09/04/2026
If you have resonated with the tactics used on the Power & Control Wheel, it can be difficult to know what to look for in a healthy relationship. This is where the Equality Wheel can be really helpful as it offers an alternative. If you lay the Equality Wheel over the Power and Control Wheel, you’ll notice they are corresponding opposites:
FAIRNESS AND NEGOTIATION instead of Coercing and Threatening
NON-THREATENING BEHAVIOUR instead of Using Intimidation
RESPECT instead of Using Emotional Abuse
TRUST AND SUPPORT instead of Using Isolation
ACCOUNTABILITY AND HONESTY instead of Minimising, Denying and Blaming
RESPONSIBLE PARENTING instead of Using Children
SHARED RESPONSIBILITY instead of Using Privilege
ECONOMIC PARTNERSHIP instead of Using Economic Abuse
The Equality Wheel visually represents healthy relationship dynamics.
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