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๐Ÿงก Helping you create your happy self, home & family using your โ€˜Happy Care Labelโ€™ ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ Wellness Coaching, Emotion Release, Self-care, Mindfulness & Creativityโ€ฆit starts with you & begins at home ๐Ÿงก Work with me @ http://subscribepage.io/Bhf2TZ

We were very lucky to have been gifted a couple of nights in a boutique hotel recently.  The designs used were vibrant &...
02/03/2026

We were very lucky to have been gifted a couple of nights in a boutique hotel recently. The designs used were vibrant & maximalist.

The room we stayed in was sumptuous & it felt really cosy but I forgot to take a photo! What I did take a photo of was the designers mood board for the room which had been displayed.

Mood boards are a staple tool for designing & decorating, theyโ€™re something I use all the time. They are a simple thing. They donโ€™t need to be complex & you can do them as a physical thing or as a digital thing.

Theyโ€™re great for giving you a visual of what your choices might look like together & they give you an idea of the vibe youโ€™re creating.

They can also save you making expensive mistakes (most of it the time) & prevent you re-doing things when you realise in reality what youโ€™ve done doesnโ€™t go ๐Ÿคช โ€ฆIโ€™ve made that mistake before!

Hopefully the mood board will do its job & give you an idea of what the room we stayed in looked like. What do you think? Is it doing its job?

Demand avoidance supportive language helps everyone ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ
02/03/2026

Demand avoidance supportive language helps everyone ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

New designer dining chairs at bargain price! Iโ€™m probably going to bet currently no one else has Sophie Robinson dining ...
01/03/2026

New designer dining chairs at bargain price! Iโ€™m probably going to bet currently no one else has Sophie Robinson dining chairs like these ๐Ÿคฉ

I got the material from Dunelm in their curtain sale. Just ยฃ27 for a curtain which consisted of 4m of fabricโ€ฆbargain if you know how much fabric costs these days!

The chairs were getting tired, Iโ€™ve been considering doing them for weeks but my mojo was ๐Ÿ˜ข so today I decided on one small action.

As the world feels heavy right now, I needed to bring some into my little bubble of the world ๐ŸŒ

So today I used a little brain trick to get my mojo flowing. โ€œIโ€™ll just do one chairโ€ I said ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

So I cleaned, took apart, reupholstered & put back together one chairโ€ฆthe motivation gained momentum, even though my brain knew it could stop of it wantedโ€ฆneuroscience at its finest!

I kept going one at a time & a few hours later taadaa ๐Ÿคฉ

They bring a fab pop of colour to the dining room. They now make the table area feel more grounded. Love them!!๐Ÿฅฐ

Making your home feel joyful, calm, cosyโ€ฆ.whatever feel youโ€™re looking for, doesnโ€™t have to cost the earth.

Making your home feel like you helps your home become your safe space, your comfort, your retreat ๐Ÿฅฐ

Itโ€™s so fab that we can all access designer looks without breaking the bank. If you are thinking โ€œI never know where to startโ€ or โ€œI donโ€™t know what โ€˜meโ€™ feels like in my homeโ€ get in touch.

Together we can work it out. Just purchasing 30 mins with me will get you started, I guarantee youโ€™ll leave having learnt something ๐Ÿงก

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26/02/2026

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Some hopeful welcome news on understanding & clarity through research that might be whatโ€™s needed to evoke change in sys...
25/02/2026

Some hopeful welcome news on understanding & clarity through research that might be whatโ€™s needed to evoke change in systemic failures of neurodivergent care ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿคž๐Ÿคฉ

Waitโ€ฆwhat?
Research says Autistic burnout is a real thing and a framework for recovery is actually taking shape?

If I were not so tired, I might celebrate this.

For years, Autistic people have described burnout in ways that were impossible to misunderstand: deep exhaustion, skills slipping, sensory tolerance shrinking. The unsettling feeling that things that used to be manageable suddenly are not.

The response we often received from others was confusion, doubt, or gentle advice to try harder and manage stress better.

That is starting to change.

Research is now recognizing Autistic burnout as a real and distinct experience linked to long periods of masking, sensory overload, and living in environments that require constant adjustment (Raymaker et al., 2020; Ali et al., 2025).

This is not everyday stress. This is cumulative exhaustion, the kind that sleep does not fix and determination cannot override.

Here is the part that feels kind of exciting. Researchers are beginning to describe recovery in ways that sound very familiar to Autistic people.

