21/06/2025
๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐
"Every argument is really about, do you see me? Does what I say mean anything to you? Do I matter to you?
There's a common denominator in the human experience that we all share. We all want to know that what we do and what we say and who we are matters. We want to be validated. "
~ Oprah
I have been in hermit mode recently, growing my knowledge, reflecting and reshaping my life and my business. This quote from Oprah really struck a chord with me and helped me to see my relationships in a different light.
Healthy relationships depend on this. A balance of give and take. We all need and deserve this. I invite you to reflect on this too. Consider your key relationships and whether you both make the effort to truly ๐๐๐ each other. Not through our skewed filters of assumptions and triggers. From a place of seeking to know, to understand and see the other person. By doing so, the other person will feel like they matter and hopefully, will then feel able to do the same for you.
Just hold space. Perhaps you won't ever understand, or agree. You don't have to. You don't need the answers or know how to fix it. Just listen.
Please know, I hear you. I see you. What you say matters to me. If you ever just want to feel heard, DM me, I am here for you ๐
