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🧡 Helping you create your happy self, home & family using your ‘Happy Care Label’ 🫶🏼 Wellness Coaching, Emotion Release, Self-care, Mindfulness & Creativity…it starts with you & begins at home 🧡 Work with me @ http://subscribepage.io/Bhf2TZ

Trauma isn’t just the big stuff it can be little tiny thingsThe ‘trauma’ is your response to whatever happened big or sm...
25/11/2025

Trauma isn’t just the big stuff it can be little tiny things

The ‘trauma’ is your response to whatever happened big or small not the ‘thing’ itself.

Our body holds everything & along with our mind anchors moments within us that can be triggered at any point in th future.

When that happens you respond as if you were in that time whatever age you were. So if you see a 40 year old get triggered by an event that happened when they were 10….its the 10 year old you see reacting.

If you’re fascinated by the neuroscience like I am & notice you are often in the above situation but want to stop it happening, let’s talk about how we can clear out those unhelpful anchored events to prevent being constantly triggered 💁🏻‍♀️

The methods I use are gentle but effective 👌🏻

You will feel able to respond rather than react

You will understand your Happy Care LabelTM 🏷️ to understand what makes you thrive….& what doesn’t.

You will have daily tools to use to help yourself moving forward

You will feel calm & peaceful

You will feel past events differently

You won’t need to talk & revisit the past (talking is not necessary, great for those who struggle with traditional talking therapy)

DM or drop a 🙌🏻 below

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23/11/2025

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This 👇 truth bomb….that would be life / world changing if we made sure it was just every day practice 🫶🏼   ̇ng          ...
23/11/2025

This 👇 truth bomb….that would be life / world changing if we made sure it was just every day practice 🫶🏼

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I work in education and hadn’t realised this…so how many others haven’t?  AP needs to be safe, meet needs etc but in a w...
15/11/2025

I work in education and hadn’t realised this…so how many others haven’t?
AP needs to be safe, meet needs etc but in a way that doesn’t mean it makes it less likely that a child can continue to access it.

This week, I met with a group of Alternative Provisions (APs) and was astounded by the fact that most of them hadn't heard about the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill - or they didn't know the impact it would have on them.

Section 30 deals with "Independent Education Institutions" - which means everything from online provision, 1:1 tutors, home ed co-operatives and of course, alternative provision.

The section covers various points, but the one that needs to make everyone stand up and pay attention is how many hours young people will be allowed to attend.

Many APs will allow young people to attend for 3 days, varying from 12 - 18 hours. This is currently classed as "Part-Time" Education in the eyes of the Government and it is legal to operate this way, without being a school.

However, the Department of Education think that provisions are purposely "evading" registration as a school by operating this way.

Yes, that's correct - if you abide by the law now, you are actually "evading" breaking it... Go figure that one.

So instead of a set level of hours (eg 15 or 18 hours), they are going to use the phrase "majority of education".

Meaning if one child is assessed to be receiving the majority of their education at a provision, it will be classed as "Full-Time" - even if that provision is only one day a week.

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Example 1:

Louisa currently attends Alternative Provision 3 days a week for 5 hours a day. She is learning mechanics and carpentry skills, has stopped self-harming and can now work with a small group of young people.

She attends school for 2 hours on a Monday and 2 hours on a Tuesday, where she has a 1:1 for some Maths and English tuition.

At the moment, this is fine, as she is only attending the AP Part-Time.

However, if the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill goes through, the Local Authority will say that she receives the majority of her education at the AP.

So the AP is now an illegal school.
The AP will then need to become a school or close down.

Example 2:

Jamie goes to the AP down the road one day a week for Maths, English and Science classes.

He is home educated, and at home, he follows a self-directed learning path, so he follows his interests instead of a curriculum.

Jamie is 14 and already a Grade 8 musician. He spends most of his time playing, composing, helping at home, walking his dog and spending time with friends.

The Local Authority decide that the AP is providing the "Majority of his Education".

So the AP is now an illegal school.
The AP will then need to become a school or close down.

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Alternative Provisions (APs) that are regularly commissioned by the Local Authority are not magically exempt from these clauses, and neither has the Government given anyone (including the LAs) reassurance that vital services to children with SEND will remain.

In fact, they have done the opposite by murmuring about EHCP's ending, specialist provision for only the most "complex" SEND young people and for everyone else to be in mainstream.

