16/07/2025
There are always going to be changes in life, big or small, voluntary or involuntary, so understanding why we don't like change is really important.
Today, we thought it would be helpful to compare two theories of change and help to expose the difficult bits.
Even planned change can have its pitfalls, how many people have got into a really good routine of going to the gym to change their health and fitness and then fallen out of that routine, relapsed into old ways, loads of people.....
How many people know someone isn't good for them, and the relationship needs to end? They break it off but then go back, a relapse in their intention to change....
And then there's the unplanned changes, the loss of a job, not getting those exam results, a medical diagnosis or the death of a loved one, shock and devastation is a typical response, withdrawing and becoming depressed can be experienced. The process of accepting the change is a long one that isn't always linear.
So why try to cope with this alone?
Reach out to people who you can trust, who will relate to your struggle, and seek professional support.
Try Talking!