01/01/2026
Here’s the twist 💫💫💫💫
I don’t believe in forcing things out of my life.
This is just my experience. I’m not projecting it onto anyone.
I don’t believe in aggressively cutting out so called bad habits or building walls around people, objects or situations that don’t serve me. Sometimes that’s necessary, yes. But generally, I don’t move like that.
I don’t resist my so called bad habits.
I don’t cling to my so called good ones
I mean sure this is also a practice, I’m bloody human 👯♀️
I say so called because anything can be harmful or helpful depending on the relationship we have with it.
You know when a button says “don’t press me” or a cake sits there whispering “I’m forbidden”?
If you’re anything like me, you want to break the rigid fu***ng rules.
So you press the button. You eat the cake.
Because whatever we resist, persists.
When we resist bad habits or cling to good ones like exercise or spiritual practice, both create attachment.
That attachment turns into identity.
“This is bad, reject it.”
“This is good, keep it.”
And that identity runs the psyche. It creates rigidity. It blocks energy flow.
We shame ourselves either way.
“I shouldn’t have eaten that, I’m bad.”
“I should have practiced, I’m bad.”
Shame is what keeps the cycle alive.
When we don’t attach, we choose freely.
And freedom dissolves shame.
So instead of pushing things away, I try expand my awareness and self acceptance and truth.
What doesn’t align with my truth falls away naturally, to whatever degree it’s meant to and when it meant to 🌼🌼
Emotions are still a challenge for me hahaaaa, I’m sure the same is for most humans 🧞♀️✨
What do you feel? 💅🪄💖
You build your own frequency.
And only what matches it stays.
Woooooooo🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀
Love to you
