Angels of Sunshine

Angels of Sunshine Specialised Coaching in Autism/Aspergers, ADHD and Mental Health conditions.

๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ด๐—บ๐—ฎ & ๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป  ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜Being misunderstood repeatedly becomes trauma.Many neurodivergent people do...
23/11/2025

๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ด๐—บ๐—ฎ & ๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜

Being misunderstood repeatedly becomes trauma.
Many neurodivergent people donโ€™t fear failure they fear misinterpretation.

๐—›๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ก๐—— ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ:
โŒ โ€œYouโ€™re overreacting.โ€
โŒ โ€œStop fidgeting.โ€
โŒ โ€œJust focus.โ€
โŒ โ€œEveryoneโ€™s a bit autistic/ADHD.โ€
โŒ โ€œYouโ€™re too sensitive.โ€
โŒ โ€œCalm down / act normal.โ€

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต:
๐Ÿฉน your needs cause inconvenience
๐Ÿค your true self is unacceptable
๐Ÿ˜” mask to survive, not belong

๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โ€ข people-pleasing
โ€ข perfectionism
โ€ข burnout
โ€ข self-silencing
โ€ข emotional suppression

๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—˜๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—Ÿ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐˜€ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ:
โœ” โ€œTell me how this feels for you.โ€
โœ” โ€œYou donโ€™t have to perform to be valued.โ€
โœ” โ€œYour needs matter.โ€
โœ” โ€œLetโ€™s make this work for your brain, not against it.โ€

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Identity repair
โ€ข Unlearning internalised shame
โ€ข Building safe self-expression
โ€ข Advocacy & boundary-setting skills

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜:
Which belief about yourself do you want to unlearn?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ด๐—บ๐—ฎ ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—น๐˜†.

๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— & ๐—•๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฟ  ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐——๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ & ๐—ข๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜€ADHD and Bipolar can look similar on the surface, but they are neuro...
22/11/2025

๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— & ๐—•๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐——๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ & ๐—ข๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜€

ADHD and Bipolar can look similar on the surface, but they are neurologically different.

๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป:
โ€ข Fast emotional shifts
โ€ข Triggered by life events / rejection / stress
โ€ข Minutes โ†’ hours
โ€ข Chronic distraction + impulsivity
โ€ข Motivation fluctuates with dopamine needs

๐—•๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป:
โ€ข Mood episodes, not moments
โ€ข Last days โ†’ weeks
โ€ข Sleep changes, energy swings, grand ideas
โ€ข Periods of depression + mania/hypomania

They CAN co-exist. And many with one get misdiagnosed as the other especially women and AFAB individuals.

๐—œ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—บ:
โŒ wrong medication
โŒ shame / identity crisis
โŒ emotional self-blame

๐—”๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€:
โœ” emotional safety before behaviour correction
โœ” routines that protect energy
โœ” sleep + sensory stability focus
โœ” tools to slow impulses safely
โœ” self-compassion for inconsistent capacity

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€ (๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ท๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ):
โ€ข Daily structure building
โ€ข Emotional pattern tracking
โ€ข Energy budgeting
โ€ข Crisis-prevention planning
โ€ข Shame reduction + identity repair

Reflection Prompt:
Which mood shifts feel like โ€œmeโ€ and which feel like my nervous system reacting?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐˜†-๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด & ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜€.

๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต  ๐—”๐—ป๐˜…๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜†, ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป & ๐—œ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†Neurodivergent people donโ€™t struggle because they are neurod...
21/11/2025

๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—”๐—ป๐˜…๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜†, ๐——๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป & ๐—œ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†

Neurodivergent people donโ€™t struggle because they are neurodivergent they struggle because they live in systems that misunderstand them.

๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ก๐—— ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โ€ข Chronic masking
โ€ข Sensory overload
โ€ข Constant correction + criticism
โ€ข Social rejection / being misunderstood
โ€ข Academic + workplace trauma
โ€ข Burnout from โ€œholding it togetherโ€
โ€ข Emotional invalidation growing up

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ:
๐Ÿ˜ฉ anxiety
๐Ÿ’” depression
โš ๏ธ self-doubt
๐Ÿงจ emotional dysregulation
๐Ÿš๏ธ burnout + shutdowns

๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐—ก๐—— ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐˜€๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ป:
โœ” sensory + emotional rest
โœ” structure and predictability
โœ” clarity, not guessing
โœ” safe relationships with no performance required
โœ” autonomy + control in routines
โœ” validation of lived experience

๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜€:
โ€ข Familiar routines, not rigid ones
โ€ข Body-based down-regulation (breathing? movement? compression? warm shower?)
โ€ข Self-soothing sensory kits
โ€ข Visual planning to reduce overwhelm
โ€ข Emotion labeling + processing prompts

๐—ก๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ:
Youโ€™re not โ€œtoo sensitive.โ€
Your nervous system notices what others ignore.

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Emotion regulation tools
โ€ข Shame & trauma unpacking (non-clinical)
โ€ข Nervous system pacing
โ€ข Daily anchors + self-regulation routines
โ€ข Values + identity building

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜:
What part of your life feels safest? Where do you feel most understood?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ก๐—— ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜€.

๐——๐˜†๐˜€๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฎ ๐—ช๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ + ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—˜๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜Dysgraphia isnโ€™t โ€œmessy handwriting.โ€๐—œ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ-๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ...
20/11/2025

๐——๐˜†๐˜€๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฎ ๐—ช๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ + ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐˜†๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—˜๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜

Dysgraphia isnโ€™t โ€œmessy handwriting.โ€

๐—œ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ-๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด:
โœฆ fine motor control
โœฆ visual-motor coordination
โœฆ spatial awareness
โœฆ letter formation + spacing
โœฆ linking thoughts โ†’ written output

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ:
๐Ÿง  thinking faster than the hand can move
โœ๏ธ letters โ€œfall apartโ€ on the page
โณ huge effort for tiny output
๐Ÿ˜ฃ physical and emotional fatigue
๐Ÿ’” shame from teachers/parents misunderstanding

๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐—ฑ๐˜†๐˜€๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜†โ€™๐—ฟ๐—ฒ:
โ€œlazyโ€
โ€œcarelessโ€
โ€œnot trying hard enoughโ€

when in reality, theyโ€™re overworking silently.

๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น + ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ:
โ€ข Hand pain after short writing
โ€ข Slow written output
โ€ข Trouble taking notes in real-time
โ€ข Spelling better verbally than in writing
โ€ข Avoiding writing tasks completely

๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป:
โœจ strong verbal expression
โœจ great memory for spoken info
โœจ creative thinking
โœจ storytelling + imagination

๐—›๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜€:
โœ” Voice-to-text (speech notes, dictation tools)
โœ” Typing instead of handwriting
โœ” Visual organisers over blank pages
โœ” Reduced copying tasks
โœ” Graphic templates for planning
โœ” Permission to write less, say more

๐—ค๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ
๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ:
โŒ โ€œWrite 2 pages about your weekendโ€

๐—ง๐—ฟ๐˜†:
โœ… โ€œRecord a 2-minute voice note or bullet-point list about your weekend, then type key points.โ€


๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฑ๐˜†๐˜€๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฎ ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐˜€ + ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€.

๐—ง๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒโ€™๐˜€ & ๐—ง๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ โ€” ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜† & ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ดTics are involuntary neural discharges, not a choice.Tryi...
19/11/2025

๐—ง๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒโ€™๐˜€ & ๐—ง๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐——๐—ถ๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ โ€” ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜† & ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด
Tics are involuntary neural discharges, not a choice.
Trying to suppress them increases discomfort and stress.

๐—ง๐˜†๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โ€ข Motor tics: blinking, jerking, facial movements
โ€ข Vocal tics: throat sounds, words, phrases
โ€ข Complex tics: patterns, tapping rituals

๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โ€ข Tics flare with stress, excitement, fatigue
โ€ข Shame from public misunderstanding
โ€ข Exhaustion from masking / suppressing
โ€ข Higher co-occurrence with ADHD, OCD, and anxiety

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐˜€:
โœ” Calm response (no staring, comments, or โ€œshushโ€)
โœ” Sensory-friendly quiet spaces
โœ” Tic breaks / rest periods
โœ” Reduce stress & demand loads
โœ” Co-regulation, not correction

๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜:
โ€œItโ€™s okay. Your body is doing something automatic. Youโ€™re safe.โ€

๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น/๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐—”๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—œ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€:
โ€ข Break spaces
โ€ข Speech alternatives for presentations
โ€ข Supportive peers & awareness education

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Nervous system calm techniques
โ€ข Shame reduction & identity safety
โ€ข Social scripts + self-advocacy
โ€ข Emotional regulation & sensory tools

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜:
What would change if society viewed tics the way we view sneezing โ€” involuntary and socially normal?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ-๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜€ & ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜† ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€.

