06/02/2026
Many people donât burn out from one big thing.
They burn out from one small word, repeated for months:
âIâm fine.â
Fine can mean:
ă»âI can handle it.â
ă»âIâll deal with it later.â
ă»âI donât want to talk about it.â
ă»âI donât want to be a burden.â
And the tricky part isâŠ
Fine works.
It keeps you reliable.
It keeps you productive.
It keeps you looking capable.
But it also keeps you disconnected from yourself.
And when youâre disconnected,
you lead on autopilot:
ă»Old patterns.
ă»Old coping strategies.
ă»Old ways of pushing through.
Not because you want to.
But because you havenât had space to pause long enough to notice.
So if âfineâ has become your default,
try asking yourself this question:
Whatâs the honest answer I keep editing out?
Not the perfect answer.
The honest one.