03/09/2025
Actually, your brain makes up scary scenarios for a very logical reason - it’s all part of its effort to keep you alive. When we were ‘wild’ humans, this was very useful - it helped us avoid being eaten by apex predators or speared by rival groups of humans by making us cautious and harder to kill - real life and death stuff.
These days most of us in the Western world are fortunate enough not to be in mortal danger all the time. Unfortunately no one told your nervous system. Or mine. Or anyone’s really.
So, these days, when your mind is scanning for danger it finds itself besieged by modern horrors - instead of occasionally coming across lions and tigers and bears (oh my!) the threats you encounter are inherently less threatening: passive aggressive texts from your mum, a poor performance review from your boss, or a hissy fit from your teen.
BUT you still react to these like they’re real danger from way back when, and there it is - not only are you now full of cortisol and adrenaline but your mind is now full-time anticipating similar situations.
Your mind creates these scenarios, ostensibly, to help you AVOID injury and/or death - but your nervous system doesn’t know that a conflict at work or in a coffee shop is unlikely to lead to your grisly death. So your body reacts to imagined cautionary scenarios as if they’re actually happening.
Modern life is teeming with stressful crap - your mind clocks it as ‘danger’ and your body follows your mind. You get locked into a spiral of ‘anticipate danger-react.
So how to stop it ?
BWRT® (BrainWorking Recursive Therapy) is a fast, neuroscience-based approach to therapy that helps clients re-route automatic, negative brain responses to create lasting changes for issues like anxiety, phobias, and addictions, or whatever scenario your brain has told you is dangerous. Often without needing to explore distressing past events for long. It uses active imagination to alter unhelpful brain patterns by working in the half-second gap between a stimulus and conscious awareness, replacing those negative responses with desired reactions.