๐—”๐˜‚๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ + ๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒAuDHD is not โ€œdouble difficulty.โ€It is a blended neurotype that combines Autism + AD...
18/11/2025

๐—”๐˜‚๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ + ๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ
AuDHD is not โ€œdouble difficulty.โ€

It is a blended neurotype that combines Autism + ADHD traits, creating:
๐Ÿง  sensory sensitivity
โšก emotional intensity
๐Ÿ’ก creative insight
๐Ÿ”ฅ hyperfocus bursts + focus crashes
๐Ÿ›‘ overwhelm โ†’ shutdown cycles
๐Ÿ” masking + burnout risk

๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ:
โ€ข Both routine + spontaneity needs
โ€ข Social but socially exhausted
โ€ข Overstimulated + restless
โ€ข Big emotions + deep empathy
โ€ข High intelligence but inconsistent performance
โ€ข Difficulty prioritizing + initiating
โ€ข Executive function + sensory overwhelm intersection

๐——๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜€:
โœ” Predictable routines with flexibility windows
โœ” Sensory safe โ€œreset pointsโ€
โœ” Visual timers + external memory systems
โœ” Body-doubling
โœ” โ€œBuffer daysโ€ after social/work intensity
Self-Advocacy Script:
โ€œI need structure and flexibility. I work best with clear expectations and sensory-friendly environments.โ€

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Pacing and burnout prevention
โ€ข Sensory regulation system
โ€ข Task prioritisation using body cues (energy mapping)
โ€ข Supporting identity and reducing masking fatigue
โ€ข AuDHD-specific time + emotion regulation tools

๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ง๐—ถ๐—ฝ:
AuDHD kids aren't โ€œinconsistent.โ€
Their nervous system energy fluctuates.

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜:
Which situations drain you faster โ€” sensory environments, emotional processing, or task pressure?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—”๐˜‚๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€ & ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜€.

๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—›๐˜†๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†, ๐— ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ & ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€Hyperactivity โ‰  โ€œbad behaviour.โ€It's a biological need for movement t...
17/11/2025

๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—›๐˜†๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜†, ๐— ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ & ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€
Hyperactivity โ‰  โ€œbad behaviour.โ€
It's a biological need for movement to regulate focus, emotions, and energy.

๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐˜€:
โŒ learning
โŒ self-esteem
โŒ nervous system stability

๐— ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โœ… attention
โœ… emotional regulation
โœ… working memory
โœ… processing capacity

๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โ€ข Pacing while talking/thinking
โ€ข Tapping legs, bouncing feet
โ€ข Stretching, standing, shifting
โ€ข Playing with objects while listening
โ€ข Talking quickly
โ€ข Needing frequent movement breaks

๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€:
โœ” Flexible seating (floor cushions, wobble stools)
โœ” Fidget tools
โœ” Walk-and-talk study/work
โœ” Stretch breaks every 20โ€“45 minutes
โœ” Movement-before-focus routines

๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น / ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐—ฅ๐—ถ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น:
โœจ Jumping jacks
โœจ Bouncing
โœจ Walking outside
โœจ Loud music then silence

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Build โ€œmovement mapsโ€ (what movement regulates you?)
โ€ข Teach body-feedback awareness
โ€ข Create permission-based movement routines
โ€ข Confidence around self-advocacy for movement needs

Parent Script:
โ€œ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ. ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—บ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.โ€

Reflection Prompt:
๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ: ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ท๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด, ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜€.

๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—”๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป & ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ปADHD isnโ€™t a lack of attention itโ€™s difficulty regulating attention on demand...
16/11/2025

๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐—”๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป & ๐—ง๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป

ADHD isnโ€™t a lack of attention itโ€™s difficulty regulating attention on demand.
Boring, unclear, emotionally heavy, or overwhelming tasks = no dopamine = brain stalls.
This leads to misunderstandings:
People with ADHD aren't lazy.
They are trying to start the engine without fuel.

๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ:
โ€ข Wants to start but can't move
โ€ข Brain โ€œrejectsโ€ tasks that feel unclear or overwhelming
โ€ข Constant mental noise or mental blankness
โ€ข Guilt from procrastination โ†’ freeze cycle
โ€ข Bursts of motivation then crashes

๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—”๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐˜€ & ๐—ง๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€:
โœ” Start with a micro-task (2โ€“5 minutes)
โœ” Body-doubling (study/work alongside someone)
โœ” Visual timers + deadlines
โœ” Write tasks as verbs (โ€œEmail Samโ€ not โ€œWork stuffโ€)
โœ” External storage: planners, whiteboards, apps
โœ” Reward dopamine BEFORE starting (music, movement)

๐—ง๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜:
โ€œIโ€™ll do this for 3 minutes just to get it started.โ€

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Understanding rejection-sensitive nervous system
โ€ข Dopamine-first productivity (reward before task)
โ€ข Accountability systems
โ€ข Habit pairing (do X while Y)
โ€ข Emotional safety + self-compassion for โ€œslow startsโ€

๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ:
Instead of โ€œWhy havenโ€™t you done it yet?โ€
Try:
โ€œLetโ€™s break this into tiny steps and start the easiest one together.โ€

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป:
Which tasks cause the most mental resistance? What emotion sits underneath?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—”๐——๐—›๐—— ๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ-๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€ + ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜๐˜€.

๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€, ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ & ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜†Repetitive behaviours and routines in autism aren't โ€œrigid,โ€ โ€œob...
15/11/2025

๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€, ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ & ๐—˜๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฆ๐—ฎ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜†
Repetitive behaviours and routines in autism aren't โ€œrigid,โ€ โ€œobsessive,โ€ or โ€œimmature.โ€
They are self-regulation tools, neurological safety anchors, and emotional grounding systems.

๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โ€ข Watching the same show repeatedly (predictability = peace)
โ€ข Lining up objects / organising favourite items
โ€ข Stimming (flapping, humming, tapping, pacing)
โ€ข Eating familiar foods
โ€ข Repeating phrases for comfort
โ€ข Strong preference for routines & scheduling

๐—ช๐—ต๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ:
๐Ÿง  Reduce anxiety
๐Ÿ›‘ Prevent overwhelm & shutdowns
๐Ÿ” Process emotions & information
๐Ÿ“ Provide predictability in a confusing world
โšก Help regulate nervous system

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€, ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜€ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ป:
โŒ โ€œMy needs are wrongโ€
โŒ โ€œI must hide myself to be acceptedโ€
โŒ โ€œMy comfort is inconvenientโ€
This impacts mental health more than the trait itself.

๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐˜€ & ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜€:
โœ” Protect stimming routines
โœ” Provide transition warnings
โœ” Use visual schedules
โœ” Honour sameness needs during high-stress periods
โœ” Offer โ€œchoice within structureโ€

๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ โ€” ๐—ง๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜
โ€œIn 10 minutes we will leave. In 5 minutes Iโ€™ll remind you again. Whatโ€™s the last thing youโ€™d like to do before we go?โ€

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Developing flexible safety, not forced flexibility
โ€ข Using routines to build momentum
โ€ข Building โ€œcalm scriptsโ€ for transitions
โ€ข Introducing change through choice + visuals
โ€ข Identity-safe self-regulation (no shame)

๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ณ-๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜:
What repetitive behaviours helped you cope as a child? Were they supported or discouraged?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€ + ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜€.

๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด & ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ปAutistic sensory systems can be highly tuned or under-responsive.Not โ€œpickyโ€ or โ€œd...
14/11/2025

๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด & ๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป
Autistic sensory systems can be highly tuned or under-responsive.
Not โ€œpickyโ€ or โ€œdramaticโ€ nervous system wiring.

๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€:
๐ŸŽง Covering ears in loud places
๐Ÿฝ Avoiding certain textures
๐Ÿ‘• Clothing tags causing pain
๐Ÿ’ก Bright lights โ†’ overwhelm
๐Ÿง˜ Seeking deep pressure or movement

๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐˜€:
โœ” Noise-canceling headphones
โœ” Weighted blankets / deep pressure
โœ” Soft clothing, no tags
โœ” Sensory safe zones
โœ” Predictable environments

๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ธ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—œ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€:
โ€ข Chewable jewelry
โ€ข Fidget tools
โ€ข Compression clothing
โ€ข Noise apps / brown noise
โ€ข Sunglasses indoors if needed

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐—ช๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต:
โ€ข Sensory mapping
โ€ข Nervous-system grounding
โ€ข Building supportive daily routines
โ€ข Advocating for sensory needs

๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜:
โ€œYour sensory needs are real letโ€™s support your body, not fight it.โ€

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป:
What sensory experience exhausts you most?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ธ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜€.

๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐——๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€Autistic communication = direct, honest, precise, information-focused.Not โ€œrude,โ€...
13/11/2025

๐—”๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐——๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€
Autistic communication = direct, honest, precise, information-focused.
Not โ€œrude,โ€ โ€œawkward,โ€ or โ€œliteralโ€ just different social wiring.

๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—น๐˜‚๐—ฑ๐—ฒ:
โ€ข Direct questions + statements
โ€ข Struggle with vague language / hidden meaning
โ€ข Preferring structure & predictability
โ€ข Needing time to process before responding
โ€ข Feeling social exhaustion even when enjoying company

๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐˜€:
โœจ Loyalty & honesty
โœจ Deep thinking
โœจ Integrity
โœจ Fairness & justice focus

๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โœ” Clear language (โ€œPlease put shoes by door before lunchโ€)
โœ” Allow pauses
โœ” Offer written info alongside verbal
โœ” Donโ€™t force โ€œsmall talkโ€ as connection
Self-Advocacy Script for Adults:
โ€œDirect communication helps me respond clearly and respectfully.โ€

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Communication scripts
โ€ข Self-advocacy & boundary-setting
โ€ข Identity-safe emotional regulation
โ€ข Social energy pacing + recovery strategies

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป:
Who taught you that directness was rude rather than efficient?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐˜€๐—บ-๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€.

๐——๐˜†๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฎ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ก๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐——๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒDyscalculia affects number sense, math fluency, sequencing, time awareness, and mem...
12/11/2025

๐——๐˜†๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฎ ๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ก๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ ๐——๐—ผ๐—ปโ€™๐˜ ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ

Dyscalculia affects number sense, math fluency, sequencing, time awareness, and memory.
Not โ€œbad at mathsโ€ different neurological wiring.

๐——๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐˜€:
โ€ข Difficulty judging time (โ€œ5 minutesโ€ vs โ€œ30 minutesโ€)
โ€ข Trouble learning times tables / arithmetic
โ€ข Anxiety around money, timetables, directions
โ€ข Struggles estimating quantities (cooking, budgeting)
โ€ข Avoidance of maths if shamed early in life

๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—บ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป:
โœจ Creative problem-solving
โœจ Strong verbal reasoning
โœจ Empathy & intuitive thinking

๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€:
โœ” Visual aids (blocks, grids, timelines)
โœ” Finger counting & calculators โ€” valid tools
โœ” Math-free budgeting tools (colour envelopes)
โœ” Recipe cards with pictures not numbers
โœ” Maths anxiety strategies + reassurance

๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—น๐—น๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ:
๐Ÿ›’ Budget using cash envelopes or colour coding
โฐ Use visual timers
๐Ÿ“ Step-by-step route planning apps
๐Ÿฅฃ Cooking with pre-measured ingredients

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐˜€:
โ€ข Reducing maths shame
โ€ข Gentler learning environments
โ€ข Budgeting systems that reduce anxiety
โ€ข Time management for number processing differences

๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜:
โ€œMaths is a language weโ€™ll learn it at your pace, your way.โ€

๐—ฅ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐˜:
What early school memory shaped your beliefs about your math ability?

๐——๐—  ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฑ๐˜†๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฎ-๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—ฑ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜€.

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