22/02/2025
What would you tell your younger self? X
My dearest younger self,
If I could sit with you now, what secrets would I whisper? If we could chat, I'd share the wisdom I've gained, sometimes through tears, sometimes through joy.
Younger me, don't fear failure. It stings, I know. Disappointment is sharp. But failure isn't the opposite of success; it fuels it. Dust yourself off, learn, and rise stronger. Every misstep has taught me something invaluable.
Cultivate true friendships. These connections are treasures. They are the stars guiding you through dark nights. Cherish a few good friends—those who truly see you and love you unconditionally. They are the family you choose, a treasure beyond measure. Invest in them.
Remember: beauty fades. Don't chase fleeting appearances. Focus on inner beauty: kindness, compassion, resilience. These qualities shine and grow brighter with time. And don't be ashamed of your wrinkles. They are earned. They tell your story. They are the blessings of time.
Everything passes. Joys, sorrows, triumphs, heartbreaks—all are temporary. This makes every moment precious. Your youth will pass. Embrace it gratefully. Don't wish it away.
You'll encounter betrayals from partners and friends. It's almost inevitable, I'm afraid. Be prepared for this. It's human nature. People are complex, a mix of light and shadow, strength and weakness. Sometimes, they will disappoint you. Sometimes, they will hurt you, intentionally or unintentionally. Never let these experiences harden your heart. It's tempting to become cynical, to build walls around your heart to prevent further pain. But that's not living. It's just surviving. Try to understand, forgive, and learn.
Always keep your heart open. Keeping your heart open requires courage. It requires a willingness to be vulnerable, to expose your true self to others, to risk being hurt or rejected. But, I can tell you, the rewards are immeasurable.
Old age will come. It has its own beauty. But the memories, experiences, and love you create now are the treasures you'll carry with you. Turn pain and tears into awareness. Find the lessons in struggles. Transform suffering into wisdom. It's powerful.
Guard your inner fire; don't let it be dimmed. Don't let anyone steal your joy. Don't let anyone clip your wings.
Enjoy your age. Life is a precious poem, written with joy, sorrow, laughter, and tears. Embrace it all. Live authentically, love fiercely, dance in the rain. You are stronger than you think, braver than you believe, and loved more than you know.
With all my love,
Your older, wiser self.
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