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Fiona Knowles Counselling & Supervision Counselling, Pychotherapy and Supervision in Deeping St.James
I work with Adults, couples and young people. I am also an experienced clinical supervisor.

Hello and welcome to Fiona Knowles Counselling Services, I am a qualified and experienced counsellor and psychotherapist working in private practice in Deeping St.James. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and emotions to facilitate personal growth. I have been a qualified holistic therapist running my own business for over 18 year

s. I started my counselling career with the Samaritans where I gained valuable experience working with a variety of client issues. I have also worked counselling young adults aged 16 to 18 years for a local school and volunteered as a counsellor for CRUSE Bereavement Care with young people and adults. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counsellors and Psychotherapists and the National Counselling Society and follow their ethics, standards, and procedures to ensure I work in the best interest of my clients.

My latest blog post is available at www.fk-cs.co.uk/blog Journaling for Mental Wellbeing: Journaling is a powerful tool ...
08/03/2025

My latest blog post is available at www.fk-cs.co.uk/blog

Journaling for Mental Wellbeing:
Journaling is a powerful tool for self-reflection, emotional processing, and personal growth. As a psychotherapist, I have seen firsthand how writing can help support people with their mental health. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma or simply trying to make sense of your emotions, journaling can be a gentle yet transformative practice.

In this blog, I’ll explore the benefits of journaling and introduce different types that may help you on your journey to self-discovery and healing.

The Benefits of Journaling for Mental Health

Journaling is more than just putting words on a page—it’s a way to engage with your inner world in a safe, structured way. Some of its benefits include:

Emotional Processing: Writing helps you make sense of your thoughts and feelings, giving them space rather than letting them fester.
Stress Reduction: Expressing emotions on paper can lower stress levels, helping you feel calmer and more grounded.
Trauma Healing: Journaling can be a gentle way to explore past experiences, giving you control over your narrative.
Improved Self-Awareness: Writing regularly increases self-understanding, helping you recognise patterns in thoughts and behaviours.
Enhanced Problem-Solving: Putting thoughts into words can help you see situations more clearly and identify solutions.
Tracking Progress: Looking back on journal entries allows you to see growth, resilience, and how far you’ve come.
Different Types of Journaling

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to journaling. Different styles can support different needs, and the key is to find what works best for you.

1. Free Writing (Stream of Consciousness Journaling)

This is one of the simplest forms of journaling—writing whatever comes to mind without judgment or structure. It can be a great way to clear mental clutter, express emotions, or tap into creative ideas.

How to Try It:

Set a timer for 5–10 minutes.
Write continuously without worrying about grammar, spelling, or making sense.
If you get stuck, write “I don’t know what to write” until something flows.
2. Gratitude Journaling

Focusing on gratitude can shift your mindset and promote positive emotions. It’s especially helpful if you struggle with negative thought patterns or feel overwhelmed by life’s challenges.

How to Try It:

Each day, write down 3–5 things you’re grateful for.
Be specific—for example, instead of “I’m grateful for my partner,” try “I’m grateful for the way my partner made me a cup of tea when I was feeling low.”
3. Emotional Release Journaling

If you’re carrying strong emotions—whether anger, sadness, or frustration—journaling can provide a safe outlet to express them. This is especially useful for trauma processing, as it allows you to release emotions without judgment.

How to Try It:

Write about what you’re feeling in as much detail as possible.
You can choose to keep your writing, tear it up, or even burn it (safely) as a symbolic release.
If emotions feel overwhelming, take breaks or balance it with grounding techniques.
4. Self-Compassion Journaling

Many of us are our own worst critics. This type of journaling helps develop a kinder, more understanding relationship with yourself.

How to Try It:

Write yourself a letter as if you were speaking to a friend in your situation.
Acknowledge your struggles with warmth and understanding rather than criticism.
End with words of encouragement, such as “I’m doing my best, and that’s enough.”
5. Reflective Journaling

This type of journaling helps you process events, decisions, or relationships more deeply. It’s particularly useful for personal growth and therapy work.

How to Try It:

Reflect on an experience and ask yourself:

What happened?
How did I feel?
What did I learn?
How can I move forward?
6. Guided Journaling (Using Prompts)

Sometimes, it’s hard to know where to start. Guided journaling uses prompts to help you explore thoughts and feelings you might not have considered.

