Pawsitive Dog Behaviour Consultancy

Pawsitive Dog Behaviour Consultancy Natalie specialises in helping reactive and aggressive dogs feel safe, transforming behaviour with a holistic evidence-based approach.

Natalie is a seasoned Holistic Dog Behaviourist specialising in addressing reactivity and aggression issues across all breeds and rescues. With over eighteen years of experience and qualifications at levels five and six and professional accreditation at the highest level with the IAABC (International Association of Animal Behavior Consultants), Natalie has dedicated her career to helping dogs and their owners build harmonious relationships. Based in the UK, Natalie offers her expertise online worldwide and in person to dog caregivers and professionals alike. Her journey into the field of dog behaviour began in 2007, with a deep-rooted passion for understanding canine behaviour and helping her first-ever heart dog overcome the behavioural challenges associated with reactivity. This subject has continued to be an obsession all this time. Throughout her career, Natalie has worked with thousands of dogs, including rescues, police dogs, and cases referred by veterinarians and other professionals. Her approach is rooted in applied neuroscience for affective behaviour, focusing on a holistic, force-free, coercion-free, positive-based methodology. Natalie believes in investigating and addressing behavioural issues at their root cause, delving into sleep, nutrition, exercise, socialisation, and freedom from pain and discomfort. By prioritising the emotional wellbeing of companion dogs and their caregivers, she empowers them to navigate life's challenges confidently together, overcoming behavioural issues.

If your dog barks, lunges, growls or snaps, you already know how exhausting it is to live on edge. Every walk becomes a ...
16/01/2026

If your dog barks, lunges, growls or snaps, you already know how exhausting it is to live on edge. Every walk becomes a battle. Every noise outside makes your heart race. People stare. You feel judged. You feel like you’re failing them.

You’ve tried what you’ve seen online. You’ve followed the advice. Maybe even worked with trainers and behaviourists. But your dog is still struggling and no one seems to really get it.

That’s because most approaches oversimplify things. They pick apart behaviour like it’s a broken machine. They ignore physical health. They ignore the fear driving that reactive behaviour. They ignore your dog’s whole world and the 35,000 years of co-evolution that shaped them to live alongside us. Your needs might be ignored too.

Quick fixes sell training programs and look flashy on social media. But they don’t heal. They don't give you a happy, healthy dog that doesn't overreact.

Your dog isn’t broken, but they are struggling. And that struggle will not go away unless we understand their emotional world and meet their needs without pain, fear or punishment.

Holistic training is not flashy. It won’t go viral. But it works. It builds trust. It builds safety. It gives your dog their life back and gives you yours too.

You do not have to do this alone.

I have three spaces left in July. If you’re struggling with your reactive dog, reach out using the link in the first comment. Help is here.

15/01/2026

Stress free reactive dog walks are not about pushing through or ticking boxes. 🐾

They are about reducing load on the nervous system. Fewer triggers. More predictability. Shorter exposures. More choice. More safety. 🌿

A reactive dog cannot learn, process, or cope when they are already in fight or flight. Relaxed behaviour comes after regulation, not before it. 🧠

Sometimes the most supportive walk looks slower, shorter, or different to what you think it “should” look like. That is not failure. That is listening. 🐶

If walking your dog feels stressful, exhausting, or overwhelming, you are not doing it wrong. You are responding to a dog who needs a different approach. 🤝

Want practical steps you can start today? Download my free reactivity guide via the link in my bio. 📥✅

Does your dog overreact on walks? Do they bark, lunge, excessively pull on the lead or panic at everyday sights and soun...
14/01/2026

Does your dog overreact on walks? Do they bark, lunge, excessively pull on the lead or panic at everyday sights and sounds, leaving you feeling stressed, embarrassed or helpless?

Your dog isn't trying to make life difficult; they're overwhelmed. Slow, mindful walks can truly transform your reactive dog's behaviour, even for those dogs that act like a bull at the gate, desperately pulling at the end of the lead. Vigorous exercise often makes reactive dogs more alert, tense and overstimulated. Slower, more relaxed walks give your dog time to sniff, explore and process the environment at their own pace. This helps them relax by reducing stress and anxiety, making them less likely to react to the usual triggers.

Your dog deserves to feel safe and relaxed, and you deserve stress-free walks too.

Don't struggle alone. Click the link in the first comment and get expert help today.

Living with a reactive dog can be challenging, but you’re not alone. I’d like to share my top 10 tips with you, based on...
12/01/2026

Living with a reactive dog can be challenging, but you’re not alone. I’d like to share my top 10 tips with you, based on 19 years of experience and education in helping families with reactive dogs like yours.

These tips are designed to support you on the other end of the reactive dog lead. Remember, your wellbeing is just as important in helping you and your dog thrive as you navigate life’s challenges together. 🐾

1. Stay Calm and Grounded: Your emotions influence your dog. Breathe deeply and slowly to slow your heart rate and relax, helping them feel more secure as well as you.

