27/01/2022
Today is stem4 Parent Mental Health Day. If you’re a parent, you’ll know that you're often too busy looking after little ones to notice that you might be getting rundown yourself. But gloomy winter days, cold temperatures and the ongoing stress of the pandemic can be draining, especially on top of all your other responsibilities.
So, today is all about taking a moment to stop and think about you’re feeling. One of our favourite techniques for tuning into our feelings is interoception. This is the ability to sense what’s going on inside your body and understand what these feelings mean. It can help you take positive action if you feel anxious or overwhelmed and reduce stress.
Here’s a straightforward four-step process you can try to get started with interoception:
🔎 Step 1 - Notice: simply give bodily sensations - such as changes in heart rate, breathing and digestion - more time and attention than you may have done previously. Just bring your attention to your body.
🧭 Step 2 - Explore: ask, what are the features of your feelings? Their location, intensity etc. You may also be able to explore how they relate to what’s going on in your life. In this step we are still observing with curiosity and without judgement.
🧘 Step 3 - Influence: next is a chance to calm and soothe your body at times when your heart rate is rising, chest is tightening or stomach is doing summersaults. For example, by using slow, steady breathing (with a longer outbreath than in) you can make very real changes to your physiology.
😌 Step 4 – Enjoy: once you’ve acknowledged what’s happening inside your body and have started to proactively influence This is all about integrating changes to how you sense interpret and influence bodily reactions into everyday life in ways that work for you. In this stage, your attention returns mostly to the outside world.
Final note - go gently! We can’t expect big changes straight away. It may take weeks or months to work through all four steps for strong bodily reactions to stressful situations.
For more on information interoception, as well as other tips and techniques on boosting your physical and mental wellbeing, check out our website: https://restoringbalance.life/
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