24/02/2026
One of the biggest myths about grief is that it fades with time. This myth leads people to believe "they should be over it by now" or that there is "something wrong with them".
Tonkin's theory of grief reminds us that for most of us, grief never goes away, instead we grow around it. In the beginning it fills everything, then over time, life gently expands creating space for new moments alongside the grief 🤍
Because the love you feel for that person, place or pet hasn’t gone away, so why would your grief? There is nothing wrong with you. Grief isn’t something to get over, but something we learn to carry as we grow 💫