15/07/2025
"Parents Donât Die â We Let Them Fade When We Forget."
People often say that when parents leave this world, life loses its colour. The house becomes a hollow space, the laughter vanishes, and the walls echo with silence. But in truth, our parents donât truly die. They donât simply disappear. They live onâin us, around us, through us.
The sad reality is that itâs not death that separates us from them. Itâs forgetfulness. Itâs our neglect.
It's when we stop remembering, when we stop cherishing, when we stop seeing them in the people theyâve left behind.
A brother may carry the calm and determined gaze of his father. A sister might shine with the same graceful beauty and warmth as her mother. One sibling may smile just like Dad used toâfull of quiet strength. Another may cook with the same tenderness and love as Mum, filling the house with familiar flavours and forgotten memories.
No, parents donât die.
They never truly leave us.
They remain in our gestures, in our habits, in our voices.
They live in the stories we tell, the lessons we pass down, the traditions we uphold.
We are their legacy. We are their living reflection.
And when you miss them, when your heart aches for their presence, when the world feels empty without their embraceâjust look around. Gather your siblings. Listen. Observe. Youâll find your motherâs soothing smile in your sisterâs eyes. Youâll hear your fatherâs voice in your brotherâs words. They are right thereâwith you. Around you. Within you.
Our parents plant a garden of love from the moment we are bornâa sacred space nurtured with their endless sacrifices, late nights, silent prayers, and unconditional love. Itâs a garden they water with their sweat, their tears, and their dreams.
A place where we always feel safe, even when storms rage outside.
But sometimes, we forget.
We let selfishness, greed, resentment, and pride creep in.
We quarrel. We hurt each other. We tear apart the very garden they built with so much hope.
And in doing so, we donât just drift away from each otherâwe let our parents die a second death: the one caused by indifference.
Parents donât die.
We let them dieâwhen we forget them. When we forget each other.
So love your parentsâwhether they are with you physically or in spirit.
Love your siblingsâthey are living pieces of your parentsâ hearts.
Keep nurturing the garden they created with kindness, unity, and grace.
Let that garden bloom endlesslyâwith compassion, respect, forgiveness, and love.
And in doing so, you will create a paradise on earthâ
A home where the essence of your parents will live on forever.
A heaven not made of gold or clouds, but of hearts that never stop loving.
And in that love, they will never die.
Because they are You.
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