
04/08/2025
A wonderful nutritionist, mentor, trainer, coach and good friend of mine (thank you Louise Riley) was sharing last week how she coaches people to be "-er" - what does that mean???
Well instead of saying I want to be slim, fit, healthy, calm, clear, happy, strong etc, she suggested just adding "-er" to the word, so that day-by-day you're gently taking the steps and doing the activities that will move you in the right direction:-
SLIMMER
FITTER
HEALTHIER
CALMER
CLEARER
HAPPIER
STRONGER
It works doesn't it (well, not to words like confident-er, successful-er, or abundant-er 🤣 but you get my drift - change that one to "more confident, more successful, more abundant"!).
It empowers you to make micro daily changes towards your goal, rather than feeling bad about it when you haven't achieved it overnight!
Remember it takes 21 days on average to form a new habit anyway, so keep going with those tweaks/nudges in the right direction and celebrate the little wins and they'll soon turn into reality.
What one thing can you do today to be healthier or slimmer - maybe reduce 1 biscuit/chocolate/coffee/glass of alcohol.
Or how can you be calmer or think more clearly today - box breathing maybe - just once, then next day do it twice, and next day 3 times etc
Stronger or fitter - maybe do 10 reps of an exercise, like squats, or sit-ups, or go for a 10 minute walk, increasing to 11 mins the next day, and then 12 and so on.
Post your suggestions or ask questions below to help others.