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Mindest Trauma-informed Counselling Service and Social Enterprise. EMDR Practitioner. 18+. Face to face therapy in Paignton at The Devon Clinic.

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Rules of my Counselling room:You don't owe an apology for feeling. This is a space where being human isn't something you...
22/07/2025

Rules of my Counselling room:

You don't owe an apology for feeling.

This is a space where being human isn't something you have to explain.

If you're used to shrinking, masking, apologising — this space flips that script.




Comparison trap - the lie that keeps you stuck.I wrote something that might just crack your inner code – curious?
20/06/2025

Comparison trap - the lie that keeps you stuck.

I wrote something that might just crack your inner code – curious?

You keep measuring your life against someone else’s highlight reel—and calling it truth. You scroll, compare, spiral, and wonder why you feel like you’re falling behind. But that story you’re chasing? It’s not even yours. In this blog, I unpack the comparison trap, how it feeds shame, and ...

We ask people if they’re okay like it’s small talk.But when was the last time you answered that question honestly?You do...
13/06/2025

We ask people if they’re okay like it’s small talk.
But when was the last time you answered that question honestly?
You don’t have to carry it all in silence.
The is a space where “fine” isn’t required.

You don’t have to be in crisis to talk.
That’s where healing starts — not in fixing, but in telling the truth.

Some people come to therapy already mid-transformation — fed up with surviving, ready to burn it down and build it back ...
13/06/2025

Some people come to therapy already mid-transformation — fed up with surviving, ready to burn it down and build it back honest.
If that’s you? That fire in your chest?
Yeah. That’s not dysfunction — that’s life trying to come through.

You're not malfunctioning.You're maxed out.Big difference — and your system knows it.(Also, drink some damn water.)This ...
13/06/2025

You're not malfunctioning.
You're maxed out.
Big difference — and your system knows it.
(Also, drink some damn water.)

This is your permission to stop glorifying productivity and start listening to your nervous system.

Read more at www.mindest.co.uk

This is not an introduction. It’s an invitation to a rebellion against silence, survival mode, and pretending you’re fin...
13/06/2025

This is not an introduction.

It’s an invitation to a rebellion against silence, survival mode, and pretending you’re fine. An invitation to a rupture — the kind that frees more than it breaks.

** “New Year, me me”: Psychology of New Beginnings **It’s that time of year again—“new year, new me” season! When everyo...
28/12/2023

** “New Year, me me”: Psychology of New Beginnings **

It’s that time of year again—“new year, new me” season! When everyone’s buzzing with the excitement of fresh starts and big changes. There’s actual psychology behind this "new year, new me" vibe.

The start of a new year prompts us to reflect on our lives and consider making positive changes. It’s like a collective reset button, a chance to hit the refresh key and set new intentions. We're wired to seek growth and improvement, and the promise of a new year taps right into that innate desire.

But studies show that about 80% of new year’s resolutions fall by the wayside by February. So, why do so many well-intentioned goals fizzle out before they even get started?

Let’s talk about turning wishes into achievable goals. "A goal without a plan is just a wish." So, how do we go from wishful thinking to goal-getting without losing our chill?

First off, let’s talk about the power of manifesting. It’s more than just daydreaming—it’s about harnessing the incredible potential of your brain. Visualization is like creating a mental roadmap to your goal. When you vividly imagine your success, your brain actually starts to form new neural pathways that align with that vision.

Now, here’s a sneaky psychological trick: chunk it down. When you break that big goal into bite-sized pieces, you’re activating your brain’s reward system. Each mini-win floods your brain with feel-good chemicals, like dopamine, giving you a natural high and nudging you closer to the finish line.

Positive thinking? It’s not just wishful woo-woo—it’s backed by science! Maintaining a positive mindset actually rewires your brain for success. When you focus on the good stuff, your brain becomes more open to possibilities and solutions, keeping you motivated when the going gets tough.

Okay, let’s get practical. Where to start? Jot down your goal and then break it down into mini-goals. These smaller steps are like puzzle pieces that fit together to create your big picture.

Here’s a pro tip: make a plan, not a wish list. Put deadlines on those mini-goals. Deadlines create a sense of urgency, nudging you into action and keeping you focused.

And don’t forget to celebrate those mini-wins! Each step forward is a victory worth acknowledging. It’s like giving yourself a high-five in the mirror, boosting your confidence and motivation.

Remember, a wish may be fleeting, but a well-crafted plan? That’s the map to making dreams happen! Get ready to crush those goals and turn your wishes into reality!

We tend to get in our own way with negative thoughts, limiting beliefs, or bad habits.
02/04/2022

We tend to get in our own way with negative thoughts, limiting beliefs, or bad habits.

here's what experts recommend doing on a daily basis

Keeping informed is essential for humanity and, as global citizens, we don't want to shut ourselves off in ivory towers,...
05/03/2022

Keeping informed is essential for humanity and, as global citizens, we don't want to shut ourselves off in ivory towers, but a healthy boundary is vital for our psychological health.

"Research is finding that routinely being exposed to traumatic events in the media can contribute to anxiety, sleep disturbances, feelings of helplessness, and even PTSD."

01/02/2022

Promoting psychological well-being, self-care, and personal growth.

“You have choices regarding what you input into your nervous system,” - Psychology Today.
28/01/2022

“You have choices regarding what you input into your nervous system,” - Psychology Today.

It’s all about monitoring our neurological circuits.

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