Mary Niker Mindfulness

Mary Niker Mindfulness Mary Niker is a member of the mindfulness association and qualified facilitator of the MBLC. Check this

Mary Niker is an International Iyengar Yoga teacher, Oncology massage therapist and mindfulness teacher. Mary is a member of the mindfulness association & has trained with the mindfulness association in mindfulness, compassion & is qualified as teacher of MBLC.

28/11/2025

My dog is my best friend,
With qualities, no human can match,
He is loyal to the very core,
Our hearts have become attached.

He has taught me that the simple things,
Really, are the best,
Exercise, sustanance, joy and fun,
And plenty of rewarding rest.

He has no interest in trivial things,
With little need to impress,
He doesn't need to style his hair,
Or choose a way to dress.

What you see is what you get,
And when you look into his eyes,
You will see a soul that's beautiful,
A place where true love resides.

I never need to explain to him
How I feel, or when I'm sad,
He's instinctively aware of everything
From the good vibes to the bad.

With him, I'm never lonely
He brings so much to my days,
And that is why I love him
And his kind and caring ways ..

🖋️C.E.Coombes
🎨Cup of Cosy Art

Serendipity Corner 🐕

26/11/2025

Quiet moments have a way of speaking straight to the heart.

-Etheric Echoes

26/11/2025

When I was little, there was an old oak at the edge of our street that everyone called the Watching Tree. On quiet evenings you could sometimes see an owl perched right at the top, still as anything, just looking out across the gardens. I used to stop on my way home and listen to the soft hoot drifting through the air. It always made the dark feel a bit less lonely.

I never knew where it went in the daytime, but whenever I hear an owl now it takes me straight back to that tree and those calm nights. Funny how a small sound like that can stay with you for a lifetime.

-Kirsty C

26/11/2025

"Just by practicing gratitude, we can find happiness. We must be grateful to our ancestors, our parents, our teachers, our friends, the earth, the sky, the trees, the grass, the animals, the soil, the stones. Looking at the sunlight or at the forest, we feel gratitude. Looking at our breakfast, we feel gratitude. When we live in the spirit of gratitude, there will be much happiness in our life."
-Thich Nhat Hanh (Peace Is This Moment)

26/11/2025

“Time does not heal all wounds; it just gives them space to sink into the subconscious, where they will continue to impact your emotions and behavior. What heals is going inward, loving yourself, accepting yourself, listening to your needs, addressing your attachments and emotional history, learning how to let go, and following your intuition.”

- Yung Pueblo

About the Author:
Diego Perez Diego Perez is known by millions as Yung Pueblo, a pen name that means “young people”. As a New York Times bestselling author, meditator and poet, he has become a beacon of wisdom and inspiration for those seeking a path toward authentic living and emotional well-being. Proclaiming that misery has gone out of style, and the healing generation is here - he is the herald for a new pathway forward.

[Image: Lesbia (1878) painting inspired by the poems of Catullus by English artist John Reinhard Weguelin RWS ROI (1849-1927).]

Poetry, Tea and Me


26/11/2025

Sometimes when we are sad,
All we need is another being,
just to sit with us and say nothing.
No words are needed as company
needs no dialogue, nor questions.
Sometimes we don't have answers,
because we are struggling, to
understand and absorb our feelings.
Some things are so heavy..
we feel unable to share our burden,
So we simply sit and hold it
for a while, suspended in the moment.
The warmth of someone sitting
right next to you, yet,
asking nothing of you, will suffice.
'Your're not alone ' is not uttered,
As we know, in that moment ,
we aren't alone ..
And that, in itself, is enough ...

