
05/09/2025
💛 When Family Means Well… But It Feels Overwhelming
Bringing a new baby home is such a tender, emotional time. Everyone is excited, and family and friends often can’t wait to visit, cuddle, and “help.” Their intentions are usually full of love – but sometimes the constant advice, visitors, or unasked-for opinions can feel a little… too much.
If you’re finding yourself torn between gratitude and exhaustion, please know you’re not alone. Many new parents feel the same. It’s okay to:
✨ Put boundaries in place (“We’d love visits, but just for an hour.”)
✨ Ask for the help you actually need (a meal dropped off, the dishwasher emptied, holding the baby so you can shower).
✨ Say no – kindly but firmly. Protecting your space and mental wellbeing matters.
Remember: you are the parent. You know your baby best. Family will adjust and respect your wishes in time – and the people who love you most will understand.
This time is about you and your baby bonding, healing, and finding your rhythm together. Give yourself permission to prioritise that. 🌸
How did you (or how are you planning to) manage family support after baby arrives?