Circle of you - hypnotherapy and counselling

17/08/2025

A profound insight drawn from the diaries of children living with depression.
Through Małgorzata Gołota’s words, we step into the hidden reality of their pain — the suffocating weight of hopelessness, fear, and self-blame. This fragment reveals the raw, unfiltered truth of what so many young people endure in silence.

11/08/2025

Exploring Healing Through Inner Sight & Folklore

For centuries, wise women, healers, and folklore keepers have cared for body and soul in ways we might now call unconventional.
It doesn’t matter what we think people believed — they felt healed. And that makes me wonder: was it the mind, belief, or something more?

Driven by curiosity, I began exploring alternative approaches to therapy and healing, blending inner sight with the wisdom of magical folklore.
I’ve learned that curiosity is the key to knowledge — and sometimes, we can be deeply surprised by what we discover.

This journey has challenged my assumptions, opened new ways of listening and feeling, and revealed how much we can learn when we stay open.

Along the way, I’ve shared this path with inspiring people whose knowledge, humor, and presence have made the experience richer.

Every step uncovers new layers of the self — and every story carries a spark of healing.

01/08/2025

Recently, I listened to an NLP video, and one phrase really struck me:

"Who are you?"

At first, I could easily answer - I’m a mum, a therapist, a wife. I carry these roles every day, and they mean so much to me. But then the question came again, more insistently:

"But who are you REALLY?"

And suddenly, I was speechless. With all the thinking, all the effort… I couldn’t answer.

It almost felt like I couldn’t remember who I was - or maybe I never truly knew.

How many people get so caught up in life that they lose touch with their own self?

I have a feeling I’m not the only one.

So now I’m determined to find out who I actually am beneath the titles, the responsibilities, the expectations. Maybe you can join me.

Because when you strip away the roles - what remains?

When you’re completely alone, not doing anything for anyone - what’s left?

What moments make you feel most alive, even if no one sees?

As a child, before the world told you who to be - what lit you up?

What do you long for, even if you can’t explain it?

Maybe we’re not meant to define ourselves with a single answer, but to live that question, moment by moment.

So let me ask you, as I ask myself:

Right now, in this moment - without roles or obligations - what does your inner world feel like?

Quiet?

Chaotic?

Curious?

Numb?

Hopeful?

There’s no right answer.

Just the start of a journey inward.

Let’s walk it - together.

23/07/2025

The moment the line went silent was the scariest of my career as a therapist.
In that silence, I faced helplessness, heartbreak—and the raw truth of how fragile life can be. This blog isn’t about fixing. It’s about sitting with the pain, holding space, and learning how we care for others and ourselves.

If you’re a therapist, or someone who’s ever sat with someone in the dark, this is for you.

Read the full story https://www.circle-of-you.co.uk/when-the-line-went-silent/

Explore expert insights from Circle of You on hypnotherapy, counselling, and emotional wellbeing. Learn how these therapies can help manage anxiety, stress, and support personal growth

16/07/2025

I am here and I am listening!

13/07/2025

“I always thought I’d stay calm if someone shouted at me — after all, I’m a therapist. I know the difference between my emotions and someone else’s. But when a parent shouted at me in public, something inside shifted. I felt ashamed for not shouting back — like I didn’t protect my child unless I responded with anger. That moment taught me something deeper: we need to untangle anger from aggression. We can honour our emotions without losing ourselves in them.”

Anger is valid. Aggression is a choice.

And walking away? That can be strength too.

More in my new blog so please read:

https://www.circle-of-you.co.uk/anger-aggression-and-the-line-in-between/

Explore expert insights from Circle of You on hypnotherapy, counselling, and emotional wellbeing. Learn how these therapies can help manage anxiety, stress, and support personal growth

05/07/2025

"Labels can help us understand how our minds work - offering clarity, relief, and a language for our experience. But they can also quietly build walls, making us believe the sky is out of reach. A diagnosis is not a limitation - it’s a starting point. Whether you have a label or not, you are worthy of support, growth, and hope. These are tools for understanding, not boxes to live in."
– Circle of You

01/07/2025

"Silence can be hard — because in the quiet, we hear ourselves. One mind, one voice, one tangle of emotions. Some are frightening, some painfully familiar… but each one is part of our truth. And every part matters."
– Circle of You

27/06/2025

"The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." – Lao Tzu

20/06/2025

“Mirror, mirror on the wall... who do you hear when you call?”
If your inner voice feels more like a critic than a coach - this is for you.
The way you talk to yourself becomes the way you see yourself.
Here’s a mantra (and a mindset shift) that could change your reflection - from the inside out.

If your inner voice feels more like a critic than a coach - this is for you. The way you talk to yourself becomes the way you see yourself