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Maternal Matters Abigail latif experienced Midwife providing education, support & empowering content 🏡

06/10/2025

💚My self care💚

✨IMO - is vital for midwives & student midwives ✨

💚I have to invest in myself
💚Surround my self with my girlfriends
💚Take time away from midwifery
💚This day was just what I needed
💚With .fr_
💚Amazing event by & .daily
💚I had my tarots read for the first time by
💚And ear seeds by

The next one is booked ⚡️⚡️⚡️🙏✨



💚What does your self care look like? Tell me in the comments 👇👇👇

❤️Manchester ❤️Prestwich & crumpsall ❤️Love Always wins🐝Violence is not the answer ❤️Condolences to our community 🐝Big l...
03/10/2025

❤️Manchester ❤️

Prestwich & crumpsall

❤️Love Always wins
🐝Violence is not the answer
❤️Condolences to our community
🐝Big love to all
❤️Manchester our beloved city

OUR community

🩷Midwives birth stories🩷 🩷Marley an Independent midwife 🩷Author & social media influencer 🩷Mother of 5 including twins 🩷...
23/09/2025

🩷Midwives birth stories🩷



🩷Marley an Independent midwife
🩷Author & social media influencer
🩷Mother of 5 including twins
🩷Can’t wait to listen to her birth stories
🩷Before and after she became a midwife

Thursday 25/09/25 1pm

Any questions post below 👇 and we will try answer as many as possible. I will also post to my grid to save and watch in the future! ✨🙌🫶🏼

📢 Fear in Maternity Care: Why It Matters to discuss 🚨 Modern NHS maternity care often leans on a “better safe than sorry...
22/09/2025

📢 Fear in Maternity Care: Why It Matters to discuss

🚨 Modern NHS maternity care often leans on a “better safe than sorry” model. While safety is essential, fear-based messaging can sometimes increase intervention rates without always improving outcomes.

❌Every day I witness reports of coercion and it’s NOT ok, I would like to ask BARONESS AMOS what will she do to tackle this behavior that occurs daily across the country?

⚠️ The Issues
🌍Global C-section rates have risen dramatically — in some countries exceeding 50% of all births.
🌍The World Health Organization (WHO) states that C-sections above 10–15% are not linked to reductions in maternal or newborn deaths.
⏰Many interventions (inductions, continuous monitoring, epidurals, instrumental deliveries) are lifesaving when medically necessary — but overuse can lead to complications, longer recovery, and emotional trauma.

🧠 How Fear Plays a Role
🗣️Language that emphasizes risk (“your baby could die if…”) can pressure families into decisions.
😰Fear of litigation, time pressure, or institutional culture may drive unnecessary interventions.
😶‍🌫️Parents may feel disempowered, as though birth is something to be “managed” rather than a physiological process.

🌱 What Families Deserve/sadly not often happens
🙏Balanced, good evidence-based information about both risks and benefits of interventions.
🫶🏼Respect for physiological birth when mother and baby are well.
🫷🏽Informed choice and shared decision-making, not decisions made out of fear.

What are your experiences? Did you feel involved in decision making, listened to and plenty of time to make choices? Or the opposite? Tell me ⬇️⬇️⬇️
Abigail 🫶🏼

🌍🔥 MIDWIFERY IS POLITICAL. 🔥🌍Today I attended the  (International Labour and birth conference) With  &  And it’s got me ...
17/09/2025

🌍🔥 MIDWIFERY IS POLITICAL. 🔥🌍

Today I attended the
(International Labour and birth conference)

With &

And it’s got me all fired 🔥up, filled my midwifery cup, by being surrounded by midwives that believe in physiological birth and are doing so much work world wide, in the face of rising medical interventions.

💪Togther we are stronger💪

Midwives worldwide can fight for:
🤰 Respectful care
🗣️ Choice + autonomy
🏥 Safe birth spaces
👶🏽Physiological birth
💸 Fair pay + recognition

From hospitals to villages to ancestral practices ✨ — midwives can RESIST + RISE

⚡️I have more to share, but for now leaving you with⚡️
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💜 Midwifery is a global movement.
💜 When midwives thrive, communities thrive.

“Respect is not just what we should do for women, it’s what we should do for each other”
Mary Renfrew

🖤Midwives birth stories 🖤 - Kim ✨This Thursday 18/09/25  🖤The first in my series ✨🖤My midwifery sister shares her full b...
15/09/2025

🖤Midwives birth stories 🖤

- Kim ✨
This Thursday 18/09/25

🖤The first in my series ✨
🖤My midwifery sister shares her full birth story
🖤Her experiences as a pregnant NHS midwife
🖤Her choices around pregnancy & birth
🖤And how her birth actually happened

SPOILER 💫Her midwife was 💫

✨It’s the first time Kim has shared publicly, she’s taken a long break from SM and work, I can’t wait for you all to hear this! Please post any questions you may have below 👇 and save the date 🙌