🖋️C.E. Coombes
🎨Jungsuk Lee

Serendipity Corner ✨

23/11/2025

When we’re frightened or overwhelmed, the body shifts into a survival mode that happens faster than thought. The heart begins to race, the breath becomes shallow, the muscles tighten, and the whole system prepares to defend itself. Inside the body, chemicals like adrenaline and norepinephrine surge, sharpening our attention toward threat. Cortisol rises to keep us on alert. It’s a powerful system designed to protect us, but it narrows our perspective and keeps the mind scanning for danger even when the danger has passed. The Buddha didn’t use the language of hormones or neurology, but he understood this state well. He spoke of agitation in the body, restlessness in the mind, and the way fear can burn through us and make everything feel urgent.

When we sit down to meditate, the body begins to shift out of this survival pattern. It often starts with something as simple as paying attention to the breath. As the breath slows and deepens, the vagus nerve is gently stimulated. This long nerve runs from the brainstem through the chest and the abdomen, and its activation signals to the whole system that it is safe to settle. The heart rate slows. The muscles release some of their tension. The mind stops bracing against imagined futures. Cortisol begins to drop, and the chemistry of the body moves toward balance rather than vigilance.

As the nervous system shifts from threat to ease, different capacities come back online. The amygdala, the part of the brain that constantly scans for danger, becomes quieter. The prefrontal cortex, which supports perspective, patience, and empathy, becomes more available. Mood-regulating chemicals like serotonin begin to steady. Sometimes oxytocin rises when the body registers a sense of safety or warmth. Nothing dramatic is required. Just breathing slowly, sitting with some sincerity, and allowing the body to find its way back to equilibrium. What we call “calm” is not a mental trick; it is a physiological state in which we can see more clearly and respond more wisely.

The Buddha taught this long before anyone knew about the vagus nerve or stress hormones. He spoke again and again about calming the body, steadying the breath, and allowing the mind to become tranquil. He understood through direct experience that a peaceful mind depends on a peaceful body. When the body softens, the heart opens. When the heart opens, insight becomes possible. Meditation is not about suppressing anything or forcing a particular state. It is about creating the inner conditions in which the nervous system can let go of its defenses and return to its natural clarity.

Over time, this practice reshapes us. We become less easily thrown, less reactive, more able to pause before responding. We find ourselves able to stay present in situations that once overwhelmed us. This is the nervous system learning new patterns. And it is also the Dharma working through the body, breath by breath. When the body settles, the mind begins to experience the world without fear. And from that place, add compassion and wisdom have the space to grow.

20/11/2025

🌈 Vibration Plates & Your Lymphatic System

A Colourful, Science-Backed Guide for Lymphies

By Bianca Botha, CLT | RLD | MLDT & CDS

Vibration plates have become incredibly popular — not just for fitness, but for lymphatic drainage, inflammation support, and chronic fatigue recovery.
But how do they actually work for the lymph? And who benefits the most?

Let’s break it down in a colourful, factual way. 💚✨

🌿 1. Why Vibration Plates Help the Lymphatic System

Your lymphatic system doesn’t have its own pump — it relies on muscle contraction, breathing, and movement to move fluid.

A vibration plate:
• Creates rhythmic muscle contractions
• Stimulates deeper lymphatic vessels
• Improves circulation
• Helps push fluid out of stagnant areas
• Activates your parasympathetic (rest-digest-drain) state

This means better detoxification, less swelling, and improved immune function.

⚡ 2. Science-Backed Benefits for Lymph Flow

Vibration plates may support:
• Chronic inflammation reduction
• Fatigue + brain fog improvement
• Histamine stability in MCAS / histamine intolerance
• POTS / dysautonomia symptoms by improving circulation
• Fibromyalgia, autoimmune flare support
• Swelling in hips, thighs, pelvis, and abdomen

Gentle vibration = gentle lymph release.

🍋 3. Why It Helps Histamine Intolerance & MCAS

High histamine levels often come from:
• Gut inflammation
• Lymphatic congestion
• Mast-cell activation
• Slow detox pathways

Vibration plates improve:
• Blood flow → faster histamine clearance
• Lymph flow → less histamine stagnation
• Vagus nerve tone → better mast-cell regulation

This is why so many people with MCAS, POTS, long COVID, and chronic fatigue feel relief.

