22/11/2025
When we choose 1 oppression to fight we miss the point, we buy into the hierarchy of domination.
bell hooks
What a stunning, loving legacy 🧡
At 19, she wrote a book attacking both white feminists and Black men—her professors said it would destroy her career. She published it anyway with a lowercase name and changed how the world understands oppression.
Her name was bell hooks, and she understood something the world desperately didn't want to hear: you can't dismantle one form of oppression while ignoring all the others.
Born Gloria Jean Watkins in 1952 in Hopkinsville, Kentucky, she grew up in a world divided by every line imaginable—race, class, gender, skin color within race.
The Kentucky of her childhood was still segregated. Black families lived on one side of town, white families on the other. But Gloria learned early that segregation existed within her own community too. Dark-skinned versus light-skinned. Poor versus working class. Women who spoke their minds versus women who stayed silent to survive.
She watched her mother suffer under both racism from white society and patriarchy from within her own home. She watched her father enforce control through violence—the way some Black men replicated the domination they experienced from white supremacy by dominating Black women and children.
That painful observation—that uncomfortable truth—would become the foundation of everything she wrote.
Gloria was brilliant. Terrifyingly brilliant. She devoured books, questioned everything, refused to accept the world as it was presented.
In the segregated schools of 1950s Kentucky, that made her dangerous.
Her teachers didn't know what to do with a Black girl who asked uncomfortable questions, who saw through the lies everyone else pretended were truths, who refused to be quiet.
In 1969, she went to Stanford University on scholarship. She was one of very few Black students there. White classmates saw her as an anomaly. White professors expected her to be grateful just for the opportunity to be there.
She wasn't grateful. She was angry.
Because Stanford was teaching feminism—but it was white women's feminism. Betty Friedan's feminism. The feminism of suburban housewives who felt trapped and bored.
Not the feminism of Black women who were working three jobs just to survive. Not the feminism that acknowledged Black women had always worked, had been enslaved workers, had been domestic workers in white women's homes for generations while white feminists fought for the "right to work."
The feminist movement of the 1970s talked about "women's liberation" while completely erasing Black women's experiences. White feminists wanted access to male-dominated workplaces—Black women had never had the privilege of not working. White feminists wanted freedom from domesticity—Black women had been domestic workers for white families for centuries.
The feminism being taught at Stanford didn't see Gloria. Didn't see her mother. Didn't see any Black woman.
So at 19 years old, Gloria started writing what would become "Ain't I a Woman?: Black Women and Feminism."
She wrote it in rage and brilliance. She wrote it because no one else was telling the truth about how Black women existed at the intersection of racism and sexism, experiencing both simultaneously, invisible to both the civil rights movement (which prioritized Black men) and the feminist movement (which prioritized white women).
She wrote: "No other group in America has so had their identity socialized out of existence as have black women."
She documented how white feminists erased Black women's contributions to feminism's history. How the civil rights movement prioritized Black men's liberation over Black women's freedom. How Black women were constantly told to choose—fight racism or fight sexism—when they experienced both at once, inseparably.
She didn't just critique white feminism. She critiqued Black men who replicated patriarchy within their own communities. She critiqued capitalism that exploited Black women's labor. She critiqued heteronormativity. She critiqued everything—the entire interlocking system of oppression.
And when she showed the manuscript to her professors at Stanford, they warned her bluntly: publishing this will make you unemployable. You're attacking everyone. White feminists will hate you. Black men will call you a traitor. Academic institutions will blacklist you. No one will hire you.
Gloria looked at her professors and made a decision that would define her entire career.
She would publish it.
But not as Gloria Jean Watkins—a name that carried her father's patriarchal legacy, a name given to her by the system she was dismantling.
She chose a pen name: bell hooks. Lowercase. Deliberate.
She took her great-grandmother's name—Bell Blair Hooks—a woman who'd spoken her mind despite living in an era when Black women's voices were systematically silenced. And she made it lowercase "to distinguish herself from her great-grandmother and to decenter the ego in her work."
The lowercase was radical. It said: the ideas matter more than the individual. The message matters more than the messenger's ego or fame.
In 1981, "Ain't I a Woman?" was published.
The backlash was immediate and brutal.
White feminists accused her of dividing the movement. How dare she criticize feminism when women were still fighting for equality? Wasn't she giving ammunition to sexists?
Black male scholars accused her of betraying the race. How dare she air the Black community's "dirty laundry" about sexism when racism was still the urgent priority? Wasn't she helping white supremacy by criticizing Black men?
Conservative critics dismissed her as an angry Black woman—the ultimate silencing tactic designed to discredit Black women's legitimate anger.
Every side told her to choose: be a feminist or be Black. Support women or support your race. Pick one oppression to fight.
But Black women read the book and felt seen for the first time in their lives.
Here was someone finally naming what they'd always known but had no language for: that being a Black woman meant navigating multiple oppressions simultaneously. That you couldn't separate racism from sexism in their actual lived experience. That white feminists' concerns weren't universal women's concerns. That Black liberation couldn't mean just Black male liberation.
