includes:

✅ Live demonstrations
✅ Practice sessions with supportive supervision
✅ Case examples from real clinical work
✅ Plenty of space for questions and exploration

🎓 My next training takes place 28–30 January 2026 in Torquay (with follow-up sessions in March & July).

Book your place or find out more at:
👉 drbutton-emdrtraining.co.uk/emdr-training-dates

23/09/2025

We are excited to announce that due to continuing growth to the EMDR accredited Training side of the business. I’ve recently launched new social channels to share EMDR-related content and connect with more therapists interested in trauma-informed practice.

We’ll be posting:
🧠 Educational videos
🎥 Behind-the-scenes from our training sessions
💬 Tips for EMDR therapists
📚 Bite-sized reflections on trauma, processing, and practice

If you're curious about EMDR or thinking about training, I'd love for you to follow along:

🔗 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/.emdrtraining
🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbutton.emdrtraining/
🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Dr-Button-EMDR-Training/61580885285707/
Feel free to share with colleagues or anyone who might find it useful. Looking forward to building a supportive space for EMDR learning and connection!

A few local veterans will be taking part in this 👏
22/09/2025

A few local veterans will be taking part in this 👏

Baton of Hope Torbay Lots of activities and a place to come and join us and be a part of the wonderful day.

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