🍃 4. Vibration Plates & POTS / Dysautonomia

A gentle vibration session can:
• Increase venous return
• Reduce blood pooling in legs
• Improve autonomic balance
• Support lymph movement out of the abdomen
• Stabilise lightheadedness over time

Start low → slow → short sessions.

🔄 5. Types of Vibration Plates (and which is best for lymph)

There are two main types:

✨ Oscillation plates (seesaw style)

Best for lymphatics.
Gentle → moves fluid → stimulates nodes naturally.

✨ Linear plates (up-down vibration)

More intense.
Use carefully — especially if you have:
• POTS
• MCAS
• Autoimmune flares
• Herniated discs
• Pelvic congestion

⏱️ 6. How Often Should You Use It?

Lymph-friendly guidelines:
• Beginner: 2–4 minutes
• Intermediate: 5–8 minutes
• Advanced: 10–12 minutes (max for lymph)
• Frequency: 3–5 times per week

Always hydrate before + after.

⚠️ 7. When NOT to Use a Vibration Plate

Avoid or get medical clearance if you have:
• Pregnancy
• Acute clot / DVT
• Uncontrolled heart conditions
• Recent major surgery (first 4–6 weeks)
• Severe dizziness
• Severe spinal instability

💚 Final Note

Vibration plates are not a cure, but they are an incredible tool to support:
• Lymph flow
• Immune regulation
• Histamine metabolism
• Chronic fatigue recovery
• Stress & vagus nerve support

When used correctly, they can transform your lymphatic health.

This article is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your healthcare provider before making changes to your diet, exercise, or health regimen.

13/11/2025

Be kind to yourself

Your heart
and your dear body
are always listening.

Give yourself a little space
A little more slack
No one can live in the tiny room
you've allowed for yourself.

Be gentle in your words
Be generous and understanding.
For you are fashioned of the
dark, rich humus of this earth
not only the lofty dust
of stars.

Catch those barbs and poisoned arrows
that you might think or feel,
before they strike that precious heart

And send those unloving thoughts
and doubts,
and the faulty worries of the world
away.

You're learning here.
You're growing
And you're allowed to make mistakes.

We all are.

And we will.

Your uniqueness
and compassionate humanness
are needed in this injured world.

And we will only find true compassion

when we start
with our own
dear
selves.

Rachel Alana (R.A. Falconer)
Midwives of the Soul

From "Soul Songs" by R.A. Falconer Now at Barnes & Noble, Waterstones & Amazon.

at | Karl Harald Alfred Broge (Danish, 1870-1955)

11/11/2025

We have not long to love.
Light does not stay.
The tender things are those
we fold away.
Coarse fabrics are the ones
for common wear.
In silence I have watched you
comb your hair.
Intimate the silence,
dim and warm.
I could but did not, reach
to touch your arm.
I could, but do not, break
that which is still.
(Almost the faintest whisper
would be shrill.)
So moments pass as though
they wished to stay.
We have not long to love.
A night. A day.... ---Tennessee Williams

08/11/2025
08/11/2025

“The death of your mother is not comparable to the death of the man you loved: it is the prelude to your death. Because it is the death of the creature that conceived you, carried in the womb, gifted life.
And your flesh is her flesh, your blood is her blood, your body is an extension of her body: the moment she dies, a part of you or the principle of you dies physically, nor is the umbilical cord cut to separate you.
To postpone that death which was a prelude to my death, so I stayed awake.
To keep me awake I kept her awake and talked, talked.
I told her what I had never told her and I would never tell to anyone, my wounds, my regrets, my doubts, precious burden however, since it was life itself, I told her that despite those wounds and regrets and doubts, I loved life very much.
I was so happy to be born, and I thanked her on my knees for giving birth to me."

( ✍️ Oriana Fallaci -"The Meaning of Life")

Art : Max Ernst

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