04/03/2026
“I don’t recognise my body anymore.”
As a woman in my 40s, I understand this shift.
You can be eating the same, training the same, living the same, and suddenly your lower abdomen feels different.
Softer.
Less supported.
Harder to engage.
It’s confusing.
And it can quietly affect confidence.
But this isn’t about willpower.
During menopause, oestrogen declines, muscle mass gradually reduces, collagen production slows, and fat distribution can shift toward the abdomen. Deep core engagement often weakens too.
What changes isn’t just shape.
It’s support.
Nutrition matters here. As muscle changes, protein needs increase. Insulin sensitivity can shift. Stress responses can influence where energy is stored.
It isn’t simply a change on the scales.
It’s muscle integrity, hormonal transition, and tissue response.
In the earlier photo, you can see reduced lower abdominal tension and visible laxity.
In the follow-up:
• Improved structural support
• Flatter lower abdominal contour
• More balanced waist transition
• Smoother tissue tone
This suggests improved deep abdominal wall activation and better intra-abdominal pressure control, alongside supportive nutrition, not restriction.
Your body isn’t failing.
It’s adapting.
And with the right physiological approach, it can respond.
At Icarus Body Confidence in North Tyneside, I focus on muscle activation, tissue integrity and nutrition support, working from muscle to skin.
If this resonates with you, message me privately. You’re not alone in this stage of change.