2. Be Present in the Moment: Focus on your dog’s body language and environment to respond proactively, not reactively.

3. Set Realistic Expectations: Understand that progress takes time, and celebrate small wins to stay motivated.

4. Take Breaks When Needed: Allow yourself moments to step back, reset, and recharge, staying present for your dog.

5. Learn to Let Go of Judgment: Ignore external pressures and focus on what works best for you and your dog.

6. Practice Self-Compassion: Acknowledge your efforts and recognise that you’re doing your best in challenging circumstances.

7. Establish a Support System: Connect with a holistic dog behaviourist, such as myself, who can really understand and help you, as well as friends or groups that will support your journey.

8. Educate Yourself: Learn about your dog’s behaviour to better understand their needs and responses.

9. Prepare for Walks: Plan routes and strategies to minimise stress for you and your dog.

10. Prioritise Connection: Strengthen your bond with your dog by focusing on trust, understanding, and shared experiences. You need each other after all.

Reach out for help using the link in the first comment to supercharge your journey with your reactive dog and see real change today.

11/01/2026

Today, for the first time in years, I took my five reactive dogs out on a walk by myself, due to severe mobility issues. Even with over 19 years of experience in reactivity and aggression, I was absolutely terrified. 🐶 I want you to know these feelings are completely normal, and I deeply understand how it feels to walk in your shoes. As a specialist, I still experience the same fears and anxieties that anyone with a reactive dog does. We are truly in this together.

Sometimes we need to listen to that anxiety and step back; other times we need to face those fears together with our dogs. By staying present and giving our dogs more agency, rather than trying to control every moment, we help them feel less stressed and more empowered. 🌿 And while I had to remind myself of that many times today, by practising what I preach, we all learned positive things and keep growing together. If you have ever felt anxiety with your reactive dog, you are not alone.

If you need support, reach out for a free consultation using the link in the bio. We’re in this together. 🤝

Helping your reactive dog thrive starts with understanding their emotions and meeting their needs. I'd like to share my ...
11/01/2026

Helping your reactive dog thrive starts with understanding their emotions and meeting their needs. I'd like to share my top 10 tips with you, based on 19 years of experience and education in helping reactive dogs just like yours.

Guiding you towards a more balanced, confident, and happy companion. Let’s create safe, supportive spaces where your dog can truly flourish! 🐾

1. Understand Emotions Drive Behaviour: Recognise that reactivity stems from your dog’s emotional state, not intentional misbehaviour.

2. Prioritise Safety: Ensure your dog feels safe by managing their environment and avoiding overwhelming situations.

3. Respect Natural Behaviours:
Allow your dog to express species-specific behaviours like sniffing, as they reduce stress.

4. Use Predictable Routines: Establish consistent patterns to help your dog feel more secure and reduce anxiety.

5. Avoid Suppressing Reactions: Focus on building confidence rather than stopping reactive displays through force or coercion.

6. Incorporate Decompression Walks: Choose low-pressure environments where your dog can explore and relax without expectations.

7. Honour Choice and Consent: Give your dog the freedom to opt into interactions or exercises to build trust.

8. Foster Calmness Through Touch: Gentle physical contact, like Tellington TTouch, can soothe and help regulate emotions.

9. Provide Mental Enrichment: Use scent work, foraging, and problem-solving games to meet their cognitive needs.

10. Work with a holistic behaviourist who works closely with your veterinarian: Reactivity often stems from overlapping emotional,
physical and environmental causes. Behaviour professionals working collaboratively with vets, physiotherapists, etc, can offer solutions. Early intervention and comprehensive assessment lead to real change.

If you need help, reach out by selecting the link in the first comment.

In our modern world, it's easy to fall into the trap of imposing rigid rules on reactive dogs that suppress their natura...
09/01/2026

In our modern world, it's easy to fall into the trap of imposing rigid rules on reactive dogs that suppress their natural behaviours. After all, most people can't imagine how isolating and challenging it can be to live with a reactive dog, having not experienced it firsthand. When I take on a behaviour assistant like Kym, having lived with a reactive dog is a huge advantage for candidates. My employees and I can really put ourselves in your shoes.

Therefore, we truly understand that a control-oriented mindset (except for basic safety and management) does not support behavioural change in reactive dogs, because it stifles their ability to meet their needs, build resilience, and adapt to situations. Therefore, we should be extra careful not to let control creep into how we play with these dogs, such as insisting on a strict "drop" command during tug-of-war instead of allowing the game to reach its natural conclusion. While structure has its place, focusing solely on it can stifle the intrinsic joy and spontaneity that come with play.

Some structured games can support reactive dogs when they are in challenging situations, and may be focused on triggers otherwise. These games provide predictable patterns that reduce anxiety, but they don't involve putting behaviour on cue like formal training.

The real magic happens in unstructured play, where dogs take an active role in shaping the rules through their body language in real-time when playing with you. This approach allows them to rehearse scenarios, explore behaviours without pressure, and build problem-solving skills and resilience.