Sound like insanity to you?

Then you would be right.

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So is the magic solution to jump through some hoops and register as an independent school?

Sure, it could be - but you might want to just consider how much the Government is doing to support that sector at the moment.

Yes, that's correct - the answer is not only "Nothing" but also that they are doing all they can to eradicate it, and being fairly successful in the process.

However, smaller independent schools are weathering this at the moment, and it could be that this is the right move for many APs - but it will involve a big investment to manage the paperwork, the compliance, and changes to how they work.

For many who only have part-time use of a building, or simply do not have the capacity for that level of upscaling, it won't be an option.

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A very alarming part of this Bill is that in many places it gives the Government the power to decide the "details" later on, in Secondary Legislation.

Basically, this Bill gives them the power to pretty much make it up as they go along to ensure they bring as many provisions into scope as they feel necessary.

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So will this Bill apply to every institution?

At the moment, they have listed some "Excepted Institutions" - but these are fairly obvious ones, like state-maintained schools (as they are already a school!), FE colleges and Nurseries.

However, they do have the power to add more provisions to this list. This "could" include APs that are registered on a Local Authority AP framework, but there is no indication of this happening and no assurance that it will.

They also "could" set a minimal threshold (6 hours has been discussed) - but calls for this have so far been rejected.

If they did make exceptions in this way, you would then need to question how that would work, as every provider could simply register on an AP framework and therefore continue as they were...

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Is it okay that provisions that are meeting needs that schools cannot, are being treated as "would-be criminals" who are evading school registration?

Is it okay that they get to "make up the rules" after the Bill has gone through?

Is it okay that Local Authorities and parents have been given zero reassurance in legislation that the education of children will come first over their ideology of "one size fits all"?

And is it okay that they are throwing BILLIONS down the drain in every which way possible when all they need to do...
..is "do education differently"?

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What you can do:

👉 Read the Bill and the explanatory notes (links in comments)

👉 Talk to other APs

👉 Check out my posts since January (most cover the Bill)

👉 Speak to your Local Authority (council) and ask them what they are doing to get reassurance for APs

👉 Get in touch with your MP and ask them to push for reassurance that your child's AP will be protected and that provision for SEND will not be impacted

👉 Share content, sign petitions and make some noise!

PS - if you are an AP that supports Home Ed young people, there is a whole other section of the Bill you need to be clued up on, which will require you to provide the LA with personal details of all Home Ed young people attending your provision. Something you and parents are unlikely to be okay with.

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No to the Children's Wellbeing and Schools Bill.
Yes to school (and government) reform.
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www.areyoulisteningnow.co.uk
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Loved this graphic from Positively PresentBeing a fabric lover with my passions for sewing & crafts it struck a chord wi...
13/11/2025

Loved this graphic from Positively Present

Being a fabric lover with my passions for sewing & crafts it struck a chord with me.

We are a sum total of our experiences & the people who take part in every bit of our lives in small ways or big ways weave that fabric of our lives 🫶🏼

The connections we make are such a key aspect of who we are, what we do, how we feel & who we become as people. That’s why I am passionate about the connections we give to the children in our lives & our families.

Every connections& experience gets stored within your body…you can talk til the cows come home but things will reoccur if you don’t clear your body…💁🏻‍♀️

…& when those experiences leave you with thoughts or feelings that stop you feeling relaxed, calm, happy or X###….you need to release them from your body to make peace with your mind…

….that’s where my other passions come into play.

I can help you with releasing your bodies emotion & emotional energy using Silent Counselling, breath work & emotion coaching 🥰

Somatic therapies are just amazing👌🏻

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Wow! 🤩  Not only did I recently find out I’m a poet & didn’t know it 😜…but we are also now an Amazon  #1 Best Seller in ...
13/11/2025

Wow! 🤩 Not only did I recently find out I’m a poet & didn’t know it 😜

…but we are also now an Amazon #1 Best Seller in the UK!🇬🇧

Well done all the ladies involved 🫶🏼🤩

So proud of us all! 🥰

If you’ve got a woman in your life who needs inspiration, empowerment, joy, wisdom…grab this for Xmas quick 🤩🥰

Learning has been a double edged sword for me but one thing has always kept me going…my immense curiosity!I was curious ...
10/11/2025

Learning has been a double edged sword for me but one thing has always kept me going…my immense curiosity!

