04/12/2025
There are many ways of looking at the world. The same events look different depending on your viewpoint. There can be more than one right, or correct way of interpreting what we see because the world is COMPLEX. Not just complicated, complex -if nothing else it's in a constant state of change. The saying used to be "you can never cross the same river twice, it has moved on".
Yes, we all know this and we know the world is not the same today as it was yesterday, as it's not the same for me as it is for you.
Everybody gets things wrong, everybody.
It's not just incompetence or laziness, everyone is learning about themselves and the world around them all the time. The world and you are everchanging - you have to to be able to adapt to what comes along.
This stimulus to change is what we call stress. Some people seem capable of adapting to everything, others seem so fragile the slightest thing seems to damage them.
Therapists of all types, physical, chemical, emotional "healers" are taught and learn ways of approaching the problems of their patients and apply their methods accordingly.
We are always in ignorance of the true state of the patient - it's too complex, stressed in so many ways by the time we get to see them and always changing.
Even when broken down structure underpins illness such as with cancer the person is still changing.
What levers the therapist can apply depends on the patient and the practitioner, it's an interaction.
People heal themselves, we just help.