Studies show that recovery often begins with reducing overwhelming demands, stepping back from constant social effort, and allowing true rest instead of productivity disguised as self-care (Ali et al., 2025). In other words, pushing harder was never the solution. Shocking, I know.

Researchers are also starting to create tools that actually measure Autistic burnout (Bougoure et al., 2025). Thatโ€™s important. When something can be measured, it becomes much harder to dismiss as just stress or a personal weakness. Validation changes how seriously people listen.

Across studies, a recovery pattern is starting to appear. None of this will surprise you:

โ€ข reduce demands so the nervous system can settle
โ€ข rebuild energy and skills without panic or pressure
โ€ข shape daily life in ways that reduce masking and increase autonomy

None of this is new to us, but it is deeply validating.

The most hopeful message is not that burnout magically disappears. It is that recovery often involves creating a life where burnout is no longer the cost of participation.

Honestly, that feels worthy of celebrating.

Right after a nap.

As we commence half term 3โ€ฆ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡
23/02/2026

As we commence half term 3โ€ฆ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

๐—”๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€. ๐—œ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ท๐˜‚๐˜€๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ.

It's the first day back after half term for many children today. For some, that means a knot in the stomach that started yesterday evening (or earlier). For their parents, it means bracing for a morning they already know will be hard.

Every time a child is pushed through the school gates in acute distress, that distress gets associated with school more deeply. The anxiety doesn't weaken. It strengthens. The backpack gets heavier.

This isn't about keeping children home indefinitely. It's about understanding that a child in survival mode cannot learn, cannot connect, and cannot build the positive experiences that make school feel safer over time.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐˜€:
โ€ข Reducing the pressure in the acute moment, not forever, just today
โ€ข Responding to the distress before addressing the absence
โ€ข Getting curious about what's driving it once things are calm
โ€ข Working together to build a return that feels safe, not just compliant

The children who recover well tend to have a circle of adults working from the same understanding. That starts with seeing the distress for what it is: anxiety, not defiance.

I've written a free guide for parents and carers on this: what's actually going on, what to say (and what not to), and how to work with school. Free to download here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/download-when-151244028

๐—ฃ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜†.

Helpful analogy of why there is a โ€˜Tadaaโ€™ moment (& not in a good way!) when it comes to stress or burnout. Its so, so, ...
22/02/2026

Helpful analogy of why there is a โ€˜Tadaaโ€™ moment (& not in a good way!) when it comes to stress or burnout.

Its so, so, so important to plan in protected time being neurodivergent ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

If you struggle to do it or know where to start I have tools I can teach that help you to do it ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ poo me a message or hop on to my biz link above to find out more.

It needs to be said ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ loudly! Itโ€™s the humane thing for embracing different learning abilities & brains for society ...
20/02/2026

It needs to be said ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ loudly!
Itโ€™s the humane thing for embracing different learning abilities & brains for society to grow without people being harmed in the process ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

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15/02/2026

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Moving through & grabbing the glimmers of joy is a practice that really helps. It doesnโ€™t stop things being less easy bu...
12/02/2026

Moving through & grabbing the glimmers of joy is a practice that really helps.

It doesnโ€™t stop things being less easy but it helps to ensure the hope of easier moments are ahead ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

Whatโ€™s a glimmer in real life?
You can be stressed & crying, feeling rubbish, then a friend rings. They console you but also make you laugh โ€ฆthatโ€™s a glimmer ๐Ÿคฉ

Or, you are feeling overwhelmed & you purposely focus on doing a craft/art thing, it distracts you, itโ€™s soothing, it brings you joy in that moment to switch your thinking brain to your creative brain (no, you donโ€™t have 2 brains!) & it helps you feel calm.

Glimmers donโ€™t remove the stressful event but they lift you out of the pain of that moment so you can reset to continue to deal with things ๐Ÿงก

Tell me where you find your glimmers ๐Ÿ‘‡

Imagination & apostrophes are all you need to make impossible to Iโ€™m possible ๐Ÿซถ๐ŸผGo!!  Show yourself whatโ€™s possible ๐Ÿงก
10/02/2026

Imagination & apostrophes are all you need to make impossible to Iโ€™m possible ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ
Go!! Show yourself whatโ€™s possible ๐Ÿงก

2 things can be true at the same time ๐Ÿงก
09/02/2026

2 things can be true at the same time ๐Ÿงก

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