I compose and deliver ceremonies that are well structured, meaningful and include ritual. I have seen first hand the positive effect for families who have had a beautiful personalised ceremony leaving them with memories to cherish.
As a child I experienced the tragic loss of my dad and brother. Not being able to attend the funeral has made me aware of the negative impact of not being able to say a final goodbye. I realise how daunting it can be for families to have these difficult conversations or consider including children within the service. I can offer support to involve children in creative ways that are appropriate to their age and developmental understanding should the family request this. My own experience of loss has given me a real depth of understanding and a natural warmth to connect with others especially the bereaved.
Skills and experience
I have worked with children and families for over 10 years supporting them through both pre and post bereavement. This challenging yet fulfilling role has given me a great variety of skills and encouraged my decision to become a funeral celebrant. This role has helped me develop my creativity and has given me transferable professional skills that I will use in my career as a celebrant.
I am able to provide a more inclusive service as I understand how challenging it can be for families with an adult or child with an autistic spectrum disorder or other additional needs to attend the funeral. I have many ways to offer support with this and can discuss this further with the family.
I have recently trained with Green Fuse. This level 3 diploma involves intensive training and is conducted by working funeral celebrants and funeral directors. It has provided me with the skills, knowledge and understanding required for this multi-faceted role.
It is an absolute honour for me when families feel able to sit and share the most precious memories of their loved one. I carry out all my work with sensitivity, professionalism and I’m passionate about making a difference to bereaved families.