01/02/2026
We live in a time where everything is explained, advised, optimised, and sold.
And yet almost nothing is actually understood.
Everyone seems eager to change us.
To reframe us.
To offer the missing piece that stands between us and success.
One more book.
One more course.
One more insight and we’ll finally be fixed.
It’s solid marketing.
Like all good marketing, it knows where we’re vulnerable.
It speaks directly to our desire to be one step away from relief.
What it quietly forgets to mention is this;
the next step is rarely another technique.
The next step is almost always observation.
Pause.
Silence.
The space where something real can actually appear.
Ancient systems understood this well.
Before any transformation, there was confrontation with the self.
Hermetic initiations began with a mirror;
not to improve, but to see.
Light on one side. Shadow on the other.
Reviewed regularly. No shortcuts.
Today we skip that step.
We go straight to solutions.
And then we’re surprised when nothing changes.
You can buy the course.
You might even enjoy it.
But without space, without stillness, without honest self seeing,
it usually passes through without landing.
What does land is quieter.
Watching the gap between thoughts.
Sitting without an agenda.
Walking, moving, breathing with intention.
Noticing what is already here.
Gratitude helps.
Not as a slogan, but as orientation.
There is always something to be grateful for,
and nothing easier right now than forgetting that.
If you want more, that’s human.
Just make the more calmer.
Softer.
Closer to who you actually are.
The unglamorous truth is this;
what you’re looking for is not ahead of you.
It’s already here,
waiting for you to stop long enough to notice.