
23/07/2025
How are you launching into the summer holidays?
Are you ticking all the fun, educational, family time, core memory, days out, quality time boxes?
Are you comparing yourself and your family already?
Im not a parenting expert, but im a hypnotherapist who works with alot of parents and what tends to cause the most distress is when we stop looking at what works for our families and start looking at what everyone else is doing.
We compare, we feel guilty, we get snappy, frustrated and angry then we feel more guilt, hop on insta to calm down for 5 minutes and boom the cycle starts again.
It's really hard to break the cycle of comparison, but bringing it back to what works for your family helps.
There's no way my family would cope with doing 3 activities every day, or socialising non stop, so we dont do it, but for others it works.
I'm not immune from trying to control everything and make it perfect, but everyone feels alot better and everything feels alot more perfect when I let go a bit, let things be and stop trying to tick all the boxes.
For the life of me, I could not get my husband and son out the door for a walk this afternoon, I was getting really frustrated but I went on my own, they played a computer game together. Not very insta worthy but they had a great time and I had a fantastic walk.
We get told mum guilt is just part of parenting, but its not often helpful and there are ways to feel less of it. Let me know if you want to chat more about how hypnotherapy can help.
Jo x