Lisa Skeffington

11/12/2025

Who supports you - when you’re the one carrying the emotional load at work and at home?

This Christmas, gift yourself the tools to set boundaries and be heard.

As end-of-year pressure builds - at work and at home - many brilliant women find their voice slipping.

Deadlines rise.�
Expectations grow.�
Christmas demands stretch you thin.

I wonder if this is something you can relate to?

If overthinking, softening your words, avoiding conflict, or carrying the emotional load is your norm… this masterclass is for you.

In this session, you’ll learn how to break the silencing patterns that show up at work and at home, ask for support clearly, set calm boundaries, navigate tricky conversations, and stop carrying the whole emotional load of Christmas on your own - so you actually get to enjoy it!

Register your free place here:

🔥 FINALLY BE HEARD™ — FREE Masterclass�
📅 Mon 16 Dec — 1pm�👉 https://www.empoweredmomentum.com/finally-be-heard-masterclass

A stronger, calmer, and more confident voice is your best way to end the year.

Join FINALLY BE HEARD™, a free 90-minute live masterclass for senior women in leadership. Learn to drop the mask, communicate confidently at work and home, overcome self-doubt, and be truly heard. Limited to 30 spots.

10/12/2025

🎭 When the Mask Starts to Hurt at Home

You hold so much together in your workday…
and then you come home to a second shift no one sees.

You’re the one organising everything.
You’re the one remembering what everyone else forgets.
You’re the one smoothing over the emotions in the room.

And you feel the exhaustion hit the moment you finally stop... Have you felt this way?

Maybe you’ve had those evenings where you’re cooking dinner, replying to messages, mentally planning tomorrow…

and suddenly your body gives you away: the tight chest, the knot in your stomach, the sense that you can’t keep doing everything.

If you paused for just a moment, what would you quietly admit you need right now? x

10/12/2025

How she found her voice, set healthy boundaries, and earned respect without conflict

Gráinne was exhausted and resentful from all the demands on her — at work, at home, and within her family.

She longed to be heard and respected without the backlash, guilt, or alienation that always seemed to follow when she tried to assert herself.
She felt unseen and under-appreciated, often putting others’ needs first while quietly sidelining her own.

Professionally, she championed opportunities for everyone else but felt overlooked and undervalued herself.

The breaking point came when her extended family accused her of being the cause of family conflict — something she knew was neither true nor fair.
That was the moment she decided she’d had enough.

She wanted to feel strong, to speak up with clarity and calm, and to stop carrying other people’s emotions on her shoulders.

So she made a decision — to be brave and seek professional support.

Fast forward six months... Gráinne’s transformation is remarkable.

She now speaks with quiet authority, holds her boundaries firmly, and commands respect both at work and at home. She no longer apologises for who she is or explains herself unnecessarily.

She feels proud of her work, confident in her worth, and at peace within herself. Her communication is clear and calm — and people listen.
She describes herself today as “a confident woman, sure of my purpose and committed to living authentically.”

Her decision to be brave and reach out for professional support changed her life.

Do you know a Gráinne?
Or maybe you feel like her right now?

You have the same choice — to stay stuck in resentment and silence, or to choose courage and start speaking your truth safely and calmly.

You deserve to be heard.
You deserve to be respected.
You deserve to feel free.

From my heart to yours — the first step is the hardest, but it’s also the one that changes everything.

Right now, I have one space available for private mentoring.

If Gráinne’s story speaks to you, send me a private message or simply DM me the word VOICE and I’ll get right back to you with the details.

09/12/2025

What if the real relief you’re craving this Christmas isn’t time off… but a voice that’s listened to?

Give yourself the gift of clear, confident communication this season. Here's how...

🎄 December is here… and the pressure to hold everything together gets louder - at work and at home.

If you’re feeling stretched between deadlines, expectations, family dynamics, and Christmas logistics, you’re not alone - and your voice often gets quieter when life gets noisier.

Join me for a newly released [Free] - FINALLY BE HEARD™ Masterclass,

where we’ll dive into how you can speak up confidently at work and ask for what you need at home this season.

