Rhian Kivits

12/09/2025

Betraying spouses often construct a complex system of emotionally abusive relationship behaviours. 💔

This enables them to dominate and control your relationship while they continue engaging in their s*xual cheating.

We can think of this as 'integrity abuse' – behaviours like gaslighting, denial and projection can keep you trapped in a web of lies that were never of your own choosing.

This is an issue that has to be addressed, whether you stay with your partner or whether your relationship comes to an end.

If you're a betrayed partner, I know it's painful to see your spouse's behaviour in this light. But without recognising the reality of what's happened, healing is elusive.

Integrity is essential for healthy, happy relationships. You deserve nothing less.

Rhian xo 🦋

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10/09/2025

If your partner has betrayed you through serial cheating, p**n misuse, s*x addiction or other problematic s*xual behaviours one of your biggest questions is probably WHY... 🤦🏻‍♀️

I know that your partner may confuse you with complicated explanations or excuses, but the reality is that there is a way to look at things that could be more helpful for you both.

This is a way that:

✨ Highlights your partner's responsibility and fosters accountability.
✨ Ensures you're not taking any of the blame for his choices.
✨ Emphasises zero tolerance of toxic relationship behaviours.

I believe this puts both your healing and his recovery at the centre.

Head over to my new magazine site to read more in the article 'The Roots Of S*xual Cheating: Exposed' and let me know what comes up for you.

https://betrayalprescription.com/roots-s*xual-cheating/

Rhian xo 🦋

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08/09/2025

When you recognise what’s been driving your partner’s problematic s*xual behaviours and cheating, it can feel both distressing and overwhelming. 💔

But with the right education, tools and support you can find a way forward.

Seeing the problem clearly is a meaningful first step.

Follow the link at the top of my page to read my article 'The Roots Of S*xual Cheating: Exposed' on The Betrayal Prescription magazine site.

https://betrayalprescription.com/roots-s*xual-cheating/

Rhian xo 🦋

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04/09/2025

The Betrayal Prescription magazine site is now live! 🙏

My articles are aimed at women recovering from s*xual betrayal trauma, offering education, inspiration and healing for those who are navigating their journey of recovery.

You can find the site at the top of my page – thank you for supporting this growing resource by reading, sharing with anyone who'll benefit from the support and leaving a comment on my social posts. 🩵

Today I'm sharing this one: 3 Signs Your Partner Is Still Engaging In S*x Addiction. I hope it helps those who need it.

Rhian xo 🦋

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03/09/2025

If you’ve been the partner of a s*x addict or a serial cheat, or lived through lies and deception in your relationship, this will resonate. 🙏

That ‘sixth sense’ you’ve developed for spotting a lack of integrity is real. It’s a skill you didn’t ask for, but one that's become fine-tuned. You’re alert to the subtle signs that something isn’t right. ✨

Learning to trust your instincts again is an important aspect of your healing journey, especially if your partner has the tendency to slip into denial or blame-shifting. 💔

You deserve to feel secure, grounded and fully in control of your own life again. It's your instincts that will keep you safe. 🥰

Rhian xo 🦋

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02/09/2025

The secrecy hurts. The lengths he went to to protect his hidden s*xual life. 💔

He used lies, half-truths, omissions or manipulation to create a false reality in the relationship while he cheated, misused the internet or engaged with compulsive, entitled s*xual behaviours.

Secrecy isn't just an inevitable part of betrayal.

It's a strategy to keep the deception going.

It's also a form of relational abuse, because it undermines trust.

Secrecy robs you, the betrayed partner, of your right to make informed choices.

If you're struggling with the secrecy, please know you're not alone. It's not acceptable and never will be. 🌹

Rhian xo 🦋

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01/09/2025

Discovering your partner’s compulsive s*xual behaviour can be devastating. In the weeks, months and even years that follow, there could be evidence that your partner continues to betray you. 💔

However, if he’s highly deceptive, the signs can be difficult to spot. 🧐

Understanding the signs that you’re continuing to be betrayed and manipulated is essential for your well-being. 🙏

You can read more on my new magazine site: https://betrayalprescription.com/signs-partner-still-engaging-s*x-addiction/

Rhian xo 🦋
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29/07/2025

It was great to be asked by Stylist Magazine to help with this article on S*xual Wellness Myths. 🥰

Enjoy the article! 🥰

Because not every woman will lose their s*x drive during perimenopause, and spontaneous s*x isn’t always the most pleasurable.

15/07/2025

I'm so happy to be featured in this Telegraph article today about supposedly 'happily married' men who have affairs. 💔

Is it possible to use 'happily married' and 'affair' in the same sentence? I don't believe so. 🤦‍♀️

We can't excuse the lies and deceit, and the hurt that's caused when the affairs are exposed. 👀

Rhian xo

Two anonymous men open up about loving their wives, but admit they have no intention of stopping being unfaithful

02/07/2025

Featured as an expert in this article - online dating can be a minefield! You don’t want to fall prey to liars, narcissists or users!🫶

SHOCKINGLY seven in ten singletons say they’ve given up on dating. Why? Because half of them say they’re put off by constantly meeting liars. But are the signs there from the very first…

26/06/2025

It's hard enough recovering after discovering your partner's hidden secrets, but if you're tempted to carry everyone's burdens as you heal, you'll crumble under the pressure. 🥀

Here are three things that will never be your responsibility:

✨ Protecting your betraying spouse's image.
It's his responsibility to be accountable for every choice he's made.

✨ Making others feel more comfortable.
Don't mask your pain. You deserve to be seen, heard and validated.

✨ Repairing the relationship single-handedly.
Your spouse has to step up and help you heal before any relationship issues that were present prior to the betrayal can be resolved.

Save this post to help you remember that you don't have to carry burdens that were never yours to shoulder. 🌹

Rhian xo 🦋

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