I was curious as to whether I could do it & put it out in the public domain. I was curious as to how I would decide what to write about.

I was always ‘an old head on young shoulders’ without understanding why, or what that really meant. It turns out it meant I had the curious nature to sense & feel information around me…ironically emotionally intelligent whilst also being emotionally overwhelmed 💁🏻‍♀️

But learning things meant I could navigate life as best as I could, learning meant knowledge, opportunity & possibility. Solutions to problems, skills to overcome, power to manage but also the power of what could be 🙌🏻

So, although not a literary genius, I am proud of myself for submitting my poem & with loving kindness it’s ok that the poem is what it is, it could have been better in ways I didn’t know at the time of writing it, but that’s ok, isn’t that what learning is meant to be anyway? 💁🏻‍♀️

The book is full of wonderful poems, stories of strength, hope, reflection, love & encouragment. If you’re looking for a gift for anyone this festive season it’s a lovely gift to give 🫶🏼

The Amazon launch price won’t be on forever, grab your copy now 🫶🏼

This definitely didn’t get shared by Meta enough! Maybe because the link was on the post rather than in the comments 🤦🏽‍...
10/11/2025

This definitely didn’t get shared by Meta enough! Maybe because the link was on the post rather than in the comments 🤦🏽‍♀️

One head makes the case against isolating students for poor behaviour - and explains the improvements she has seen since abandoning the policy at her school

Haven’t used these paints yet but love the ethos of conscious pant 🫶🏼 also love that the company make it easy for you to...
08/11/2025

Haven’t used these paints yet but love the ethos of conscious pant 🫶🏼 also love that the company make it easy for you to choose your colours based on the natural light you get onto the room! 🧡

Light is such an often forgotten part of designing your room scheme but such an important one in terms of the effect on how things look & feel, especially the paint 🎨

I’m sure this is the company that do peel & stick samples too so you can actually see the paint on the wall beforehand, meaning you don’t have paint patches to sand down before painting 🤩🙌🏻

A great article professionally & pragmatically explaining why & how isolation must be sent to room 101  We know so much ...
08/11/2025

A great article professionally & pragmatically explaining why & how isolation must be sent to room 101

We know so much more about learning & development & we can do so much better with that knowledge. This headteacher proves that.

https://www.tes.com/magazine/analysis/general/behaviour-in-schools-isolation-does-not-work?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQKNjYyODU2ODM3OQABHmA9QQzaUBHI2ZNOCaRW0BpbrKmQ8vbp7TgY-2aMm7EMhrHywLFXIWrzu4IJ_aem_PT7EpE5GxNipKOt2C2X4JA

One head makes the case against isolating students for poor behaviour - and explains the improvements she has seen since abandoning the policy at her school

It’s the day!! You can grab your copy to be part of the next part of a movement of 111 women’s voices 🧡…the reading & su...
08/11/2025

It’s the day!!
You can grab your copy to be part of the next part of a movement of 111 women’s voices 🧡…the reading & supporting part 🫶🏼

Soulful
Enlightening
Entertaining
Thoughtful
Beautiful
So many words….stories narrated through poetry….journeys…healing….learnings…🫶🏼

Grab yours using the link 🔗 in comments:

Please never tell your children (or anyone else for that matter) not to cry 😢 You are generally only saying it because y...
06/11/2025

Please never tell your children (or anyone else for that matter) not to cry 😢

You are generally only saying it because you feel uncomfortable 💁🏻‍♀️ or because ‘society’ judges it to be bad. It is not & the damage done by teaching people to hold back is immense.

Crying is your human body working as it should. It’s your natural pressure valve.

If you never let your kettle boil you would never ever be able to enjoy a properly made cup of tea 🫖(how sad would that be?…unless you don’t like tea that is 🤪)….same goes for your body, never let it cry & your nervous system will not be able to enjoy all the joy life could bring 🫶🏼

Emotions are crucial in your lived experience, they are the electrical energy that runs your nervous system, creates your thoughts & moves you in your actions, embrace them all 🧡

If all that sounds too hard & it’s affecting how you feel, you feel pent up, your home feels pressurised or your sparkle has been dimmed…let’s talk about how my work can help you feel free 🧡

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