15/04/2026
It was an absolute honour and privilege to look after dear Carole and to support Bren 💙
A private ceremony took place on Monday 13th April at Glynn Valley Crematorium followed by a service of celebration for the life of Carole Mary Gardner. Members of St Austell Soroptimist Club, formed a guard of honour as Brenda and family arrived at St Paul’s Church, Charlestown where a large congregation of friends, colleagues from the Guides, The Red Cross, Meadowbrook Care Home and Soroptimists gathered to remember Carole.
The service, which was conducted by Reverend Paul Arthur, included Carole’s favourite hymns, poems and readings. The Eulogy, read by Soroptimist International St Austell & District’s Joint President Kay Turner, relayed Carole’s well lived life encompassing her early school days in Berkshire and her joining the Brownies and later the Red Cross. Carole’s education continued in Abingdon which followed on in 1961 to teacher training college with her first post in Didcot. Carole then travelled to Germany for 6 years where she taught children of the armed forces and went on to be Deputy Head in Hildesheim. She then returned back to the UK and took a post of Headteacher at St Dennis Church of England Infant and Nursery School, where she also lived. This post she would keep until the school closed, some 24 years later.
Guiding was a huge part of Carole’s life and as a Guide leader, she reopened St Dennis Guides after 30 years, a Rainbow Guider, starting the Rainbow Unit in St Austell, Cornwall County Camp Advisor, a Trainer and Chair of Training. In recognition to her service to Guiding, she attended a Queen’s Garden Party in 2001.
In 1978, she was invited to become a Soroptimist at a newly formed Club at St Austell. Carole was a founder member which was something she had always considered an honour. She was Club President twice and worked on many club committees. Carole and Brenda lived at St Blazey and it was here Carole attended St Blaise church and served as Secretary and Church Warden. This was recognised with an invitation to Clarence House through English Heritage in 2007 when she had lunch with Prince Charles.
A stalwart Soroptimist, Carole gave so much to the St Austell Club and it benefitted from her wisdom, vision and her loyalty.
Alison Crooks, a close family friend, presented the Guide Taps at the end of the service.
Brenda extends her sincerest thanks to Dignity Funeral Directors and in particular Sam of Ken Newcombe Funeral Home, to Nettie for the funeral flowers, to her family and friends, especially her Soroptimist friends for their comfort and support through these difficult times. SI St Austell & District hosted the Wake in the Church Hall, where over 100 people gathered for refreshments and to reminisce over precious memories of Carole.
Donations can be made, in memory of Carole, on-line to www.cornwallrefugetrust.co.uk.