15/12/2025
Sita gave us a lovely welcome to her grocery shop and introduced us to her husband Nabaraj and their little lad. We had met at the community media training workshop, where Sita had been a very active and thoughtful contributor.
She thanked Zain for that experience, feeling very positive about what she’d learned, for example about interviewing and the use of social media. She is thinking of using TikTok to advertise her shop, and, with a bit of luck, to go viral! Together with Prem Bahadur and Sujata from her newly-established self-help group (SHG), Sita will report back to the group at their next meeting.
She is the Treasurer of the SHG. It is already making a difference, with opportunities to network, meet new people and learn from them. Nabaraj is also a member, and told us he was overwhelmed – in a good way! – by the experience so far. It’s his first time belonging to a group like this: he’s learning a lot. He tends to be quiet in the meetings, but feels he could ask questions if necessary, and discusses the issues with Sita at home.
Business is ok: "thikai chha." The shop hadn’t been doing too well until recently when, thanks to livelihood support from our project, she was able to invest in ingredients for chatpati and panipuri snacks which have proved popular among passing kids from the school just down the road.
Sita is very positive about the attitudes of her Gagalphedi neighbours, who often help with reaching things on the shop’s top shelves, looking after the child, or taking Nabaraj to collect disability benefits. The biggest problem for disabled people, she thinks, are money, accessibility and work opportunities.
She suspects disabled women have more problems than men. In her case, she is responsible for everything: their son's childcare, getting him to school (and affording the bill), running the home, cooking… and Nabaraj depends on her too. Sita hopes that her community media activities will raise awareness about the lives of disabled women.