How to Try It:

Try prompts such as:

“What is something I need to let go of?”
“What does my inner child need to hear today?”
“If I could speak to my future self, what advice would they give me?”
My Final Reflection:

Journaling is a deeply personal practice, and there is no right or wrong way to do it. If you're new to it, start small—just a few sentences a day can make a difference. And if painful emotions come up, be gentle with yourself.

As a trauma-informed therapist, I encourage my clients to use journaling as a supportive tool, not a replacement for professional help. If you find yourself struggling with difficult emotions, seeking support from a therapist can help you process them safely.

If you're interested in exploring journaling or other therapeutic tools in a safe and supportive space, feel free to visit www.fk-cs.co.uk to learn more about my counselling and psychotherapy services.

14/09/2024
This is what grief is.A hole ripped through the very fabric of your being.The hole eventually heals along the jagged edg...
20/04/2024

This is what grief is.
A hole ripped through the very fabric of your being.
The hole eventually heals along the jagged edges that remain. It may even shrink in size.
But that hole will always be there.
A piece of you always missing.
For where there is deep grief, there was great love.
Don’t be ashamed of your grief.
Don’t judge it.
Don’t suppress it.
Don’t rush it.
Rather, acknowledge it.
Lean into it.
Listen to it.
Feel it.
Sit with it.
Sit with the pain. And remember the love.
This is where the healing will begin.

26/03/2024

Being selective...

How can counselling and psychotherapy help couples ?Counselling and psychotherapy can help couples in several ways:Impro...
26/03/2024

How can counselling and psychotherapy help couples ?

Counselling and psychotherapy can help couples in several ways:

Improved Communication: Therapists can teach couples effective communication techniques, allowing them to express their needs and feelings more clearly and listen to each other more empathetically.

Conflict Resolution: Couples therapy provides a safe space to address conflicts constructively, identifying underlying issues and finding mutually agreeable solutions.

Understanding Relationship Patterns: Therapists help couples recognize recurring patterns in their relationship dynamics, empowering them to break negative cycles and create healthier interactions.

Enhanced Intimacy: Through therapy, couples can explore emotional and physical intimacy, deepen their connection, and rediscover closeness and affection.

Managing Differences: Counsellors assist couples in understanding and accepting differences, whether they relate to values, beliefs, or preferences, fostering respect and compromise.

Navigating Life Transitions: Therapy offers support during major life changes, such as marriage, parenthood, career shifts, or relocation, helping couples adapt and grow together.

Healing from Trauma or Betrayal: Therapists provide a supportive environment for couples to process past hurts, infidelity, or trauma, fostering forgiveness, trust, and healing.

Building Resilience: Couples learn coping strategies to navigate challenges and setbacks, strengthening their bond and resilience in the face of adversity.

Overall, counselling and psychotherapy offer couples the tools, insights, and support they need to cultivate a fulfilling and lasting relationship.

For appointments please email info@fk-cs.co.uk adding your contact number and I will call you to arrange your appointment.

🌟 Seeking Support for Anxiety 🌟Struggling with anxiety? You're not alone. Counselling can be a powerful tool in managing...
25/03/2024

🌟 Seeking Support for Anxiety 🌟

Struggling with anxiety? You're not alone. Counselling can be a powerful tool in managing and overcoming anxiety. Whether it's through talk therapy, cognitive-behavioral techniques, or mindfulness practices, counselling provides a safe space to explore your feelings and develop coping strategies.

Remember, it's okay to ask for help. You deserve support on your journey to mental well-being. Reach out today and take the first step towards a brighter tomorrow. 💙 email with your contact number and I will call to arrange your appointment info@fk-cs.co.uk
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Hello and welcome to Fiona Knowles Counselling Services, I am a qualified and experienced counsellor and psychotherapist working in private practice in Deeping St.James. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and emotions to facilitate personal growth and alleviate symptoms.

I have been a qualified holistic therapist running my own business for over 17 years. I started my counselling career with the Samaritans where I gained valuable experience working with a variety of client issues. I have also worked counselling young adults aged 16 to 18 years for a local school and also as a volunteer counsellor for CRUSE Bereavement Care where I worked with age ranges from 8 years to Adults. I am a registered member of the British Association for Counsellors and Psychotherapists and The National Counselling Society and follow their ethics, standards, and guidelines to ensure I work in the best interest of my clients.