The book became foundational to what would later be called "intersectional feminism"—though bell hooks was writing it years before Kimberlé Crenshaw coined that term in 1989.
And bell hooks didn't stop with one book. She couldn't. There was too much truth left to tell.
She wrote "Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center" (1984), arguing that feminism needed to start from the experiences of the most marginalized women—not work its way down from privileged white women's concerns.
She wrote "Talking Back: Thinking Feminist, Thinking Black" (1989), about finding voice in a world determined to silence you.
She wrote "Teaching to Transgress" (1994), revolutionizing how educators thought about classroom power dynamics and engaged pedagogy.
And then she wrote something no one expected from a radical Black feminist theorist: "All About Love" (2000).
In it, she argued that all the political theory, all the critique, all the resistance meant nothing without love. Not sentimental love. Not romantic love. Love as action. Love as practice. Love as the foundation of justice.
"The moment we choose to love," she wrote, "we begin to move against domination, against oppression."
Critics were confused. Love? From bell hooks? The fierce critic who'd spent decades dissecting power structures?
But for bell hooks, it made perfect sense. You can't dismantle oppressive systems by replicating their cruelty. You can't create justice through domination. Liberation required a different foundation entirely—love that demanded accountability, love that told hard truths, love that refused to accept injustice.
She taught for decades—at Yale, Oberlin, City College of New York, Berea College. Her classrooms were unlike any other. She sat in circles with students, not elevated above them. She encouraged disagreement. She made complex theory accessible instead of gatekeeping it behind academic jargon.
She refused tenure-track positions at elite universities because she wanted to teach at institutions that served working-class students. She wanted to be where she came from, not in ivory towers disconnected from everyday struggles.
Throughout her career, she faced constant dismissal from multiple directions simultaneously. She was too radical for mainstream feminism, too feminist for mainstream Black studies, too academic for popular culture, too accessible for academic gatekeepers who believed theory should be deliberately obscure.
She fit nowhere cleanly, which meant she threatened every established category.
But her books kept selling. Her ideas kept spreading. Students kept finding her work and feeling, finally, that someone understood the complexity of their identities—that they didn't need to fragment themselves to fit into single-issue movements.
When bell hooks died in December 2021 at age 69, the outpouring on social media was massive. Thousands of people—especially Black women—shared how her work had fundamentally changed their lives. Given them language for experiences they'd had no words for. Given them permission to see themselves as whole, complex human beings.
But mainstream obituaries were brief. Major newspapers gave her paragraphs when she deserved pages. The New York Times obituary was notably short for someone of her intellectual impact.
Because bell hooks did something truly dangerous: she told uncomfortable truths about everyone. She critiqued white supremacy and patriarchy and capitalism and heteronormativity—but she also critiqued the movements fighting against those systems.
She refused to let any group claim innocence or victimhood as an excuse to perpetuate other oppressions. She demanded that everyone—including herself, including her allies—do the hard work of examining their complicity in oppression.
And she did it all in prose that was clear, accessible, and fierce. She deliberately rejected academic jargon that kept theory locked away from the people who needed it most—working-class people, people without formal education, people whose lived experiences were being theorized about.
"Theory," she wrote, "is not inherently healing, liberatory, or revolutionary. It fulfills this function only when we ask that it do so and direct our theorizing towards this end."
She believed that the first act of freedom was naming the truth—all of it, even when it was uncomfortable, even when it made your allies angry, even when it got you called a traitor by multiple sides.
She proved that you don't dismantle oppression by choosing which injustices matter most or by building a hierarchy of suffering. You dismantle it by seeing how all oppressions connect and reinforce each other—how capitalism needs racism, how racism needs sexism, how all of it interlocks to maintain systems of domination.
She was 19 years old when she started writing the book her professors said would destroy her career.
Every advisor told her to soften it. To choose a side. To not alienate potential allies. To wait until she had tenure before saying dangerous things.
She wrote it anyway. Published it with a lowercase name that said: this isn't about my ego or my career. This is about truth.
And she spent the next 40 years writing truths that made everyone uncomfortable—including the people who claimed to be fighting for liberation.
Because bell hooks understood something profound: real freedom doesn't come from polite requests or partial analyses. It comes from radical honesty about power, about love, about who we are and who we could become if we stopped accepting oppression in any form.
She didn't just critique the system. She loved us enough—all of us—to show us the way out, even when that love meant telling us hard truths we didn't want to hear.
At 19, she chose truth over career security.
At 69, she died having changed how millions of people understand oppression, liberation, and love.
Her professors were wrong. The book didn't destroy her career.
It created her legacy.
And that legacy lives in every person who refuses to choose between parts of their identity, who demands that liberation mean freedom for everyone, who understands that speaking truth—all of it—is the first act of love.
bell hooks. Lowercase. Deliberate. Revolutionary.
