
30/09/2025
Pick Your Battles
Parenting can feel like a battlefield but not every issue is worth fighting over. Choosing your battles protects your energy, strengthens connection, and reduces daily stress.
Questions to ask before engaging:
Will this matter in 5 years?
Is it about safety or values or just preference?
Am I reacting emotionally, or is this really necessary?
Examples:
Socks don’t match? Let it go.
Homework forgotten? Let natural consequences happen.
Running into the street? THAT’s worth the battle.
Benefits of coaching:
Coaching helps parents set priorities and focus on the behaviors that truly matter, reducing constant conflict at home.
Call To Action: Share one battle you chose not to fight recently. Let’s normalize letting go of the small stuff.