My Psychological Wellness

My Psychological Wellness Paula Slater MSc Psych GMBPsS:
Helping adults and children discover the very best version of themselves. This is where I come in.

Since 2004, my mission has been to help and empower adults and children to overcome their most challenging obstacles and start living happier and healthier lifestyles. My extensive experience means that I'm fully equipped to guide, support and assist you in building the life you clearly deserve. I have a BA HONS Degree in Children, Schools and Families and have completed an MA in Psychology. My qu

alifications don't stop there, though; you can view them on the FAQ tab! I aim to create a life balance that prioritises your well-being and celebrates all aspects of your true self. It's time to start nurturing your body and soul again!


Children:
I have worked in education for nearly 20 years helping primary school children by giving them the tools they need to succeed, not only in education but socially and emotionally. I do this by empowering them to understand themselves better, including how their brain works and how it influences their behaviours and choices. Once children are armed with this knowledge, they can use the tools provided to improve their mental health and well-being and ultimately become happier and more confident. Adults:
I have a wealth of experience in dealing with the aftermath of abuse, domestic violence, coercive control, grief, addiction, depression, life coaching, su***de, mental health and well-being and relationships. It isn't always easy to just walk away, tell someone or move on; we first need to be able to accept what has happened, reflect, decide and then take steps to heal. I can work with you to help bring your mind and body back into equilibrium through various therapeutic techniques. I am not a counsellor, so my approach is not linked to any kind of theorist or intervention. Instead, I listen, I hear you, I discover what motivates you and then together, we explore new goals and ambitions in a realistic and time-sensitive manner. I will help you to understand yourself better and learn to love who you are. Signposting:
If for any reason, I feel that you/they require more specialised support, I will signpost you/them to the relevant services and recommend that you seek their help. My role is not to replace any required specialised service but to compliment them by motivating you/them to be inspired.


You've come this far, you've accepted that you or your child needs some extra support - well done! Now allow me to help guide you/them through to a more fulfilling stage of life, after all, we only get one chance at it so let's get it right! All I ask, is that you trust the process.

24/07/2025

When a celebrity dies there are many reasons why you might be affected.

They may have been a role model or their work may helped you through a difficult time. It’s natural to be upset when someone who had an impact on your life dies.

Allow yourself to grieve. Give yourself permission to feel sad, for the person who has died and their loved ones, and also for what you have lost.

For more information about why the death of a celebrity might affect us, head to our website ⬇️

https://ow.ly/CJZ450WtBLa

You’ve heard of PTSD, but have you ever heard of C-PTSD?In short, it stands for complex post-traumatic stress disorder, ...
24/07/2025

You’ve heard of PTSD, but have you ever heard of C-PTSD?
In short, it stands for complex post-traumatic stress disorder, and is caused by long-term, repeated trauma, not just one big event. This could include childhood abuse, toxic relationships, or growing up surrounded by chaos.

Symptoms may include:

● Feeling on edge all the time

● Trouble trusting people

● A harsh inner critic

● Emotional ups and downs

● Feeling broken or ‘too much’

But, if you’re suffering with C-PTSD, you’re HUMAN. You’re experiencing understandable emotions as a result of significant hardship. And therapy CAN help.
I suffered with C-PTSD myself, and I can help you heal too through effective, tailored talk therapy. All you have to do is book in to get started. Let’s work together to undo the mess your C-PTSD is causing in your mind.

Get started by clicking here: https://www.mypsychologicalwellness.co.uk/blank-2

Are you looking for something fun to do with the kids over the summer? Then take a look at this! 👇
23/07/2025

Are you looking for something fun to do with the kids over the summer? Then take a look at this! 👇

❤️ Please share these amazing upcoming events as they are limited to just 3 dates this summer ❤️

☁️🧸🎈🧺🎈🧸☁️

A full day out in nature designed for children aged 5–11 and their families — one packed with adventure, fun and self-regulation tools. These days are designed to help children feel confident and connected, all whilst creating memorable moments together.

Inspired by our popular Self Discovery Days which we lead for adults, these guided walks blend together simple meditation tools, self-awareness or communication games & nature based exploration.

👩‍🏫 Led by Georgina Brooker
Primary Teacher turned Holistic & Breathwork Coach, who has always had a passion for children feeling self assured & confident.

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Ticket: £50 (up to 4 people)
Extra child/adult: £15 (pay on the day)
Adult-to-child ratio: 1:4. Please bring an additional adult if you plan to bring 5 or more children.

