06/01/2026
Pushing has a cost.
It keeps the system in effort, even when the original reason for effort has passed.
Many people arrive believing they need more resilience, more discipline, more control.
What actually helps is removing the emotional weight that makes everything feel heavy in the first place.
As that weight dissolves, clients often experience a natural return of capacity.
They cope better, not because they’re trying harder, but because less is being carried.
This is where sustainable change comes from — not force, but alignment.
If you’re tired of pushing and something here resonates, you can message me to explore what softening might look like for you.