Finding the right balance between structure that makes life easier and creates safe boundaries, while allowing dogs to use their instincts, is key to fostering a happy, confident, and emotionally balanced dog.

Let's create spaces where our dogs can truly thrive. Reach out for help using the link in the first comment.

A stable, predictable environment is crucial for reactive dogs. They thrive on consistency and security. 🧠 Sudden change...
07/01/2026

A stable, predictable environment is crucial for reactive dogs. They thrive on consistency and security. 🧠 Sudden changes in their environment or exposure to chaotic surroundings can heighten anxiety and lead to reactive behaviour, which is something I come across a lot when people reach out for help.

Maintaining a calm, consistent home environment gives your dog a sense of control and safety. Simple practices, such as keeping a regular routine, reducing stressful noise like closing the windows when the neighbours are having a party, and limiting exposure to stressful situations like popping your dog in the back garden when you are expecting a delivery, can significantly reduce your dog's overall stress levels and Reactivity. A secure environment is a foundational element of holistic care that supports your dog's emotional wellbeing.

If you feel overwhelmed with your reactive dog, reach out for help using the link in the first comment.

Reactive dogs don’t need more training, they need to feel safe!Reactivity is not bad behaviour. It is a fear-stress resp...
05/01/2026

Reactive dogs don’t need more training, they need to feel safe!

Reactivity is not bad behaviour. It is a fear-stress response in the nervous system. When a dog pulls hard on the lead, barks intensely, freezes, tries to escape, or lunges, they are reacting to a perceived threat. This is not a choice. It is a survival response.

Punishing it, ignoring it, or trying to train a different behaviour makes things worse because it does not address the root cause. Your dog does not feel safe.

This is the most common reason people do not see sustainable, long-term behaviour change. Safety has to come first.

If this sounds like your dog, you are not alone. Use the first link in the comments to get help today.















📣 Did you know your pet insurance could cover a Qualified Holistic Dog Behaviourist to help your reactive dog?Living wit...
02/01/2026

📣 Did you know your pet insurance could cover a Qualified Holistic Dog Behaviourist to help your reactive dog?

Living with a dog that tends to overreact can be overwhelming. The stress of seeing them struggle, the social isolation, the fear of getting it wrong. Maybe you've tried different trainers and behaviourists. Maybe you’ve been told your dog is just "difficult." Maybe you’re at your limit.

But here’s something many clients I talk to don’t realise. Insurers like Many Pets and Animal Friends often cover behaviour programmes and sessions with a Qualified Holistic Dog Behaviourist who works closely with your vet to support your dog as a whole.

This isn’t about a quick fix. It’s about understanding why your dog is struggling to cope with everyday life and providing them with the support they truly need, so you can witness long-term, sustainable change and enjoy a happier, healthier dog.

You’re not alone. And help might be more accessible than you thought. We get it! We are here to help! If you're struggling with your reactive dog, click the link in the first comment for your free 30-minute behaviour consultation.

31/12/2025

💃🐾 We aren’t wishing everyone a Happy New Year as we dance into 2026.

Here’s why:

At Pawsitive Dog Behaviour, the vast majority of reactive dog cases we support are identified as having underlying musculoskeletal pain, gut health issues, or both while working with us. That is not because these issues are rare, but because they are so often missed. We work in close collaboration with veterinarians, carry out in house conformation and gait analysis, and assess the whole dog rather than isolating behaviour and ignoring biology. When you look closely, the drivers behind reactivity are frequently physical and are never “disobedience”, lack of leadership, or failure on your part.

We also see a clear pattern. Most families of reactive dogs coming to us have already had at least one traumatic experience with a trainer and were never advised to involve their veterinarian by them. That combination is not a coincidence. Pain driven behaviour cannot be resolved by pressure, exposure to stressors, or obedience training, and dogs should never be asked to cope through discomfort.

As you step into 2026, draw a line under 2025. Your dog knows you were doing your best, even if you feel mistakes were made. What matters now is choosing professionals who make you feel supported and who work on a vet referral basis, so hidden contributors like pain can finally be identified and addressed 🧠🦴🩺

If you want to learn more about how this process works and how we can help you and your reactive dog, use the link in my bio to book a free initial consultation ✨

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Our story

This is our story. In loving memory of Scrappy, to whom I owe everything!

I started my journey with rescue dogs in 2006 when I spoke to Graham Shelbourne, a course leader at Nottingham Trent University who inspired me to follow my dreams, and do a Foundation Science Degree in Animal Studies and Bachelors of Science with Honours in Animal Biology, all with canine-specific modules that I focused on behaviour.

I got my first rescue dog in 2007, Scrappy the Jack Russell had an entire fleet of behavioural problems, severe separation anxiety, a lack of impulse control, no bite inhibition, he was extremely reactive and afraid of other dogs, and it took many years to work through all of his problems, and initially, I did everything wrong, I made massive mistakes!

"When I do good, I feel good; when I do bad, I feel bad, and that is my religion." - Abraham Lincoln