In this December session, you’ll learn how to break the silencing patterns that show up at work and at home, ask for support clearly, set calm boundaries, navigate tricky conversations, and stop carrying the whole emotional load of Christmas on your own.

Come along and meet me in person with the chance to ask questions. Can't make it? Register for a 7-day replay to fit into your busy schedule.

📅 Tues 16 December — 1pm til 2.30pm

🎟️ FREE👉 https://www.empoweredmomentum.com/finally-be-heard-masterclass

Give yourself the gift of being heard this Christmas - in every room you walk into.

Only 30 spaces. Click here to save yours today:
https://www.empoweredmomentum.com/finally-be-heard-masterclass

Join FINALLY BE HEARD™, a free 90-minute live masterclass for senior women in leadership. Learn to drop the mask, communicate confidently at work and home, overcome self-doubt, and be truly heard. Limited to 30 spots.

06/12/2025

Mental Health: The Inside Job - and How to Crack the Code

What if your younger self holds the secret to your peace of mind today?

Discover how connecting with your inner child helps you break free from self-criticism, heal emotional wounds, and build the self-trust needed to thrive as your most authentic self.

Click through here to read the full article:

Your inner child holds the key to your mental wellbeing. In this reflective piece, Lisa explores how healing emotional wounds from your past can transform anxiety, build resilience, and help you live with greater authenticity, confidence, and self-compassion.

04/12/2025

It was a real privilege to be invited onto The Mid-Life Reinvention Show with the gorgeous Kavita Ahuja.

Such a beautiful heart-led and aligned conversation. Together we unpack:

💎A powerful reframe on why your emotional “mask” once served you, but now needs to be released.

💎Tangible steps to recognise burnout, perfectionism, and people-pleasing for what they truly are: survival patterns.

💎The courage to start your reinvention with small, doable acts of honesty and self-compassion.

So grab a cuppa and tune in to the full podcast episode on the power of living authentically below:

https://itsmytimenowcoaching.com/how-removing-the-masks-you-wear-will-help-you-reconnect-with-your-ikigai-and-next-chapter-with-lisa-skeffington/

03/12/2025

“I don’t want to spend my savings.” – Natalie’s Story

Natalie was a high-performing executive who had built a healthy savings account but felt paralysed about using it for her own wellbeing. “I’ve been saving for something important,” she said. But the truth was, she didn’t believe she was important enough.

Her hesitation masked a lifelong habit of dismissing her needs. She lacked trust in her instincts and feared making the wrong choice, which is another sign of her low self-worth.

Once she understood that her emotional wellbeing was the very thing holding everything else together, her perspective shifted.

Natalie’s investment in herself became a turning point. She later shared, “The best return on investment I’ve ever made wasn’t financial, it was emotional. I got me back.”

03/12/2025

I've something very special to share with you today - the second episode of my podcast "The Whispers of Your Inner Child".

My podcast tells the stories of remarkable women who heard the whisper inside to heal, grow and rise. Empowered. Unmasked. Unstoppable.

Episode 2 – Mary Shelley: The Whisper Behind Frankenstein

What if the real story behind Frankenstein isn’t the monster… but the woman who birthed him?

In this episode, we step into the shadowed world of Mary Shelley - a brilliant, grieving teenager who transformed heartbreak, abandonment, and emotional exile into one of history’s most haunting masterpieces.

You’ll discover how the storms inside Mary’s life echoed the storms on the page:
• A mother lost too soon
• A father who kept his distance
• Love tangled with rejection
• And the relentless pressure to be extraordinary in a world that preferred her silent

Through Mary’s eyes, we explore the deeper truth: the monster isn’t a creature… it’s the parts of ourselves we fear, suppress, or believe make us unlovable.

This is a story about creation, identity, and the quiet resilience of a young woman determined not to be defined by her wounds.

Haunting. Human. Unforgettable.

