The Reigate Doula

10/07/2025

I spent some time with my niece this morning, helping out my sister who has been poorly for the last few weeks, after some adventure golf we hit the driving range. I’d say 50% of my swings missed the ball and the other 50% of hits surprised myself!

I’m so proud of my sister for reaching out and asking me to support her, she’s incredibly independent and a solo parent to her amazing crazy golf pro daughter! ⛳️

It was fun for me to try something new that I’ve never done before!

How was your day? ☀️

30/06/2025

Hanging up my goggles 🥽 for the final time this month. I’ve really enjoyed swimming for with it’s been the perfect activity for the lovely heat wave. And enormous thank you to everyone who has sponsored me, supported me, swam with me, it has really kept me motivated. I was cutting it a bit fine with finishing in these last few days, having to squeeze in an extra session today during work, but I feel really proud of myself for getting it done and raising lots of money for

If you haven’t sponsored, but would like to, the just giving link is still open (on my profile), but if you do nothing else, please check your poo and know *your* normal.

Doula content will resume from tomorrow!

Thank you ❤️ I’m off to bed 💤

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24/06/2025

Babies were enjoying a two hour nap in their cots this morning! Mum enjoyed a leisurely dog walk in the sunshine after the nursery run then had lots of admin to catch up on so I busied myself in the kitchen making up some lunch and extra for the freezer.

Using up some sweet potato I found in the fridge and a tin of butter beans from the cupboard, a bit of butter, some dried mixed herbs and a quick zzzuzh with the hand blender and they’re good to go with a protein rich lunch pack with nutrients and flavour.

Hope they liked it…because they have a few to get through! 😋

01/06/2025

I’m going to be swimming throughout June, please support me and donate what you can. I signed up on impulse after seeing a Facebook ad 🙈 and, bar a leg wax, I am not at all prepared!! So raising lots if money for this important charity will definitely motivate me. Thanks x

My story:

My husband, Matt was diagnosed very suddenly with stage four bowel cancer in Sept 2020, he had no other symptoms other than a worsening tummy ache over a two week period. April 2021, on his 40th birthday, we were told his prognosis was “not long, we’re talking months not years, maybe six”. I have always felt confident that a cure will be found and told him he just has to hang in there long enough. Which he is doing brilliantly at.

This June I’m taking part in Swim15 for Bowel Cancer UK and raising money to help save lives and improve the quality of life of everyone affected by bowel cancer.

The money I raise will help to provide support and information to patients and their families like us, fund and support research into bowel cancer and support campaigns for early diagnosis and best treatment and care for all.

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29/05/2025

I’m going to be swimming throughout June, please support me and donate today. I signed up on impulse after seeing a Facebook ad 🙈 and am not at all prepared so raising lots if money for this important charity will definitely motivate me. Thanks x

My husband, Matt was diagnosed very suddenly with stage four bowel cancer in Sept 2020, he had another symptoms other than a worse I h tummy ache over a two week period. April 2021 on his 40th birthday we were his prognosis was “not long, we’re talking months not years, maybe six”. I have always felt confident that a cure will be found and told him he just has to hang in there long enough. Which he is doing brilliantly at.

This June I’m taking part in Swim15 for Bowel Cancer UK and raising money to help save lives and improve the quality of life of everyone affected by bowel cancer.

The money I raise will help to provide support and information to patients and their families like us, fund and support research into bowel cancer and support campaigns for early diagnosis and best treatment and care for all.

Please support me at: https://www.justgiving.com/page/thereigatedoula?utm_source=IG&utm_campaign=015

Sarah Eamer The Reigate Doula

Help Sarah Eamer raise money to support Bowel Cancer UK

23/05/2025

Ah the humble cucumber. You’ve been my trusty meal time accompaniment for last seven years, balancing out the beige plates of food. And now to learn that you’re basically medicine too. I bow to your awesomeness 🥒



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15/05/2025

Who is bringing you a coffee in bed this morning?

On Tuesday night I went and stayed at the very best guest house in the south coast; my mum & dad’s house.

It was so weird to be there without having my kids in tow, in the last 8 years I think it may have been only the second time I visited without either of them! 👧🏼👦🏼

I woke up (naturally 💆🏼‍♀️) in the morning, a few minutes later there was a knock on my bedroom door and my mum quietly came in with a coffee 🩷🩷 my mum is the BEST doula without even knowing. Unquestionably thoughtful, considerate and kind. She always just seems to know what I need without asking.

I took her to breakfast at which was absolutely delicious! Then we spent hours walking around Wi******er, chatting, exploring and solving clues on a which we both thoroughly enjoyed 🗺️

If you’re in the hazy postnatal days and want someone to bring you a coffee in bed, cuddle your baby so you can enjoy a shower without hearing the phantom cries then walk in to a tidied kitchen just let me know. I would LOVE to help 💕

06/05/2025

❤️‍🩹🥹 such meaningful work 🩷

01/04/2025

A double contact nap. My kinda Tuesday 💕

But be been here 1hr 15mins and have so far; made mum and older child breakfast, tea, changed, dressed fed both babies a bottle of milk, helped get the older child ready nursery and had a (very broken, frequently interrupted) conversation with mama. Now time for a contact nap whilst mama does the nursery run and walks the dog. The work for twins is relentless, how this mama does it on a daily basis I don’t know, but I know that today I’ll help it feel a little easier.

My focus is mum; she’s eaten, had a cup of tea, done the time sensitive tasks that she feels she needs to do and plans to have a long shower and wash her after a nice walk in the woods.

I don’t feel relaxed sitting on the sofa whilst the boys sleep when I know I could be tidying the kitchen and unloading the dishwasher, but I also know that babies who have napped well tend to be happier and it’ll be nice to leave two babies behind that may give mama an easier afternoon.

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