18/12/2025
Last week I shared some words about not feeling festive—thank you for all your messages. So many of you shared that this time of year feels heavy too, for all sorts of reasons.
I’ve expanded those reflections into a longer piece exploring why forced cheerfulness feels impossible when we’re struggling (there’s actual neuroscience behind it), what our ancestors understood about winter and the solstice that we’ve largely forgotten, and some gentle, research-backed strategies for navigating these next few weeks.
This is likely my last post before Christmas, so I wanted to offer something that might help you find your own way through this season—however that looks for you.
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May you be gentle with yourself. May you find your own small rituals of comfort. And may you know you are not alone in the dark.
Sending love and strength for the days and weeks ahead,
Lou x