LISTEN ON SPOTIFY
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6jXfNPiuizxfLcUJKywn5H?si=aeSF2HKUSz6bo4PjKPD53g

WATCH AND LISTEN ON YOUTUBE
https://youtu.be/rjIL_t7p4AM

If you enjoy it, please give me a like - and remember to follow so that you never miss an episode! x

01/12/2025

When You’ve Been Holding It All Together - And Christmas 🎄 Is Coming

🎭 DO YOU FEEL THIS WAY?
You wake already tired, mind racing before the day begins.
You’re holding everything together - work, home, expectations - and with Christmas approaching, the pressure only grows. More plans. More emotions. More masks to wear.

🫠 THE TRUTH BENEATH
You’ve been in survival mode for a long time.
The end-of-year demands, family tensions, and festive expectations simply expose how depleted you already are.
Your nervous system isn’t failing - it’s exhausted.

💥 WHY NOW MATTERS
The signs are louder: restless sleep, tears you didn’t expect, feeling more reactive or withdrawn.
If nothing shifts, you’ll enter the holiday season already burnt out.
This is your cue to pause, not push.

💎 Do you perhaps secretly long for?
A calmer December.
Mornings that feel steady, not frantic.
Clear thinking instead of emotional overload.
A Christmas where you’re present, not bracing.

👉THE WAY FORWARD
Let's start with a gentle 20-minute conversation to explore what you most need right now. Book here: https://www.empoweredmomentum.com/apply

💛 You’ve carried so much this year.
You deserve to enter Christmas with clarity and ease, not exhaustion.

With my Lisa-love x

01/12/2025

In my Community today, it's Musical Monday and today’s song is “I Am Light” by India Arie. Perfect for this 1st of December as we step gently into the Advent season.

This time of year brings up so many different emotions.For some, it’s love, anticipation, and fun family moments.For others, it’s a quiet dread - memories that ache, difficult relatives, loneliness, pressure, or the weight of trying to “hold it all together.”

Both experiences are real. Both are valid.And you’re not alone in either.

As you listen to this song, let its message settle into you: You are light. Not because of what you do, who approves of you, or how smoothly your December unfolds… but because of the strength, softness, and truth that lives within you.

Whatever this season stirs in you - hope, heaviness, joy, or uncertainty - your inner light is yours to return to. It grounds you, steadies you, and reminds you who you are beyond the noise and expectations.

In my community, you don’t have to pretend. You can show up exactly as you are - excited, anxious, tired, hopeful, or somewhere in between - and still feel held. Join us here: https://www.empoweredmomentum.com/community-membership

As Advent begins, may this be a month of coming home to yourself, honouring your needs, and remembering the light within you that never goes out.

Take a breath… listen to the song…and let yourself feel that quiet glow again.

Listen on spotify:

https://open.spotify.com/track/6XgtZdXJN7R9Myu80BGebR?si=tAYzxtLpQte69syCBhLazg

Watch and Listen on YouTube

https://youtu.be/ism8dBjxKvc?si=axjA4TStsSwMIHGB

Music video by India.Arie performing I Am Light.

27/11/2025

✨ Finalist – Author of the Year 2025 ✨

Honoured once again to be recognised by the Women’s Business Club as a Finalist for Author of the Year - for the second consecutive year! 📚💛

Women’s Business Club is a remarkable, member-owned cooperative movement that uplifts women through collaboration, visibility, and shared purpose. To be acknowledged by such a powerful community of women supporting women means the world to me.

This nomination celebrates my two published works:

📘 “Anxiety – We Need to Break Up” - a compassionate guide for teens and young adults learning to untangle from anxious thinking.

💛 “From Anxious to Empowered” - a psychodynamic mentoring journey designed to help women heal emotional wounds, quiet overthinking, and rediscover calm confidence in work, love, and life.

These books were written straight from my heart to make emotional wellbeing accessible, relatable, and real.

To remind readers that anxiety doesn’t define you; it invites you to heal.
If my words have ever resonated with you, or if you believe in the power of storytelling to heal, I’d be so grateful for your vote.

🗳️ Vote here → https://womensbusiness.club/u/lisa_skeffington