23/11/2025
๐ฆ๐๐ถ๐ด๐บ๐ฎ & ๐๐ถ๐๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐บ๐ถ๐ป๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐ช๐ฒ๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐
Being misunderstood repeatedly becomes trauma.
Many neurodivergent people donโt fear failure they fear misinterpretation.
๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐บ๐ณ๐๐น ๐ฝ๐ต๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ ๐ก๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ:
โ โYouโre overreacting.โ
โ โStop fidgeting.โ
โ โJust focus.โ
โ โEveryoneโs a bit autistic/ADHD.โ
โ โYouโre too sensitive.โ
โ โCalm down / act normal.โ
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ๐๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฎ๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต:
๐ฉน your needs cause inconvenience
๐ค your true self is unacceptable
๐ mask to survive, not belong
๐๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ป๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ๐:
โข people-pleasing
โข perfectionism
โข burnout
โข self-silencing
โข emotional suppression
๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ:
โ โTell me how this feels for you.โ
โ โYou donโt have to perform to be valued.โ
โ โYour needs matter.โ
โ โLetโs make this work for your brain, not against it.โ
๐๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐ฐ๐๐:
โข Identity repair
โข Unlearning internalised shame
โข Building safe self-expression
โข Advocacy & boundary-setting skills
๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ณ๐น๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ๐ฝ๐:
Which belief about yourself do you want to unlearn?
๐๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฝ๐๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ฒ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ ๐๐๐ถ๐ด๐บ๐ฎ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ป๐๐น๐.