📍 Dates & Locations
☁️Fri 1st Aug– Luds Church, Peak District
☁️ Sun 10th Aug– Rydal Grot, Lake District
☁️ Fri 29th Aug– Bolton Abbey, Yorkshire

All within 1.5 hours drive from Preston and worth the trip to get children experiencing new areas.

Hope to see some of you there.
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I have a serious question… Have you ever felt misunderstood in therapy? 🤔It’s so hard to find a psychologist or therapis...
23/07/2025

I have a serious question… Have you ever felt misunderstood in therapy? 🤔

It’s so hard to find a psychologist or therapist you trust, but when you do, it’s life-changing.

So take advantage of those free consultations (ahem, like mine 😉), and get to know your therapist a bit before setting up your full-length sessions. It’s a great way to see if they’re a good fit for you.

If you’d like to see if we’re a good fit, click here to book in! https://www.mypsychologicalwellness.co.uk/blank-2

If you know… You know 😉
21/07/2025

If you know… You know 😉

If you’ve found yourself a bit cooped up inside with work this week, let this be your reminder to get out and enjoy some...
18/07/2025

If you’ve found yourself a bit cooped up inside with work this week, let this be your reminder to get out and enjoy some fresh summer air!

Even just 10 minutes outside does wonders for our minds. Find a quiet spot to listen to the rustling leaves in the trees, and just breathe 🧘‍♀️

16/07/2025

Whatever your age, whatever your story. You are always welcome in therapy. And you will always make a positive change by getting started. Trust me.

If you’re not sure how it works, or aren’t sure how it will work specifically for you, book in a free 30-min consultation with me, and we can chat it all through. Just click below.

https://www.mypsychologicalwellness.co.uk/blank-2

14/07/2025

What do you think about mindfulness apps?

Personally, I think there are some great pocket-sized resources out there, such as Calm. It’s a fab way to supplement your therapy with on-demand meditations and exercises.

But I’d love to know if you use any other apps? Drop your favourites in the comments, I need some more recommendations 🥰

11/07/2025

The truth? Change is HARD. Seriously hard. Especially for us adults. But it is also the best thing you can possibly do for yourself.

Once you get started and start seeing the change, you’ll be so grateful to yourself for making the brave decision to get started.

The first step is to truly, deeply accept your current situation before you can find the right plan of action to make meaningful change to your life. Which is exactly what you can lean on me for.

Book a free 30-minute consultation with me to take the first step toward positive change, whatever your needs. I can’t wait to help you take back control of your everyday:

https://www.mypsychologicalwellness.co.uk/blank-2

I love this quote from Oprah’s Bible (a.k.a her book What I Know For Sure). If you haven’t read it, get it! A psychologi...
09/07/2025

I love this quote from Oprah’s Bible (a.k.a her book What I Know For Sure). If you haven’t read it, get it! A psychologist told you to…

Did you know it’s Alcohol Awareness Week this week? Now you do…So let’s take this opportunity to check in with how much ...
07/07/2025

Did you know it’s Alcohol Awareness Week this week? Now you do…

So let’s take this opportunity to check in with how much we’re sipping at the moment.

With the confusing unit system and our busy lifestyles, it can be so easy to lose track of our drinking habits, and we may not realise just how dependant on it we’ve become.

So, to see if we’ve reached an unmanageable level, consider the following questions. And yes, it’s hard, but please try to be honest with yourself. You don’t have to share your answers with anyone, but just raising your awareness can have a significant impact.

1. Do you or others around you end up hurt or upset when you drink?
2. Does your next drink play on your mind throughout the day?
3. Are you experiencing more anxiety and mood swings at the moment, and do you consider drinking more to numb those feelings?

If you’re answering yes to any of these questions, consider booking a session with me to unpack your drinking and implement effective coping strategies to help you manage without it.

Also, there are loads of alcohol addiction services across the UK, and you can find a local group near you through the NHS website here: https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/find-alcohol-addiction-support-services/

Use this service to choose to find an alcohol addiction support service in your part of England.

As a child, I survived abuse. Fact. So when it comes to complex post-traumatic stress, I don’t just understand on a prof...
04/07/2025

As a child, I survived abuse. Fact. So when it comes to complex post-traumatic stress, I don’t just understand on a professional level, but a personal one.

So, as Dr Perry states, trauma is the result of a missing empathetic witness. But I’m here to tell you that I’m here, ready to be the empathetic witness you needed at the time of your traumatic incident.

I’ll listen to your story with an understanding ear that comprehends trauma on a personal level, to guide you toward healing healthily.

Get in touch with me below to book a 30-minute free consultation, and let's take back the control from your trauma:

https://www.mypsychologicalwellness.co.uk/blank-2

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