17/03/2026
I don’t talk enough about how much my relationships used to suffer before I understood my brain.
Missed messages. Cancelling plans last minute. Feeling completely overwhelmed trying to keep up with everyone I care about.
And the worst part?
Thinking it meant I didn’t care enough… or wasn’t a “good” friend, partner, or colleague.
I still have moments now.
Like forgetting something important or replying way too late and instantly feeling that wave of guilt.
But understanding myself has changed everything.
It’s not about excusing behaviour or not taking responsibility…
It’s about meeting yourself with a bit more compassion instead of constant criticism.
Because beating yourself up doesn’t make you show up better, it just makes you shrink.
And the truth is, you probably bring so much more to your relationships than you give yourself credit for 🤍
📌 Save this for the days you feel like you’re “failing” the people around you.
And send it to someone who might need that reminder too.