17/09/2025
Toddler Tantrums – The Storm Before the Calm 🔥
Toddlers live life in extremes. One moment they’re giggling with you over a silly song, the next they’re lying face-down on the floor because you dared to peel their banana “the wrong way.” These outbursts can feel exhausting, but they’re actually a sign of healthy development.
Tantrums happen because toddlers are learning so much, so quickly. Their brains are bursting with new skills, but their emotions run ahead of their ability to communicate. Imagine wanting to explain a huge feeling, but only having a handful of words, no wonder it all spills out as tears, screams, and flailing arms.
As hard as it is in the moment, tantrums aren’t about defiance or manipulation. They’re about a child being overwhelmed by feelings too big for their little bodies. What helps most is not fixing or fighting the tantrum, but being the calm presence that shows them emotions are safe, and that love doesn’t disappear when things get tough.
Toddler storms pass, always. And each one is an opportunity for them to learn, slowly but surely, that big feelings can be managed, soothed, and understood. Your patience now is shaping the way they’ll handle emotions for years to come. And yes, sometimes that patience will come with gritted teeth and a very large cup of tea afterwards. ☕💛