👶🏽Transition to parenthood 👶🏽A huge topic ➡️ swipe read on 👶🏽Midwives are no experts👶🏽We often draw on our own experienc...
13/09/2025

👶🏽Transition to parenthood 👶🏽

A huge topic ➡️ swipe read on

👶🏽Midwives are no experts
👶🏽We often draw on our own experiences
👶🏽But not all midwives are parents
👶🏽This topic has come up several times this month
👶🏽Parents that have prepared well for birth

⚡️However when baby arrived the huge sense of responsibility hit them hard along with sleep deprivation causing enhanced anxiety along with all of the other challenges you face in those early days! Support is key, at my trust we are able to offer good support with extra postnatal visits, longer visits and joint visits with health visitors. But I am well aware this is a post-code lottery! Too is the community support.

👶🏽It’s made me realize how little focus is on preparing people for parenthood because everything is focused on the birth! But would people be interested ? What are your thoughts?
👶🏽What advice would you give new parents?
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🩶Midwifery and life🩶🩶My top survival tips🩶 ➡️➡️➡️ swipe 🩶You might have just qualified or a veteran like me? 🩶But how do...
02/09/2025

🩶Midwifery and life🩶

🩶My top survival tips🩶 ➡️➡️➡️ swipe

🩶You might have just qualified or a veteran like me?
🩶But how do you survive in NHS midwifery?
🩶I’m often asked, how do I remain so positive in NHS midwifery after 12 years qualified?
🩶We are often scrutinized, and our profession is slowly eroding….negativity can be crushing.
🩶Trust me its not easy, sometimes a roller coaster but I try to live by these principles ✨
🩶What are yours in your life and job?

Tell me ⬇️⬇️⬇️

✨Abigail

🖤Midwives🖤🖤When do midwives get to share THEIR birth story? 🖤Something I’m personally so fascinated about 🖤The mind & bo...
01/09/2025

🖤Midwives🖤

🖤When do midwives get to share THEIR birth story?

🖤Something I’m personally so fascinated about
🖤The mind & body of a pregnant midwife is a unique experience in our profession, I’m not sure if you can compare that to any other job?
🖤What was your experience of pregnancy whilst being a midwife….?
🖤Whats your role? I have so many questions….
🖤How were your birth choices influenced?
🖤Where did you give birth and what happened?
🖤It will all be revealed in my midwives birth story series including me sharing mine ✨💫⚡️
🖤My first special guest will be Kim
🖤If you would like to share your birth story, in a post, video, photos, a LIVE? Please drop me a heart ❤️ in the comments and I’ll be in touch!
🖤Tag a midwife ✨💫

Posted  •  ⚡️Knowledge =Power⚡️Swipe ➡️➡️➡️ for more info! ⚡️Education can provide you with confidence ⚡️Shift the power...
18/02/2025

Posted • ⚡️Knowledge =Power⚡️

Swipe ➡️➡️➡️ for more info!

⚡️Education can provide you with confidence
⚡️Shift the power….
⚡️What type of birth do you desire? Do your research explore ALL the options even ones that may feel uncomfortable to you.
⚡️Sometimes it’s not even money it’s TIME that you need to invest in YOUR pregnancy & birth.
⚡️People are so busy these days they leave antenatal / pregnancy birth prep till the last minute! Or miss it out….”I’ll go with the flow” “birth plans don’t go to plan anyway”
⚡️What’s offered generally in the NHS is basic….
⚡️As an NHS midwife I always encourage you to start exploring during early pregnancy all the way through, earlier the better, self educate and increase your confidence, understand your birth rights & choices, one course…might not be enough….top that up with yoga, Pilates, books, podcasts, IG accounts so many amazing ones on here….here’s a few of my favorite accounts
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pregnancy.chiropractor






What are your favorite educational accounts? Tag them …..⬇️

Abigail ###💫

🤍Midwives & Student mws 🤍✨Surround yourself with those that lift you up✨🤍Midwifery IMO is questionably the toughest it’s...
12/02/2025

🤍Midwives & Student mws 🤍

✨Surround yourself with those that lift you up✨

🤍Midwifery IMO is questionably the toughest it’s ever been? only other midwives will understand
🤍Its a continuous roller coaster
🤍We hold a privileged position whilst sometimes walking a tightrope with 🦈sharks lurking
🤍The mother midwife relationship & midwives dilemmas can be heartbreaking 💔
🤍Moral injury is real
🤍Compassion fatigue is rife
🤍The accountability can be overwhelming
🤍The scrutiny can be crushing
🤍There will always be bitching, bullying, gaslighting, blaming, shaming & hierarchy
🤍Some women cannot truly support other women

But I believe ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
🤍There will also be moments of light, love and support that move you to your core & stay with you forever ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨
🤍Stay true and authentic
🤍Find your tribe and keep them close ✨💫⚡️
🤍You’ve got this!



🤍Tag your midwifery brothers & sisters ✨💫⚡️⬇️⬇️⬇️

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