21/11/2025
Vulnerability connects faster than competence.
I learned this through my own mistakes:
When I work with clients,
I don't pretend to be perfect.
I tell them:
• "Planning isn't my strength."
• "I sometimes get things wrong."
• "I'm not great at spotting mistakes."
For example in my supervision a few months ago, my supervisor said:
"I love how you just observe what's going on within you without judgment or criticism."
This is what my clients experience too.
When you're honest about your limitations,
you notice a real difference:
People feel permission to be human.
There's no competition.
No need to prove anything.
No pressure to be perfect.
But, the alternative is exhausting:
• Pretending you have it all figured out.
• Never showing weakness.
• Always being "on."
That creates distance, not trust.
So, my approach is about:
Showing up as a complete human being.
Strengths and weaknesses included.
It's that mix of softness and challenge that creates safety.
And it’s when leaders drop their masks that teams feel safe dropping theirs too.
P.S. What’s one small way you show vulnerability in your work?